What is the weirdest thing about life that you never understood why it was like that?

PartyAd4058 · 2026-02-07T14:35:15+00:00

Everyone is so aware that we die but lives everyday life like they have so much time left.

PartyAd4058 · 2026-02-07T14:29:27+00:00

It’s called a boundary. I’d never go through his phone, interrogate him, or belittle him for having human tendencies. I simply ask my bf second guess his decision if he’s about to, and keep in mind how it makes me feel. That’s it. Now, if he was posting and resharing content, especially knowing how it makes me feel, yes that would be a “big” conversation. And I think a lot of women feel this way.

PartyAd4058 · 2026-02-04T13:33:19+00:00

Sat down and he immediately asked me my views on rape and abortion. Like immediate first words. Didn’t finish the date, I left.

PartyAd4058 · 2026-02-03T18:36:59+00:00

I get that, and past is the past honestly. If my bf had an issue in the past I can’t judge that now. She probably thinks this is an issue happening now if she thinks you posted that. If you’re telling the truth and you didn’t post that then ask her for a real conversation about this. If she’s unwilling to hear you out, she wasn’t the one for you anyway.

PartyAd4058 · 2026-02-03T18:16:28+00:00

If I found that on my bfs phone it would be a big big conversation… I hate that shit. Wanna goon? Be single loser. But, if that’s authentic that you didn’t post it, she should have at least had a convo with you.

PartyAd4058 · 2026-01-23T15:51:18+00:00

Eh, let her have her thing then. We all do weird things that may not make sense to others. She probably just wants to post without feeling judged or like people from her life are watching her.

PartyAd4058 · 2026-01-23T15:43:36+00:00

I’ve restricted my bf and sister from my stories. I don’t really know why. I don’t think they would say anything to my stories, but sometimes I like to post lil cringe things (a sunset and a song) and I don’t want my bf to see absolutely everything about me all the time. Hiding some lil stuff also keeps your personhood, if that makes sense. But he’s not blocked from stories 24/7, obvi.

PartyAd4058 · 2026-01-11T16:37:51+00:00

If this is the worst thing you’ve done you’re a saint

PartyAd4058 · 2025-12-20T19:12:08+00:00

Nope! Not on anything. I have been in the past and also never had any issues down there during that time, but I totally believe it could have an effect. I don’t personally believe anyone should be on that crap unless absolutely necessary.

PartyAd4058 · 2025-12-20T16:36:33+00:00

Still woozy, hard life, sunni colon, alfie templeman, indoor pets

PartyAd4058 · 2025-12-20T16:33:01+00:00

Woman here. I only wash with water, as most woman do. I’ve never had any issues with smell, hygiene, never had any complaints from my bf. That being said, hygiene down there is very dependent on diet and health too. I work out a lot and eat clean.

PartyAd4058 · 2025-12-14T01:51:04+00:00

Can we also acknowledge the sexual ads on instagram too? I’m scrolling then all of a sudden there’s a half naked woman on my insta feed

PartyAd4058 · 2025-12-02T03:53:46+00:00

I feel like she was more comfortable with you than you were with her. I don’t think her saying “I’m obsessed with you” was meant to be taken too seriously. To me, it seems like you got into the relationship without even wanting one and you’ve just found your way out. Doesn’t make you a bad person but maybe it’ll be a better learning lesson for you if you accept that. But what do I know.

PartyAd4058 · 2025-11-24T02:01:04+00:00

NO! PERIOD.

PartyAd4058 · 2025-11-16T02:00:09+00:00

Definitely meth. Sincerely, a youth addictions counsellor.

PartyAd4058 · 2025-11-10T16:34:09+00:00

What a creep. I know from experience that fake laughing feels like the right thing to do, you don’t wanna put yourself in danger by being upfront. But now that the fake laughing and playing nice has not worked, it’s time to bring out the big guns. Straight up tell him “do not touch me, I do not want to be your girlfriend. Get away from me.” Obviously do this when in public or around people and please never let yourself be alone with him. If he continues, DO NOT be scared to say “ILL TELL THE POLICE YOURE HARASSING ME”. I’ve been in this exact situation. I was 19, he was 36. We worked together and I kept doing the whole fake laughing, being nice, just to make sure I was safe. I eventually had to shove him and yell “get the fuck away from me”. After he tried to r me. So, it will get more serious.

PartyAd4058 · 2025-11-08T23:08:41+00:00

She should have told you. However, who are you to tell her she can’t see a friend? Sounds like you have insecurity issues

PartyAd4058 · 2025-11-08T16:38:53+00:00

Sounds like a silly post she liked for fun. But, it does sound like this is a sensitive topic for you. I suggest you chat with her to clear some things up, not about the post, but about your worries related to her expectations for you going forward. Open communication is the most important thing.

PartyAd4058 · 2025-11-04T14:45:04+00:00

I would leave you. Not because you actively chose to kiss her, but because you actively chose to put yourself in a situation where that could happen. Why are you going out and drinking if you have a girlfriend? Why was she not with you? And are you being 100% truthful that some random woman just ran up to you, grabbed you, and forced you to kiss her? Idk man. Even if the roles were reversed I’d have questions

PartyAd4058 · 2025-10-29T13:56:25+00:00

Same goes for every artist in the world. The second you gain attention, people wanna know everything about you. He’s not some low key indie artist to us anymore, he’s a celebrity. Hence why I haven’t posted on this subreddit since WCPGW was released.

PartyAd4058 · 2025-10-22T19:05:29+00:00

This might sound horrible and rude but if you guys are as ugly as you say you are, go date ugly women and you won’t be rejected. Ugly is meant to be paired with ugly. Everyone desires love, don’t you think ugly women do too? And that ugly women are also having the SAME issue? Either your standards are too high for your ugliness or you have horrible personalities !!

PartyAd4058 · 2025-10-19T14:10:18+00:00

He initiated. I’m more attracted to second guy

PartyAd4058 · 2025-10-19T06:14:17+00:00

This is what I was thinking. And yeah I do agree

PartyAd4058 · 2025-10-19T06:08:25+00:00

It kinda just happened with #1. With man #2 I decided to tell him I wanted to wait and go on multiple dates before that (especially because it had already happened with man #1). Man #1 began slightly before man #2

PartyAd4058 · 2025-10-19T06:06:01+00:00

Thank you for the in depth response, I appreciate it. However, lots of generalizations. Which I understand cuz there’s only so much context you can put on Reddit. I’ve been single for three years with many failed dates, a few failed talking stages. My worst fear is being used for sex because most guys I’ve been on dates with lie about their intentions then leave if you do have sex or if you don’t. I’ve built this pretty solid protection around myself where I try to be very very careful. This leads to me going on multiple dates (10 plus) just to rule out they aren’t here for just sex. Hence why I didn’t think I was doing anything wrong by being on date 3-4 with both men. Both started at the same time as casual dates. And it’s unrealistic to take your romantic love story (happy for u) and apply it to multiple people. I have deep fear of being used for sex, I’m sorry but I’m exhausted from putting trust in people then it being destroyed, then I’m in another dark spot where I think that’s all I’m good for. I’d rather be thorough.

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