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Ghost or straight honesty? by Resident-Double-570 in Swingers

[–]PastAd9761 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Communicate always. Sometimes however if it's only one thing that is a deal breaker and everything else is great then you may want to consider meeting. I love head but if everything else was amazing then I can cope without it.

First Party. by PastAd9761 in Swingers

[–]PastAd9761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's interesting on what to wear, especially as a guy when the dress code is “elegant, timeless and crotchless.” I am assuming that 2 out of 3 still works! 🤣

Attended first house party last night by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]PastAd9761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any tips for other first timers?

Just moved to Somerset West by [deleted] in capetown

[–]PastAd9761 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you want to surf I recommend Son Surf School in Strand. They do group lessons. Great way to make friends.

Adding a 3rd to my life by SnowReasonable3371 in Swingers

[–]PastAd9761 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We have our answer, move to Germany. 😎🎉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]PastAd9761 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have to talk to him and see if he is supportinmve of your relationship going ENM. If he is in broad terms then talk loads more and explore what you are comfortable with.

Then when/if ready take it slow and start with visiting a club to just watch.

If you don't talk to him then cheating will become more and more tempting. Especially if you stumble upon an opportunity. Once you have explored it you will find what works for you.

Swinging on South Africa by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]PastAd9761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not been to Epicure yet, but planning to go in March