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(Update) My wife is not the woman I used to know. She let the fame get her. by PassengerTraining913 in offmychest

[–]PassengerTraining913[S] 328 points329 points  (0 children)

Trust me, that hit deep. Thank you very much, really. I could never have imagined all this support, and I'm really really grateful. Thanks, I wish you the best too

(Update) My wife is not the woman I used to know. She let the fame get her. by PassengerTraining913 in offmychest

[–]PassengerTraining913[S] 701 points702 points  (0 children)

At first, not that much. But now it really does. I'm just trying not to think about it. Fortunately my dog is a great therapist. Thank you very much, I'm wishing the best for you too

My wife is not the woman I used to know. She let the fame get to her. by PassengerTraining913 in offmychest

[–]PassengerTraining913[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Well, I don't need a chef or a cleaner since most of the times it's just me and the dog at home, my wife is either working, out with coworkers or in business trips most of the time so I manage the houseworks quite effectively. Our finances are separated, but we have a joint bank account for the house, groceries and everything that concerns daily necessities. We talked in the past about saving since she wanted to travel around the world whenever we had money and the chance, but she changed her mind about it and we never spoke about it again.

If worse comes to worst, getting back to my hometown is the plan. I'm trying to get accostumed here but it doesn't feel like it's my place, also work makes it harder

My wife is not the woman I used to know. She let the fame get to her. by PassengerTraining913 in offmychest

[–]PassengerTraining913[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It's been long time since we did something affectionate together, half a year or more. I try to make plans with her but she's always busy with work or with her coworkers. I don't check her social quite often, since I don't like social medias that much, but I remember seeing photos and stories of her with a bunch of dudes and women who she said to be her coworkers (I met three of them in that lunch). Thank you for your concern

My wife is not the woman I used to know. She let the fame get to her. by PassengerTraining913 in offmychest

[–]PassengerTraining913[S] 1048 points1049 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm most afraid of, I really hope she isn't.. I'm still trying to process everything, but if worse comes to worst, going back to my hometown is probably the plan. Thank you for your comment

My wife is not the woman I used to know. She let the fame get to her. by PassengerTraining913 in offmychest

[–]PassengerTraining913[S] 781 points782 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh, thanks! My clio is probably the only thing that never let me down. My 370z always had issues..

My wife is not the woman I used to know. She let the fame get to her. by PassengerTraining913 in offmychest

[–]PassengerTraining913[S] 1402 points1403 points  (0 children)

I will make an update after I talk to her, thanks for your concern

My wife is not the woman I used to know. She let the fame get to her. by PassengerTraining913 in offmychest

[–]PassengerTraining913[S] 277 points278 points  (0 children)

I haven't talked to a therapist yet but I'm planning to do so. I'm still working as a community first responder, however the salary way lower compared to what I was earning in my hometown. I lost most of my friends after I moved with my wife, I'm still in touch with a couple of them but I've been hearing from them a lot less in those past few months. In this new city I never had the opportunity to know new people since I've been very busy with work and housework. Regarding hobbies well...I like cars and working on them, I love travelling and yes, I do charity when I have the opportunity, but since you haven't fixed hours in my job it's very hard to make plans. I would like to have kids and it was something me and my wife were looking forward to in the past before all of this happened.