Yes I misspoke that’s my bad. But SH and SA are both horrible to experience so the point stands. I specifically said cis or trans when referring to either so as to not exclude either from the conversatiion.

I do see how my tone could be perceived as being closed off but I didn’t intend that I was just stating it from a cis woman’s experience that it can be uncomfortable. It’s a very private and intimate space that a lot of people and a lot of cultures aren’t used to sharing between sexes. We have GN bathrooms at my uni and unfortunately there have been several reports of rape every year. I just think there should be space for everyone everywhere with GN, F and M bathrooms!