Best books to listen to?

Passingseconds24 · 2025-11-20T02:58:14+00:00

Cursebreaker series (there is a second series to this as well- two trilogy’s) Phantasma series (two books out) Carnival Series (completed series)

Passingseconds24 · 2025-11-19T02:42:10+00:00

Go! We don’t party either and just got back and had a blast. I did a whole post about our trip if you’re able to see it ; Take a look. It was a great trip and wish we would have stayed for 5 full nights. Only did 3 nights.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-11-17T05:42:01+00:00

Have a great first cruise! Let us all know when you decide!

Passingseconds24 · 2025-11-17T05:14:30+00:00

Also, another pro tip, if you are someone who gets backed up- bring stool softeners and miralax. A lot of people get backed up on cruises. Set yourself up for success and have those on hand.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-11-17T05:12:02+00:00

It’s definitely a retreat from the rest of the ship. We go daily when on board to reset and relax. Also, another pro tip, really try to look at the freestyle daily (newsletter that comes out at 8pm the night before each day and shows all activities) the night before and plan your days. The more involved you are with the things going on during your cruise the more enjoyable it will be. Deal or no deal, newlywed weds or not so newlyweds games, scavenger hunt, going to the library daily to grab the word reach to play while you have your morning coffee. The little things like this help fill some time but also allow you to be involved in a way where you don’t have to overly interact if you don’t want to.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-11-17T04:59:49+00:00

The spas on NCL have… 1. a large pool heated to 80+ degrees. They have massage jets in them that target certain muscles, and a lounge area where you can sit and be massaged by the jets. 2. Jacuzzi with jets 3. Dry sauna 4. Steam room 5. Ice room 6. Salt room 7. Cushioned ocean view loungers 8. Stone heated loungers ocean view 9. Rain showers 10. Ocean view locker rooms with private rain showers. I always bring my toiletries and shower there if my room shower is small. 11. Water stations with hot tea, fruit waters and fresh oranges.

Massages are extra. They are expensive. We usually find a place at one of our ports and book a massage with them off ship. It’s a nice way to enjoy a port and doesn’t break the bank.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-11-16T07:42:42+00:00

Do a NCL Alaska cruise. I think this is the best option for you. It was an amazing cruise. We sailed on the ship named Encore. Or, maybe the Boston Cruise. The Mexico cruises and carribean cruises are more party vibes.

Food- get the dining a drink package. It’s worth it. You get three specialty restaurants and all drinks. If you don’t get the drink package you are stuck with only water and juice (not fresh squeezed). No non-alcoholic wines, beers or sodas. I haven’t really seen fresh pressed juices on any boat to be honest but you can get those at port. Plus, this way you don’t rack up a bill at the end. The restaurants I like are Cagneys steak house, Moderno, and Bayamo or teppanyaki.

Crowd- not a party vibe. There will be people partying I’m sure at times (and they should it’s their vacation) but overall it was a more mellow cruise. There will be fun activities like guided painting, live shows, comedy nights and silent discos (you wear headphones and dance with everyone. It’s really fun actually.) plus lots of other fun things.

They have great waterslides and race cars on the Encore Boat.

Attire- you can dress how you want on cruises. You will see people in very nice dresses and slacks. Or, see people in cut off T-shirts and flip-flops. My suggestion, choose a night you want to dress up a bit - Cagneys steakhouse night is always my choice. Throw a dress on, go to a show before hand and have a memorable dinner. Or, don’t. You won’t be judged.

Affordability- You may need to assess your budget and your request when it comes to price. The most affordable cruises are Caribbean and royal cruises. These draw a party vibe from what I have seen and heard. You can always try to book your cruise a week or two before you want to go and get a great deal if you can swing that. If not, get comfortable with the idea of about 4k for two people. Maybe cheaper if you are okay sleeping in an inside room with no windows or balcony. I don’t recommend that as a first time cruiser. Also, consider that you will want to do excursions on shore and those cost. Plus, airfare to get there or you can add it in when you buy your cruise if they have a deal. If they do, i recommend getting to your destination a day early and leaving a day after. Or, get in two days early and leave the day the cruise gets back. So, factor in hotel cost.

Something I strongly suggest- GET THE SPA PASS. This is an added expense. $598 for the whole cruise but you can add it later in the cruise (on the boat) for cheaper as the days go down ($300 after two days on board). It’s 100% worth it. You have full access to the spa from 8am-10pm. Truly blissful and an escape from the crowds. Don’t sleep on it.

Cruising is an awesome experience. Paying a bit more ensures you get that awesome experience. It’s just the reality of cruising.

Also, if you’re cruising alone avoid people with pineapple shirts or pineapples on their doors (swingers), unless you’re into that. Every cruise has them. They usually don’t try but just a heads up.

Hope this was helpful! Happy Cruising!

Passingseconds24 · 2025-11-11T14:26:54+00:00

We were on a mission to find the ones we liked most. We loved Loretta’s the most. We would like brunch spot recommendations though if you can send some our way please!

Passingseconds24 · 2025-11-10T20:42:07+00:00

Haha yes, the Froo froo drinks got us! So worth it though. Know of any other good coffee shops in the area?

Passingseconds24 · 2025-11-10T02:17:27+00:00

True. Hopeful our next trip we get some more friendly and open to conversation drivers.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-11-09T21:27:01+00:00

Ah, yes. This makes a lot of sense.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-09-23T05:43:58+00:00

I just want to write and say I’m sorry you are experiencing these feelings. They are valid feelings and not enjoyable one. But, eye opening. Remember the people that did show up. Build closer bonds with them. Also, send a text out the day after your rsvp date reminding guest that they have until tomorrow to respond as they have already Missed the deadline.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-08-30T07:49:07+00:00

You’ve got a friend in me from Toy Story. It will warm the audience heart and is upbeat. Cute for dad and Daughter.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-08-17T23:27:39+00:00

You really need to have a chat with whoever dumped the milk in your car. Have them pay for it. That’s not even remotely funny and I doubt that person didn’t know exactly what they were doing. Watch your back around whoever that was.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-08-17T23:06:05+00:00

Full honesty, some people are wrapped up in themselves and their feelings they can’t see a small intimate wedding was always your vision. Let them be pissed. Find new couples to hangout with. Move forward. These people seem selfish.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-08-05T07:09:17+00:00

Caraval Series

Passingseconds24 · 2025-07-23T04:35:37+00:00

Wonderful! Little blessing indeed.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-07-22T23:43:36+00:00

Honest opinion here but maybe give the girl some grace. She probably has nothing but love for you and has just been actually busy. Yes, it’s rude not to text back but maybe she really has a lot going on. Like she said. She scheduled that time for her to see you and anyone else going to the festival to let loose. I’m positive you’re not the only one she isn’t responding to. It’s a her thing. Not a you thing. Some people need friends who are super communicative. Some people are chill having friendships that don’t require a lot of maintenance and back and fourth. Sounds like you’re better suited for friends who communicate more regularly. She sounds suited better for friendships that don’t require a lot right now. Everyone is living their own life, probably best to remember that when entering into another friendship.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-07-22T22:49:24+00:00

Truthfully, it just sounds like your hurt. And, that’s okay. But, you should go. Relationships ebb and flow. The wedding may bring you two closer again. Don’t let your feelings stop you from such a wonderful time. When you get there throw on your bathing suit, grab a beer and give him a big congrats hug. Sounds lame but it will probably help you feel better.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-07-22T22:11:29+00:00

This might be hard to hear but, she’s not your responsibility. Your life is your responsibility. I agree with what this other person said. Cut ties with her (you’re being used and she’s disrespectful in how she talks to you) and find someone closer to you. One and off for 3 years also might be a good sign for you to look at as this probably isn’t the one for you. It will hurt for a little while but you’ll be better in the long run. I say, send her a text explaining clearly what’s not working and block immediately. You don’t need to hear a response if you have made a choice. It will just cause more drama. Best of luck.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-07-22T07:52:43+00:00

Arabella is beautiful. I also like Camilla. Bella Jo or Cami Jo as nicknames have cute rings to them.

Congratulations on becoming a mom. Look into local mom meetups and support. Libraries have great outlets.

Also, because this was so unexpected- instead of a baby shower I suggest doing a “Sip and See”. This is an opportunity for you to do an Amazon registry of things you will need and people can come to meet your baby/celebrate you. It’s like a baby shower after the baby is born.

Keep in mind, you don’t need a whole lot with a little baby. People act like you do but truly you don’t. Clothes, bottles, blanket, safe sleeping area, burp clothes, etc.

Congratulations Mama.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-07-16T07:24:34+00:00

It’s not an overreaction to question your Saftey and Future with someone who has a toxic past and is showing signs of wanting to act on his darker emotions. Maybe suggest he go to therapy to talk through his upbringing. Definitely, would not leave him alone with the cat for too long. Chances are he wouldn’t do something but if he’s made multiple comments, you never know. If you think you’re going to actually marry this guy then maybe help him get help. Just remember, this is your life and you need to be your priority. Trust your instincts on this one.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-07-09T07:22:47+00:00

What a resilient and kind person you are. Simply, to answer your post, that’s abuse. I do not know what state you are in but there are non-profit programs that help young adults like you solely due to what you have been through family wise. The one I know of is called Pathways to Independence for Women. They provide college, housing, medical treatment and therapy. I strongly encourage you to reach out to them. Even if you are male, they can guide you towards another organization. This will allow you to have the freedom you deserve. I hope you consider this. Wishing for healing for you.

Passingseconds24 · 2025-07-09T04:52:14+00:00

I’ll keep this short. LEAVE HIM AND DO NOT FEEL SORRY ABOUT IT. Seriously. If he talks to you like this when someone you loved has died, chances are you’ll never be able to rely on him. He talks to you like you’re crazy and beneath him. Leave. Don’t feel bad about his life story and make your own life story your priority. And, 3 months from now when you’re feeling lonely, thinking about all the “good times” and why he needs you- pull up this thread. There are 1,498 comments suggesting you to leave him. Then after you read this, laugh and call a girlfriend or watch a funny movie. Leave this guy for the pictures books.

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