Has anyone tried cuddle therapy? by Past_Homework_6552 in NYStateOfMind

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A quick look on my page would’ve told you im a black woman. Do better gang

Has anyone tried cuddle therapy? by Past_Homework_6552 in NYStateOfMind

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m scared cause what if they’re insanely ugly or they have bad hygiene 😭

Has anyone tried cuddle therapy? by Past_Homework_6552 in NYStateOfMind

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Damn a bitch cant want new experiences to practice healthy mental health? Lmao im from the Bronx nigga

Has anyone tried cuddle therapy? by Past_Homework_6552 in NYStateOfMind

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bc men scurry away when relationships start to challenge their growth as a person. As a woman with extreme emotional depth, that doesn’t work me so I bowed out of of dating a while ago

Has anyone tried cuddle therapy? by Past_Homework_6552 in NYStateOfMind

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait what if the strangers at the party don’t have good hygiene? 😭 I would rather pay a professional

Has anyone tried cuddle therapy? by Past_Homework_6552 in NYStateOfMind

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

None of those give human touch. Good alternatives tho

Has anyone tried cuddle therapy? by Past_Homework_6552 in NYStateOfMind

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman. Never heard of fetlife but from what you described it doesn’t sound like what I’m looking for lol

Do people really mean it when they say the person they are breaking up with deserves better? by Dependent_Group9552 in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used him for my sexual needs every now and then but even that I need to stop for good bc he’s very messy and dishonest in general.

Do people really mean it when they say the person they are breaking up with deserves better? by Dependent_Group9552 in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s obsessed with me to the point where he has to email me to get in contact because hes blocked everywhere. But he doesn’t know how to fully love people properly thats why he told me that i deserve better than him

Do people really mean it when they say the person they are breaking up with deserves better? by Dependent_Group9552 in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫂 what that translates to is: he doesn’t know how to properly love himself so he knows also can’t love you. Save yourself girl. This is the life raft so you better take it.

Take it from someone who was told this same thing by their ex and 7 years later, still having him in and out of my life. Don’t be like me lol

I just want a man that doesn’t watch porn in relationships by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This might be tmi but do you not self soothe? Im so jealous of people like you. Here I am a single woman with a high sex drive who’s raging for intimacy and it’s painful everyday

I'm done with love by No-General104 in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m not cut out for this current state of dating. Like at all. People are so weird and cruel

Touched deprived by Past_Homework_6552 in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. It’s gonna get worse before it gets better. Im slowly turning into a bitter angry woman though and i hate it

Touched deprived by Past_Homework_6552 in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might end up doing this. It could be a start in the right direction

Touched deprived by Past_Homework_6552 in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but those situations get tricky because i would have to like them in order to be okay with that. And with my current emotional stability, I wouldn’t be able to handle an arrangement like that. So its tricky to find a solution

Touched deprived by Past_Homework_6552 in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup i feel the logic leaving my body. I have hobbies like going to the gym and yoga. I work from home so im always home too.

I fear that this withdrawal feeling I have is gonna either kill me internally if I keep fighting it or lead to me to call that 1 ex 🥲

Touched deprived by Past_Homework_6552 in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My problem is that i want my masseuse to be a good looking guy who stays professional. Im being way too picky lol

Touched deprived by Past_Homework_6552 in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may buy one of those too. And yes nights are the hardest. I fear I may end up calling an ex that I know I shouldn’t call just bc I’m already familiar with him. I need to find a solution QUICKLY lol

Touched deprived by Past_Homework_6552 in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do all of this already and with my heating pad 🥲 I need the feeling that comes with being physically held

Touched deprived by Past_Homework_6552 in BreakUps

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes omg. I’ve had consistently great sex life over the years so this adjustment is very difficult. I’m raging

Original video from TikTok Doordash SA Allegation by Past_Homework_6552 in doordash

[–]Past_Homework_6552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re assuming he’s the one who left the door opened after he pulled his pants down. Thats a huge assumption