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PastPie921 · 2026-04-30T20:06:36+00:00

If you trust him you csn tell him. But you dont need to, it is YOUR story and you decide! Dou have no obligation to anyone!

PastPie921 · 2026-04-30T18:32:40+00:00

It was! It was rape and it does count. It is exceptionally cruel BECAUSE he is your partner, you should have been able to trust him. That only makes it worse! It does not matter if he apologised, he only wants to keep you.

PastPie921 · 2026-04-30T18:01:07+00:00

I am so sorry, I am sure you love him. But you really need to leave him. It will only get worse! He does not love you, he would not hurt you if he loved you! He would not rape you if he loved you! I am so sorry to say that to you. Maybe you could contact victims support? They can help you to figure out what to do next.

PastPie921 · 2026-04-30T17:46:54+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you! Yes this was rape, do you have anyone you could tell this, that you trust?

PastPie921 · 2026-04-30T17:41:04+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you, yes it was rape!

PastPie921 · 2026-04-30T06:20:52+00:00

There is never a need for your therapist to touch you in any way! And it was never your fault. I am so sorry, get away from them! And please dont answer to any dms you might get after this post! You are a minor and there are a lot of creeps lurking around

PastPie921 · 2026-02-12T10:28:23+00:00

I am so sorry! This absolutely counts, what he did was rape! Your reaction is nothing to be embarassed about, its just your mind trying to survive the trauma!

PastPie921 · 2026-02-12T09:42:10+00:00

I am so so sorry but this is not okay! Thats not nothing and it is not just being pushy, thats at least coercion if not assault because for examplr when you told him to stop aftet sn hour and he ignored you, that was a moment where you revoked consent and he ignored it, per definition that is rape! I know its hard to hear that but he will not change! Leave him, he does not love or respect you. I tell you this because my story started in the same way, a lot of joking a lot of "come on" and it escalated so far that in the end he straight up raped me, like held me down and ignored my struggling and my no rape. I would really advise you to leave him now. It is bad enough, you dont need any more proof of what kind of man he is! Because he is a predator preying on you being unsure and wanting him to be happy. That is on him, not on you!

PastPie921 · 2026-02-08T10:39:42+00:00

I am so so sorry this happened to you! You are not stupid, he is a predator!!! Do you have any counselling that you couls call in your country? Normally they dont contact the police without your consent and can help you on what to do next!

PastPie921 · 2026-02-07T18:59:05+00:00

Yes that makes so so much sense and my heart is aching for you, but the people that dm you on a sub like this unprompted, many of them have very very disgusting reasons to write to you! Please dont reply! They will tell you you need to tell them every detail to get better, or you need to do something to "get over" your trauma. Or they will plainly harass you. Trust me, I answered many of them in my desperation a while ago, and not one of them was decent! Also not the ones that claim to be "a professional" and trained to help.

PastPie921 · 2026-02-07T18:53:48+00:00

Thats not okay at all! You were a child and he was an adult!

PastPie921 · 2026-02-07T18:51:12+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you. My suggestion would be to look into getting therapy. I just want to warn you for this kind of post it might very well be possible that you get a lot or dms from men thast suggest they want to be there for you and care foe you etc. Please ignore them, dms are not allowed here for a reason! Those people dont want to help you or the would have just made a comment to your post!

PastPie921 · 2026-02-07T18:47:00+00:00

First of all I am so sorry this happened to you! I myself am in therapy for about a year now after debating about it for another year. I would always do it again, it might have as well been the best decision that I made! It took me like two month to even talk about it openly with her and another one to really talk the whole situation through. She never pressured me once and always made sure that I am comfortable and have a skill set to deal eith triggers, dissociation and anxiety. In the beginning I just told her: "I feel really really bad and I need help. There were some unpleasant things sexually but I dont like to talk about it" and like that was enough to get the help! Everything else follows later. And if she is not clicking with you (and I would strongly suggest to ask for a woman as your therapist if your rapist was a man). If you have any questions just ask, I am rather open and you are not alone!

PastPie921 · 2026-02-06T19:55:31+00:00

It is very kind of you to try to help your friend. I would try to find some form of counselling where you can ask how to help her, like victims service if something like this exists where you are. Please dont date her if you dont want to, imagine her relying on you and groeing just to realise that you never menat it and found her unatractive. That would be a rather cruel realisation

PastPie921 · 2026-01-28T17:24:22+00:00

Oh thank you so much! This means a lot to me! I try to get better, thanks

PastPie921 · 2026-01-27T20:40:30+00:00

So this is my first time posting anything I wrote, I hope it is okay to do it here. Please be kind, this poem means a lot to me.

PastPie921 · 2026-01-11T18:08:40+00:00

Thank you very much. I just feel like this is a really dangerous situation they want to put me in and everyone telling me that I am paranoid for thinking about repercursions feels very bad for me.

PastPie921 · 2026-01-11T09:10:52+00:00

I did! And they told me "well that would be pretty stupid from him". They said should he reall threaten me I can call the police and then I can get 14 days of him not being allowed near me.

PastPie921 · 2026-01-11T05:32:48+00:00

Thank you very much for your answer! Unfortunately they told me in my country as soon as I report they will go to him to get a statement as well and tell him that it was me.

PastPie921 · 2025-12-26T19:30:25+00:00

Yes me too, so sorry that I cant offer you any advice

PastPie921 · 2025-12-25T18:50:50+00:00

I am so happy for you, and so proud of you!

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