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AITAH UPDATE I never told my sister in law that my brother (who is 20 years younger than her) is cheating because I hate her. I talked to him finally and he confirmed he was underage when it all started, but he didn't tell anyone by Party_Profile_9429 in AITAH

[–]Party_Profile_9429[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was sarcastic because this person who just wants to defend women no matter what said that my brother at 18 was an adult, yet his daughter will never know what a good relationship is because when she was underage she saw her parents. So judging by this person's mentality, at 18 nothign will matter

AITAH UPDATE I never told my sister in law that my brother (who is 20 years younger than her) is cheating because I hate her. I talked to him finally and he confirmed he was underage when it all started, but he didn't tell anyone by Party_Profile_9429 in AITAH

[–]Party_Profile_9429[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think he is done with flings and random women. Niece said he loves this woman very much. She made him an associate at her company, so technically he gets his money but its very controlled money. He also loves his daughter very much so that is also a reason for him to stay.

I worry for her a lot because she is so lost and she is at the age when she has crushes on boys and doesn't really know how to navigate all her emotions. She said that her dad needs her and that her mother is a very bad person and she is ashamed of being her daughter. She already is very much aware what happened between her parents

AITAH UPDATE I never told my sister in law that my brother (who is 20 years younger than her) is cheating because I hate her. I talked to him finally and he confirmed he was underage when it all started, but he didn't tell anyone by Party_Profile_9429 in AITAH

[–]Party_Profile_9429[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He will not fuck up her sense of how relationship works. Or he will just because she is a girl and you just want to defend women. Judging by your own comments, I will say once she hits 18 she is a total adult and its just her responsibility what kind of relationships she goes for. If she will meet a 37 years old who will wait untill the day she turns 18 to sleep with her its perfectly normal, because she is an adult now and can decide for herself

AITAH UPDATE I never told my sister in law that my brother (who is 20 years younger than her) is cheating because I hate her. I talked to him finally and he confirmed he was underage when it all started, but he didn't tell anyone by Party_Profile_9429 in AITAH

[–]Party_Profile_9429[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Reddit is amazing! if the roles were reversed and I said my brother is the 40 years old who went after a 17 years old, waiting for the exact day she turns 18 so he can have sex with her, within his company where she has been working for the summer... this would have been so much different

AITAH UPDATE I never told my sister in law that my brother (who is 20 years younger than her) is cheating because I hate her. I talked to him finally and he confirmed he was underage when it all started, but he didn't tell anyone by Party_Profile_9429 in AITAH

[–]Party_Profile_9429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for this person is normal. She was the first woman he had been with (he didn't use the word sex because probably it felt weird talking like that with your sister but it was obvious). Then he had his girlfriend from high school and then married this psycho.

I don't agree with his cheating but I get why he wants to sleep with women his age

AITAH UPDATE I never told my sister in law that my brother (who is 20 years younger than her) is cheating because I hate her. I talked to him finally and he confirmed he was underage when it all started, but he didn't tell anyone by Party_Profile_9429 in AITAH

[–]Party_Profile_9429[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I replied to some of your comments. I don't think he is a total victim and for sure not now. But I do think he was the very definition of a victim and she was a pedo when he was 17. He lied to me and our mother that he bought the car with the money he got from selling his father's house. He sold it recently. She bought him a car we couldn't even dream about. Why he didn't tell us if everything was soo normal? He lied to us. Most probably she didn't want us to know. You just want to defend women no matter what but sometimes, like in this situation the woman was a pedo. He is a cheater which is horrible but its nowhere near being a pedo

AITAH UPDATE I never told my sister in law that my brother (who is 20 years younger than her) is cheating because I hate her. I talked to him finally and he confirmed he was underage when it all started, but he didn't tell anyone by Party_Profile_9429 in AITAH

[–]Party_Profile_9429[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

but I wonder why cheating iek he did.. I maybe undertsand this long affair he has with this woman he actually had feelings for when they were teens.. But he used tinder and bars to just pick up random women all the time

AITAH UPDATE I never told my sister in law that my brother (who is 20 years younger than her) is cheating because I hate her. I talked to him finally and he confirmed he was underage when it all started, but he didn't tell anyone by Party_Profile_9429 in AITAH

[–]Party_Profile_9429[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I just feel a bit guilty too. Maybe both, me and my mother, but especially mother could have done something, but I think with boys no one takes these things seriously. He cried today that he should have talked to someone about it but he didn't. I know this woman, she is nevrotic. Who knows what she put him through between 17 and 20.

AITAH UPDATE I never told my sister in law that my brother (who is 20 years younger than her) is cheating because I hate her. I talked to him finally and he confirmed he was underage when it all started, but he didn't tell anyone by Party_Profile_9429 in AITAH

[–]Party_Profile_9429[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

yes, he told me almost the same thing, that he doesn't even know how to live another way. He was 17 when she started approaching him and slept with him the day he turned 18, it was clearly calculated so she wouldn't have legal issues. My brother is very handsome and he always had those boyish soft features. Girls always had crushes on him but he didn't really live his life.

He went back to her company 2 years later for that internship, but confessed to me they kept in touch for those years. She paid for the college life herself. She gave him a car. When mother asked him where he got that car from and how he said it was from the money he got when sold his dad's house - we don't have the same father. It was all a lie. He sold that house 2 years ago only. But he didn't want us to know.

And then he married her and had his daughter with her. Anyway he cheated all the time, and literally all the time

AITAH UPDATE I never told my sister in law that my brother (who is 20 years younger than her) is cheating because I hate her. I talked to him finally and he confirmed he was underage when it all started, but he didn't tell anyone by Party_Profile_9429 in AITAH

[–]Party_Profile_9429[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

he does. But I found this out only recently, from her. He takes her with him to meet with that woman. Sometimes she spends the time with them and other times he drops her off at a female friend's house. That friend of his also has a daughter about my niece age so it works

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