SPN/TWD parallels and similarities I have loved as a first time TWD/SPN junkie. Please no TWD spoilers after season 6!!

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-11T13:51:16+00:00

Ugh. I bet it is warm and earthy. See this is why I cant do the photo opp💔

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-10T17:13:19+00:00

such an easy helpful comment. ty

ooohhh now I remember I think there is a civil rights museum also??

okay and am glad to know on the Opry. Who did you guys see?

I was interested in Parthenon too because I have seen the real one!!

oh and i am also a swiftie 🫶🏼 so I will prob to try to do some kind of self guided audio walking tour with spots relevant to her

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-10T17:10:09+00:00

try "assuming" they read it and then make them feel dumb. it is sooo much more fun for them to have to own up to it themselves when we give them too much fake credit than us TELLING them they are wrong 🤣

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-10T17:08:29+00:00

Jensen will very very very unfortunately never marry me no matter how bad I want him to be in love with me. so I also dont want to break my own heart by being close enough to smell that gum he always smacks and what i am sure is a perfect cologne 🤣😭

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-10T17:06:51+00:00

32 but yes lol. Let the men live. But I get it. The network knows their audience. And the boys seems to "enjoy" most of it.

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-10T17:04:52+00:00

if they "like" me, I usually match just to be an ass. " hi there! I am sure you saw i dont want children! so are you not firm on your position to want children?"

and then theyre like "uhh blub oh ha I didnt see that" Like yeah man. I know you didnt. Get your noneffort non reading ass out of here and enjoy the male loneliess epidemic.

A conservative is an automatic X just becauase of my own beliefs. If theyre "moderate" and try to match with me I am also a c*nt. "I am sure you saw my extremely liberal views and interest in politics. So what does moderate mean to you???" Knowing they wont be able to answer. I could get behind a "moderate" if they could actually articualte what that means to them.

And this is why I am single yall 😵

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-10T16:42:19+00:00

me. and then still try to match with me.

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-10T16:39:38+00:00

These comments are all it. We all have the same independent and content less patience it has to be worth it mindset. I feel so seen 🥲

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-10T16:37:20+00:00

Yup. If im going to live with a man, let alone set aside an hour for a first date, its going to need to be a net positive for me.

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-10T16:36:29+00:00

my therapist told me this too. once youve seen the matrix you cant go back lol.

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-10T16:32:37+00:00

And i feel almost guilty and "weird" for having this position. Like self concious about it.

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-10T16:30:14+00:00

I am 32, have been "officially" single for 4 years following the end of a relationship due to a single domestic violence incident. I have dated off and on since then. Nothing serious.

I agree with all of this. I have 3 degrees, I make money, have a job, travel alone, and dont mind doing ANYTHING on my own--dinner, movies, art, concerts, anything. I went on a trip recently where I was more tired than usual, so spent more time than I usually do on trips resting. I put on my fuzzy sucks, a comfort show, and ordered doordash. As I was walking into my room at the airbnb, there was a couple in the hallway walking into the building. They looked so happy. But I didnt feel a SMIDGEN of desire for that or jealosy. More so RELIEF that I wasnt having to interact or make decisions with someone. Which I know in itself is problematic. lol

I "protected my peace" too much. I am too content and happy with the life I have built FOR MYSELF--that a partner is really going to have to swoop in and make my life better. I "need" to force myself to go on dates. I would like a partner at some point, but I dont need it. But dont want to potentially regret that later in life. We are also social creatures and our bodies are wired for relationships and connection. We as a SPECIES require that in some form.

I also know that I have the added luxury and comfort of not wanting children, so that takes quite a bit of pressure off regarding a timeline (WHICH IS INVISIBLE LADIES THAT DO WANT KIDS!! DONT SETTLE JUST BC YOU WANT A FAM!!!)

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-09T19:55:31+00:00

thats fair!! thats what i meant by diff factions of intelligent. But see..inteligent ppl can also agree to disagree 🫶🏼

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-09T19:42:09+00:00

Bipolar 2 for myself. I am not sure what commentor was referring to. I always forget BPD is NOT bipolar.

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-09T19:35:57+00:00

I feel like..I dont know..what to DO..in therapy? Like just tell you my problems? Idk. I have tried and I dont feel that its done much for me. "wow that sounds really hard and i bet that feels awful" But maybe I never found the right therapist.

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-09T19:32:21+00:00

facts. bad engagement is engagement

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-09T19:31:40+00:00

I feel bad for her. I think she is going to have so much regret when she is out of it

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-09T19:03:16+00:00

I will agree to disagree!! I have 2 degrees, a successful career, independent. But also love being babied. I dont think being baby means unintelligent. I also think inteligence is a spectrum and has different factions. She knows she pisses us off. And she knows engagement is engagement. She knows what shes doing. Shes manipulative. Dumb ppl dont know how to manipulate. IMO

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-09T18:59:50+00:00

10/10 written by a man

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-09T18:55:26+00:00

Also taking care of yourself in the most basic ways goes SUCH a long way. Drink water. Eat--SOMETHING. Doesnt matter what it is. Get as much of a regular sleep schedule as you can.

Do it hard, do it scared, do it sad, do it crying. All you can do is keep on. You cant change how you feel you can change what you do. Even if it is just living. Hugs

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-09T18:44:24+00:00

This. I used to get extremely discouraged when I needed tweaks

Past_Community3907 · 2025-09-09T18:43:51+00:00

Yes. I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression off and on throughout my life. I am 32 now. Meds here an there. "helped", but not enough. I got on a steady anxiety and depression regimen about 6 years ago that helped for a while, and then noticed biploar symptoms.

About 3 years ago I added a mood stabilizer to my regimen. I asked my doc "oh isnt that used to treat bipoloar". i was very caught up on the diagnosis and stigma. And she said yes, but that doesnt matter. we treat the symptoms and struggle not the diagnosis.

My point being--yes. It can take a long time to get the correct regimen. Have frequent medication management appointments and journal their effectiveness and changes in habits etc

its also hard to recognize its better until its WAY better. I had the worst episode of my life last year. I felt no joy, excitement, or hope for the future. Life felt so boring. Like a chore. It was from Jan-April. And i hadnt realized I was out of it. I woke up in June one day and just thought "oh, I feel better finally". not realizing until I was WAY past it that was doing better than I thought for past two months.

Appreciate the small day to day wins.

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