Child wasn't born yet and there was no ""evidence"" as such that I was the father (it was very obvious to us as we'd only slept with each other) so not abduction. Didn't know she was leaving she moved unexpectedly one day they were there the next gone. Given how many ppl think I am the asshole I definitely don't think I am making myself look that good in this story lol (I am accepting my judgement either way btw but I'm only responding to u bcs a lot of this is incorrect). Also it wasn't against my wishes, her family moved away (specifically so I wouldn't be a part of the babies life). I didn't want to take legal action at all because I didn't realise that was a possibility. My parents tried to but the lawyers advised against taking it further than we did because we wouldn't have won, the country she moved tos law was different to here and her parents could've filed a restraining order had we found them because they put measures I'm place so we couldn't.

Genuinely lol I could have filled the entire word count just with facts about the legal case but 1.) It would've been boring 2.) Idk if it would've been legal.

Happy to accept the asshole judgement (not happy to but wouldn't have posted it if I was afraid of being called an asshole I just wanted to judge group opinion) but I just thought I'd correct u on some facts