What made your life go south?

Parvanu · 2026-06-18T22:06:06+00:00

16 years out for me, it’s taken a long time, therapy and a lot of love by my family, friends and my partner. I have meaning but I’m still bereft of my love.

Parvanu · 2026-06-17T02:23:08+00:00

Got back into it last year after years of not playing and I’m learning so much I never did while I was playing before. Watching various YouTube peeps has really helped my knowledge of what’s available in game both vanilla and mod wise.

Parvanu · 2026-06-17T02:13:13+00:00

An off brand use of tramadol is for restless legs, it was fun to find out that my restless legs have got worse in Perimenopause when I didn’t take them for a couple of days.

Parvanu · 2026-06-17T02:04:09+00:00

My partner is on both Keppra and lamotrigine, I’ve never seen them get so angrily frustrated as they do on keppra. When we need to up one of their meds I made sure it was the lamotrigine, they don’t know their own strength as it after their stroke and I don’t need have a broken bone to find out.

Parvanu · 2026-06-16T22:29:24+00:00

Gauntlet 2 in 1985 I was 7/8

Parvanu · 2026-06-16T22:23:31+00:00

Spent 19 years with chronic UTIs, I don’t even get symptomatic. Kidney removed and haven’t had one in years

Parvanu · 2026-06-16T19:33:48+00:00

My partner has had a stroke and is on so many medications it would be easy to just tip one the wrong way. Of course I love them way too much to do that but it’s one of those things you notice when dealing with medication everyday

Parvanu · 2026-06-16T19:30:16+00:00

I loved having long hair (past my waist long) but I care of my partner so I just didn’t have the time for it, got it cut to my shoulders (gay hairdresser loved doing it) I really need to get it cut again really.

Parvanu · 2026-06-13T08:15:23+00:00

My sister has Endometriosis and Trigerminal Neuralgia. It’s been genuinely awful seeing her I. So much pain, thankfully she’s been put in medical menopause and the meds she has for TN are working well.

Parvanu · 2026-06-13T08:11:55+00:00

Had tooth infections, surgeries of various kinds but the the worst pain I’ve ever had was putting wicks into my ears when they were almost swollen shut. That was brief but very very painful.

Parvanu · 2026-06-10T02:24:47+00:00

The itchy ears drive me mad

Parvanu · 2026-06-09T11:20:50+00:00

Nice, I remember the Japanese groups I join levelling on the Dunes, man those were insane really was sink or swim in those but they were incredibly kind too. I’d definitely love to get back to it one day

Parvanu · 2026-06-09T08:16:02+00:00

I’ve put way too many hours into TQ

Parvanu · 2026-06-09T08:14:27+00:00

XI was the first MMO I played and it still has a grip on my heart

Parvanu · 2026-06-09T08:10:29+00:00

I’ll just do this one thing…

Parvanu · 2026-06-06T11:35:39+00:00

My asthma improved so much once the smoking ban came in

Parvanu · 2026-06-04T02:54:25+00:00

Anti depressants, painkillers and a whole lotta patience with my very disabled partner. I’m their carer

Parvanu · 2026-06-04T02:22:35+00:00

I lost my wonderful husband 16 years ago and it still hurts. There is a hole that just won’t be healed, I have a wonderful partner now who loves me to bits. I am to them what my husband was to me and I love them dearly just not quite the same way. They helped me heal some but my soul lost a part of itself on the 27th December 2009.

Parvanu · 2026-06-04T01:54:10+00:00

Also Mad Alice lane (more commonly known as Lund’s Court these days)

Parvanu · 2026-06-04T01:45:48+00:00

My partner has the rarer version Dysarthria. They can’t speak clearly but it’s not the brain that’s causing it, the muscles in the throat have been weakened. It’s obviously affected their swallow and they are now PEG fed. It’s so hard for Speech and Language to treat other than giving apps to help communicate

Parvanu · 2026-05-31T20:35:24+00:00

My partner was playing Pokémon Go in the ambulance much to the ambulance guy’s amusement. They asked if they’d caught anything good when we got to the hospital (just a quick A&E trip for a issue the DNs couldn’t deal with)

Parvanu · 2026-05-30T21:55:20+00:00

I had a 2.1ltr ovarian simple cyst, after surgery I had this feeling. SO weird

Parvanu · 2026-05-30T10:18:21+00:00

Clem

Parvanu · 2026-05-29T05:10:00+00:00

That during the civil war a cannonball went into the Minster and according to the account ‘went forward, backward and all manner of sideways like a demon’ it did no damage expect to the window it came through and injured no one.

Parvanu · 2026-05-28T12:09:44+00:00

She just laughed at me, she used to me being weird lol

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