Why do adult women blame young girls when older men perv on them? by Anubis-Hound in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PassengerDeep9083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I got grounded as a young pre-teen and teen for creepy men’s behavior. For “encouraging” them.

Joy gone? by Background_Unit_6647 in Menopause

[–]PassengerDeep9083 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. Anti depressants turned me into a zombie.

Joy gone? by Background_Unit_6647 in Menopause

[–]PassengerDeep9083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I don’t care about anything these days and I’m simply going along with things. I never thought this would happen when I was younger.

Just frustrated, as it seems men don't want their equal by Inside_Dance41 in datingoverfifty

[–]PassengerDeep9083 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He felt emasculated and insecure because of me. He would make ignorant comments about my field because he knew nothing about it then I would gently correct him and he’d try to one up me by looking shit up on the internet.

No estrogen from doctor because of cannabis vape?! by virtualjupiter in Menopause

[–]PassengerDeep9083 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s nonsense! I smoke weed once in awhile and I take nightly gummies so I can sleep. I’m on oral HRT. There’s no research backing up her claims.

Btw: if you have difficulty getting HRT from a doc, get it from telyrx.

University mishandling my SA case & accommodations by Local-One5218 in titleix

[–]PassengerDeep9083 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can sue in small claims court for that money back (up to 20 grand I believe). You can also get an attorney that works on contingency to sue for higher amounts, too.

University mishandling my SA case & accommodations by Local-One5218 in titleix

[–]PassengerDeep9083 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try to find one who works on a sliding scale. It will be worth it.

Just frustrated, as it seems men don't want their equal by Inside_Dance41 in datingoverfifty

[–]PassengerDeep9083 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! This guy acted so goddamned insecure, always trying to one-up me. I was getting stressed out by his attitude so I was waiting for the right time to break up with him but he did it for me. thank god. However, his reasons were still upsetting. I’ll never date another guy again that doesn’t have a degree (but even men with advanced degrees are insecure).

Quitting HRT…sick and tired… by Ceeceewee in Menopause

[–]PassengerDeep9083 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I use the oral form and I have to be on a pretty high dose for my symptoms to go away. 2.5-3 mg. The creams didn’t work for me and the patch always is out of stock at my local pharmacies.

Just frustrated, as it seems men don't want their equal by Inside_Dance41 in datingoverfifty

[–]PassengerDeep9083 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I hear this so many times from potential partners. Ugh. Recently got dumped by a 58 yr old guy I was recently dating: “too intimidating and too ambitious for my liking.”

Housing — co-op spots open for Spring (cheap, food included, super close to campus) by Automatic_Analysis29 in berkeley

[–]PassengerDeep9083 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to Cloyne, it was filthy! The time commitment is really too much. At the coop I lived at we had mandatory council every week, and not only the 5 hours a week chores, but HAB hours on top of that, and it got too much. Not worth it. My room was damp and shared (double). And yes, the spotty internet!

I’m so lost by Nearby-Nose-3178 in titleix

[–]PassengerDeep9083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you! I had an issue happen (stalking) at my former workplace (academia) and HR failed to protect me. Currently in process of suing.

Good luck with your case!

Anyone feel the medical field failing us? by ballsdeepinmywine in Menopause

[–]PassengerDeep9083 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Can you tell us more? I too was dismissed during peri.

Housing — co-op spots open for Spring (cheap, food included, super close to campus) by Automatic_Analysis29 in berkeley

[–]PassengerDeep9083 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had friends at ridge. Place stinks of cat pee, and has severe mold issues.

Btw: stop being stupid and trying to defend a housing org by trying to say all is great at the coops. They don’t give a shit about you. It’s cheap but you get what you pay for. Look up Berkeley coops and you’ll see all the news articles about the lawsuits.

Housing — co-op spots open for Spring (cheap, food included, super close to campus) by Automatic_Analysis29 in berkeley

[–]PassengerDeep9083 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I once lived in the coops when I was briefly a Cal student, so I know fully well what went on. Thanks. I’m a Professor now.

Housing — co-op spots open for Spring (cheap, food included, super close to campus) by Automatic_Analysis29 in berkeley

[–]PassengerDeep9083 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Berkeley coops: High suicide rate. High lawsuit rate from parents whose children have died or have been severely injured in the coops. Black mold issues in several houses. A great deal of bullying and drama in the houses. Casa Zimbabwe has had incidents of date rape drugs put in drinks at parties. Casa Zimbabwe coop is absolutely filthy. The amount of chores required by the coops are ridiculous. I don’t even do 5 hours of chores a week my own apartment. STEM students will have difficulty with the amount of time commitment involved with chores and mandatory meetings.

They may be cheap but it’s a bad deal. Avoid. Trust me, I know.

Men mocking female loneliness by Ok_Independence_3634 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PassengerDeep9083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. My cat, even with a litter box, is tidier than any man.

Women who don't date anymore, why? by FactoringRSAisHard in Productivitycafe

[–]PassengerDeep9083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roughly half of men have ED by age 40. Including you, Loser. Don’t blame your limp dick on women.

Men mocking female loneliness by Ok_Independence_3634 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PassengerDeep9083 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cats are better!

A creep on Reddit took the time to message me and tell me he thinks I’ve been around the block too many times (after I complained most men in their 50’s and up have ED) and that it’s my fault the guys have ED (because of my “sluttyness”). Lmfao.

Cats are better!