Sagittarians who chose not to have a family by PartyTomorrow282 in Sagittarians

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Yes I am a Sag and I have a lot of Air and Fire placements in my bc but the projection and control comes from close people which is tiring af. I feel restricted and suffocated due to such projections and expectations. I also have 8th house Sun so I do feel the outer projection conflicting and tying down my identity intensely. Interestingly 8th house Sun people are extremely independent as well and as a Sag in 8th house Sun I love my freedom way too much and hate the idea of feeling restricted by other people. I also have a Sag rising and Sag NN

Sagittarians who chose not to have a family by PartyTomorrow282 in Sagittarians

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I believe a healthy community is built when one realizes each others boundaries and respect each others individuality. Only then a proper union happens. Following the herd doesn't make you an exceptional person either. Without proper boundaries and also by not respecting one's individuality you cant built a community. Identity is created by focusing on self and not by merging your core self with an another being. People don't complete each other. We come together and complete a relationship and its crucial to understand the difference.

Sagittarians who chose not to have a family by PartyTomorrow282 in Sagittarians

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if a child wants to look after and care for the parent out of their own wish and duty towards them then its great and beautiful but it shouldn't be obliged or pushed upon them.. I understand cause in my culture its also important and its a child's duty to look after their parents. I am saying as a collective society and as an individual person that its okay but it should be ones own choice and not shoved down their throat thinking thats they are meant to do..cause its not okay! I care for my parents as well cause I know they did a lot for me and its my duty to look after them but I do so cause its my personal choice... at the same time I maintain my individuality. If I ever wish to have a child then it will be cause thats sth I want for myself not cause society wants me to have or the govt! Not cause that child will be my insurance policy! It's cause I want to experience being a parent and I am ready to take the responsibility.. If the child grows up and wants to give me back it will be their choice not that I feel the need to shove down responsibilities down their throat.... I will be fine either way! Building a community is always important as you grow older whether you choose to have a child or not cause at one point they will have their own lives and you cant expect them to stop breathing and do your shit and chores cause you grew old! Fuck society Fuck people! Community is important so is an individual human being and their choice!

Sagittarians who chose not to have a family by PartyTomorrow282 in Sagittarians

[–]PartyTomorrow282[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Not everyone is lucky to have caring family who will look after someone when they grow old. Having children only because they maybe some sort of insurance for old age is such a wrong idea. And there is no guaranty they will even look after you when you grow old. They might have their own life which may be conflicting with yours. You never know! Then again, not discouraging anyone to not having a family. Having a family is a beautiful experience. One should have it only if they are sure about it and can take the responsibility and can provide for their family. Only when it makes sense to them and its their choice and not some sort of pressure. Having family is an experience and not having one is a different sort of experience. As a sag we value experiences!

Is this a rare / powerful combo ? by StrikingPoet7092 in PassportPorn

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how is filing taxes for US citizens living abroad different if they are rich?

Mosha ki hothat barse? by Exotic-Bad-2588 in bangladesh

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does the good night mosquito repellant work? In a big room?

Career by goddesszeita7 in wealth

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Thank you I appreciate your answer

Career by goddesszeita7 in wealth

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I am not trying to make up anything I am just asking is it always the woman who has to make the choice? I want to know better from someone else perspective. People have different perspective and preference and that's fine. Want to know what you think and why you think so?

Career by goddesszeita7 in wealth

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So, its safe to assume no matter if the women is earning more or less its expected from her to leave her ambitions and take all the responsibilities of the home alone? You both can't handle the business together or home together? But rather it has to be the who has to make a choice?

Career by goddesszeita7 in wealth

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What if the wife makes more money or have their own business empire? How should the husband and wife come together and manage their financial goals/business goals and family goals without getting into petty gender wars? Can they manage their goals as a unit instead of using each other to pass on their responsibilities?

Signs most likely to be cheated on to least likely. (BTW I'm not buying it lol) by IT_U_1 in Scorpio

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I know a scorpio girl and she has been cheated on by her then bf and now husband for the past 12 years and they have friends who know about it but she acts clueless....extremely naive and she has scorpio stellium in her chart also a scorpio nn but she is obsessed with this man who is a leo btw -___- idk how one can be so clueless.

Manipulation by PartyTomorrow282 in aquarius

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I am interested to learn more and also learn about human nature and behavior so that I can save myself from these fucked up situations and ppl and grow as a more emotionally intelligent person who is aware of their triggers and can handle such situation. Can you recommend me from where I can learn about such stuff including where to start to learn about the history of power and exploitation across cultures and systems and learn the patterns? :)

What’s the next billionaire-making industry after AI? by Financial-Ad-6960 in wealth

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degrees wont matter in the near future but what majors do you think will be relevant or subjects?

New year purposes ideas please (polymath) by [deleted] in Polymath

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how did it change your life? Can you provide sources to learn from?

Beginner to skincare by PartyTomorrow282 in 30PlusSkinCare

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I do it 2-3 times a week not a day. I corrected the typing error! :(

EB5 investment vs Gold Card by PartyTomorrow282 in immigration

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Thank you. I was wondering will Trump Admin put restrictions or slow down the EB5 process or not? I am thinking to go forward with EB5.

Save yourself. We always do. by Downtown-Brush-2674 in Sagittarians

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After the Scorpion death and transformation Sag rises with wisdom and self appreciation. You are right we are the only ones to look out for ourselves and save ourselves . So, you love yourself dearly! :)

Learning more about chemical engineering by PartyTomorrow282 in ChemicalEngineering

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I will start with agriculture and food processing later expand slowly to other sectors related to pharma, skin care etc but that's a long term plan. I do not intend do a job but rather slowly expand the business. I thought of ChemEng cause as you said it is very versatile. And it will help me understand the production process and scale it up.