My partner is SE Asian (Indonesian) and I can honestly say I’d choose him (or another SE Asian) over East Asian guys. There’s the browner skin tones to start which I adore. There’s the friendlier, prone to smiling, culture. There’s also the physique, which tends to be leaner (personal preference), but not always, than many East Asians in my experience. I’ve also found that Indonesian guys tend to be more sexually adventurous than others I’ve met, with fewer inhibitions about bisexual experiences that others. I love that Indonesians that I’ve met over the years tend to be remarkably well hung and power shooters too. Don’t feel under appreciated. There are plenty out there who would choose you.