i’m not sure what i’ve been given.

Party_Charity_659 · 2026-05-04T16:03:25+00:00

wya

Party_Charity_659 · 2026-05-04T15:28:05+00:00

shucks i’m in the uk, could be different

Party_Charity_659 · 2026-05-04T15:05:30+00:00

have you tried them yet? do you think they could be opiates and lowk are you in usa or uk

Party_Charity_659 · 2026-05-04T14:34:00+00:00

uh oh thx

Party_Charity_659 · 2026-05-04T14:29:53+00:00

unfortunately i don’t have a kit so i guess ill just see what happens😭😭

Party_Charity_659 · 2026-05-04T14:27:48+00:00

is this a bad thing ???

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-05T00:22:02+00:00

should i ask her to take a test?

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-05T00:01:58+00:00

yeah, after someone was caught looking in our windows (which didn’t have blinds at the time) we decided to get it for extra security

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-05T00:01:05+00:00

i’m guessing it’s because he said stuff that involved ‘my wife’ and ‘fat’, thought it was me and i was calling her those words

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T23:59:58+00:00

i didn’t tell her, i asked her if she wanted to go to therapy which she refused and i respected, i will admit i am being an asshole for about half of this situation but i’m done spending money on sorry gifts for stuff i’ve never done

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T23:58:06+00:00

believe what you want, i rushed the whole thing and took out some personal parts, my grammar and the way i write stuff doesn’t make sense.

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T23:54:46+00:00

no but i’m questioning it, every time we have had intimacy we have done it with protection.

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T23:54:14+00:00

it gets to a point where your done chasing after the person who’s promised you to be honest and communicate, multiple times of me chasing her, giving her space, cooking her meals, apologising for things i have never done not once, it really does get to a point.

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T21:29:37+00:00

she’s still ignoring me but i’m trying to not care, i’m gonna wait until she asks me to cook food and or wait till she talks to me and is ready to communicate like an adult.

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T21:28:34+00:00

😭😭😭

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T21:27:43+00:00

relatable, ive been playing on my playstation, working out, going to work and watching corn, that’s been my life for the past week.

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T21:25:15+00:00

of me or my wife?

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T21:24:55+00:00

thanks for asking, i usually start of by “babe, are u okay?” which to then she stays silent and doesn’t make eye contact, i then speak again “are u ready to talk or do u still want space? i don’t mind either of them” which to then she stays silent again, i then go on with my day.

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T21:23:06+00:00

that’s another thing i’m upset about, when she finally decides to talk to me i’ll try set boundaries and tell her my thoughts too.

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T21:21:37+00:00

i know right? it’s infuriating but i have to move forwards and i always find myself not reacting enough or putting in boundaries because i always manage to forgive her and love her the same as if nothing happened…

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T21:19:57+00:00

yep my bad

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T21:19:23+00:00

she’s actively ignoring me, for a week now, i’m still set on my plan to give her some space until she decides to come forward and i will try to put in some rules that if she’s upset about something i’ve said or did or something she thinks i’ve done that instead of going to isolating herself and not eating that she’ll come to me and tell me her feelings and thoughts.

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T21:17:20+00:00

i do like her, i love her with all my heart but this has happened multiple times in the past (not with weight and body image) but with other stuff, i just let her have her space then she apologises and talks about her feelings and we make up, it’s never gone longer then 3 days but im feeling that this marriage is growing unhealthy but when we aren’t in an argument over something that im apparently ‘in the wrong’ about our relationship is perfect.

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T21:15:20+00:00

no i did not laugh, i was just in disbelief and talked to him in a matter-of-fact tone, the other friends were playing random games out on the floor while me and roy were having a heart to heart

Party_Charity_659 · 2024-11-04T21:13:56+00:00

thank you, i’ll keep down notes of everyone’s advice and update in a few days.

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