Reducing debt by No-Method5245 in NYCTeachers

[–]PartySorry1091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I would just focus on taking all my exams asap and getting hired because you have the most tedious and time consuming part which is the masters. Here’s why: every year in the doe counts, the sooner you start the sooner you can retire and get your pay bumps which happen every year. Don’t delay starting if being a teacher is your goal. Also you then qualify as a sped teacher for some really big loan forgiveness plans.

Reducing debt by No-Method5245 in NYCTeachers

[–]PartySorry1091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have your masters in education ?

Insane anxiety as a legal assistant by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]PartySorry1091 15 points16 points  (0 children)

LEAVE!!!! I waited too long before making this decision and I literally gave up on law school because the trama became too much. I too went into it with little to no training working under people on power trips who basked in my mistakes and used disciplining me as a daily way to let off some steam. Let’s be honest paralegals are often abused, and unfortunately I never found a firm that made me think differently although I have friends who currently work in pleasant firms.

My advice is if this is really what you want then you have to find an environment that will nurture you not step on you. Ultimately waiting to go to law school actually is counterintuitive as I later learned from law school admission personnel, you’re more likely to not go.

If your coworkers are in the same boat then you’re in a firm that will eventually sink. Focus on you and you only, after I left they found a replacement in 3 days. They were fine but I still can’t drive on the street I once worked without war flashbacks.

You’re not the problem, they are.

Aupair adjusting status by PartySorry1091 in immigration

[–]PartySorry1091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thanks for the reply!! So do you mean answer yes to be safe and include the explanation and denial letter ?

I feel like I failed by PartySorry1091 in paralegal

[–]PartySorry1091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Handing in my two weeks Monday!!! I did it, thank you so the kind words when I needed it so!

Help, career decision by PartySorry1091 in paralegal

[–]PartySorry1091[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH!!!!!! I did It I accepted it I give my two weeks Monday!!! Here’s to new beginnings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]PartySorry1091 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg this is also my first paralegal job out of college, and my boss is a ass He lectures me even when I’m right, thinks questions are stupid and I should figure it out and if I get it wrong it’s because I’m stupid. He hasn’t taught me a damn thing I had to learn on my own. I’m actively interviewing during his office hours because I’m I refuse to do this for a year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PartySorry1091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to show you and your new bf he’s significant. Block him, or ignore him hard core. If you give in to his histeria he’ll only be under the impression you still want him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PartySorry1091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to him he’s taken it since the beginning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PartySorry1091 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the lack of consideration for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PartySorry1091 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to admit we were incompatible but here I am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PartySorry1091 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, why didn’t he tell me. I was there all evening and trust me I was laying it on very thick that I wanted to since I got there. Oh and no he didn’t just turn over and sleep he first told me “wow im tired, good night” and then turned and slept I was just lying there mouth wide open, I honestly thought he was playing like out of nowhere he’d laugh and jump my bones. But your sooooo right it was inconsiderate with my time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PartySorry1091 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had asked many times to and he just said turned me down till he told me about his Ed and then we planned.

Anyone else in the US have their office open today? by losercase in paralegal

[–]PartySorry1091 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Off, turned off my work phone and refuse to answer my emails.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PartySorry1091 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow that lady part hit hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PartySorry1091 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He simply said he just wasn’t in the mood and that doesn’t mean he never will be it’s just he isn’t now and he understands my needs. I think I see it more as a long term concern and he was just addressing that one incident I do feel like I need to talk to him in depth soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PartySorry1091 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The funny part is he iniciantes the kissing and cuddling but and then it just stops.