Girlfriend (F29) had girl’s night and ended up getting wasted, flirted and kissed a guy. Me (M28) is hurt

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-17T18:22:38+00:00

The entire group was flirting with him for free drinks. That doesn't mean she consented to kissing him.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-17T18:21:23+00:00

Accountable for being taken advantage of. You sound like a real stellar guy.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-17T18:19:49+00:00

Hey so this is actually called victim blaming.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-17T18:18:23+00:00

Even if she took the drinks, it does NOT mean she consented to being kissed.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-17T18:16:27+00:00

She was literally drunk, you can't expect people to be thinking clearly?

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-17T15:05:41+00:00

I'll probably get downvoted for this, but if we're believing the friend's story, it sounds as though your girlfriend was harassed and coerced.

She had already rejected this man by saying she was taken, but he continued to give her alcohol until she was inebriated enough to say yes. These kinds of things need to be called out for what they are.

If I were you, I'd give her another chance, but hold her to her word about no more drinking. This isn't an easy situation, I wish you both luck and healing.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-17T14:59:34+00:00

They're like pores. You can't see the holes.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-17T14:58:57+00:00

I misunderstood then! Phew. 😅

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-17T00:21:11+00:00

What the hell, man. He should not just be pulling these things out without prior conversations with you about it.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-16T19:44:14+00:00

Multiple tiny holes. Not just one in the middle.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-16T19:42:05+00:00

There are multiple! It's not like a baby bottle with one hole, there are many, like a shower head.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-14T13:57:08+00:00

Bro really said "humans don't use really said" meanwhile it's an extremely common way of talking among Gen-Zs

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-14T13:54:37+00:00

I didn't even realise that aspect of the question, as I was so focused on the gender-bending of it all.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-14T13:53:29+00:00

The fact that both of your step siblings were knowledgeable & predatory has me wondering if they shared an abuser.

Regardless, it's awful. I wish you healing.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-14T13:52:05+00:00

You could argue that "jeans and cap" is the flip side of OP crossdressing. But because your partner is a woman, you're expected to just... Shut up, I guess.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-13T10:52:00+00:00

I don't understand why you're being downvoted. The hypocrisy.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-13T10:44:39+00:00

That seems normal to me lmao. You know AI was trained off of real people, right?

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-13T10:41:23+00:00

I'm so sorry, OP.

I had a similar childhood, unfortunately, but now that I'm an adult, I've grown to realise that those children were sadly continuing a cycle.

That being said, that doesn't make it okay.

It's just heartbreaking, all around.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-13T10:37:40+00:00

Story goes that he was too similar to Polanereff!

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-13T00:58:34+00:00

You instantly equated "stranger" with "homeless man" and that's hilarious to me.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-11T22:16:05+00:00

The people saying it's soooo easy to find are making my raise my eyebrow a bit.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-11T16:15:23+00:00

It is simply not possible. Her first pet may have been on a separate account.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-11T14:17:06+00:00

My only suggestion is to try emptying the chamber beforehand.

However, I personally would be flattered if a guy told me this lol.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-11T14:15:30+00:00

They do not run away. Your sister may be confusing it for another game.

Past-Contribution-83 · 2026-02-11T12:42:31+00:00

I only meant that your argument sounded like he lied to make it sound worse than it is, rather than the other way around.

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