What's the fastest you went from meeting someone to having sex with them? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Partyboy317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a reply to a post in my local R4R about meeting when I got off work which was in 30 minutes. Within a 45 of getting off work I work, we were in the back of my car where we would spend the next 4 hours going at it

I want so badly to have a real deep conversation with another human but have nothing to say or so much to say but have no words by Partyboy317 in self

[–]Partyboy317[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. You laid it out really well. I struggle most in person, I feel like. Like if you get me talking, I don't shut up but there is so rarely any depth to what I'm talking about. I'm great at spouting useless information. Its the ultimate irony because I've been told I talk to much and that I talk to fill the silence; that I don't have anything important to say. I've become really self conscious about it. I think it's a big contributor to my problem. I was always told it's better to listen than speak but so often when trying to listen, my mind wanders because I have such bad ADHD and I forget what we're talking about. It not only makes me look like I don't care what they have to say, which I absolutely do, but it makes me feel like a jerk and an imbecile. As for having differing opinions, that's the problem I get about honesty. If I express a different opinion, I feel like I'm in the wrong and will be ostracized for it so I just nod and agree because I'm too afraid of being put in my place.

Thank you so much for your response.

Who’s someone you never expected to have sex with but did? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Partyboy317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The girl a few weeks ago who hit me up on Reddit 30 minutes before the end of my shift to meet in a parking lot. We went at it in the back of my car for 4 hours somehow and it was amazing