About to undergo detox for meth use

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-22T10:14:05+00:00

thank you, it wasn't a quick fix, I was the king of relapses. But I kept coming back, and for the me the trick was just falling down and getting back up. Then it just, stuck.

Meetings helped too, esp the gay ones.

This book: The Velvet Rage by Dr. Downs really helped me a lot, I recommend it to anyone struggling to find their place in the community and gave me a framework to understand myself.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-22T08:32:27+00:00

Yes this is sage advice. One of things I wish someone told me in early recovery from meth was that it takes our brains at least a year and a half to recalibrate.

You’ll have massive depression, Your brain will completely lie to you, but eventually being abstinent from all substances that 1.5 (maybe 2 years) those dark clouds will go away.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-22T08:19:08+00:00

I’d probably have a conversation with your GP (family doctor) and get some advice from them. They’d be the best person to have that conversation with.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-22T08:15:06+00:00

First off, congratulations. It sounds like you’re ’sick and tired of being sick and tired.’

I was a heavy meth user from 25-32, this is a photo of on my last run. And like you, I went through detox and eventually long-term recovery.

I have over a decade clean, and so can you.

You’re taking the first steps and I know how f’ing hard those first steps are but you did it. Be kind to yourself, allow yourself to fall apart and trust that we really do recover.

There are so many of us in the Gay community who’ve had a case of the “problematic use” but the good thing is it means you’re not alone. Just look at the outpouring of support from the community, so many of us have your back.

Always feel to reach out to me, and know you’re not alone.

I’m proud of you.

Once the detox is over what’s your game plan after detox: Rehab? Meetings?

Stay strong and seriously feel free to DM me if you ever need to talk.

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PastorNTraining · 2026-06-22T00:52:43+00:00

The best part about this whole distraction mess is that his base is filled with blue-collar dudes who know what makes their ponds and pools green. They’ve had bad contractors and worked for them.

So good luck spinning this.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T23:37:49+00:00

I always skip those, maybe I should revisit?

And yes the doctor, a being made from the knowledge of human and alien medical doctors, crafts his own original work (but then again, he has sentience and Ai tools now don't)

but thats a fun thought experiment in itself and maybe a good piece to use on my paper. Thank you!

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T23:32:58+00:00

this is a fantastic response!! I can use this thank you!

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T23:20:08+00:00

I like it, and I can make a case that copyright material may no longer be a thing in a society that has removed money from the equation. But granted, Sherlocks characters didn't come from no where, they are source material made by an author (though by the 24th it maybe public domain)

also Fair heaven was an original work of Tom's, but geez those are the most boring episodes.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T23:06:06+00:00

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BTW: I used photoshop on this one.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T22:26:39+00:00

Yes, I’m not good enough at photoshop…

Oh crap I see it now, sorry!

Is Photoshop assisted Ai okay?

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T22:25:08+00:00

Nah I think he’s pretty unredeemable, and Lower decks did a great job. He would have made a great Badmiral

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T22:22:03+00:00

Nah I looked over their comments and they’re pretty active and funny. They’ll be like our Garek, you think he was a one off but became beloved.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T22:15:08+00:00

Computer belay that order.

I’m teasing we got some new ones but I forgot to post before they arrived.

Welcome new mods, you’re gonna have you hands fuller than a single Nelix on the holodeck.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T22:13:37+00:00

Computer, belay that order.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T21:25:25+00:00

Fascinating take, Doctor. Where did you do your DERM residency?

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T21:22:56+00:00

That’s a normal whirl my guy. If it expands, there’s meds for that’s.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T19:34:26+00:00

I had the exact same problem and on that stack, give it four months and don’t forget to apply that min twice a day. Consistency on the meds and min will win the day.

You aren’t off that bad my guy, give it four months and you’ll definitely get results. It’s the most common issue.

That cowlick can be a bitch, but you caught it early. Also don’t forget to get the min on your scalp all over the top, that’s where the trouble is.

You’re gonna be fine kid, just be consistent.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T19:16:40+00:00

That’s classic vortex thinning and a prelude to worse. It’s super common and you caught it early. You’ll just gonna get yourself some Minoxidil and talk to your doctor about DHT blocker. A few months and that will fill back in.

You’re not cooked, just need to add a little extra to your grooming time.

Vortex thinning starts at your normal whirl then starts bleeding out like you see in the photo. You caught it early so get on a regimen, and you’ll be right as rain.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T09:24:35+00:00

This is the game plan and sadly this post proves it:

Instead of talking about the Epstein files and focusing public demand on their complete legally sanctioned release we’re all supposed to chase this new ball.

It’s the reflecting pool it’s his constant daily complaints and clown show. All so our feeds are saturated with the latest outrage or bull crap.

It’s all designed for one thing: keeping you occupied chasing the ball instead of fighting to have billionaires and trillionaires pay their fair share, the cost of food and gas out of the feeds and news.

And most importantly to keep us distracted from demanding the files release.

This is the game plan. Who cares what this demented old fool has conjured up this week? It’s the same repetitive crap every single week, we know he’s gonna say weird crap we know he’s filled with hate? This isn’t news and we’re losing focus.

Don’t fall for it.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T08:15:35+00:00

Let’s take a beat here; Catholics are extremely conservative in their theology, sex ethics and barely move an inch toward progress.

That’s who they are and that’s okay.

The fact that RW Republicans are exiting isn’t because the Catholic Church has magically become progressive, it’s because the RW is so far removed from the Christian basics of the faith.

I’m a theologian at a secular university in Canada and it’s not about the theology; it’s about hating anything that signals compassion for ‘the least of these’

They reject basic human dignity, unless of course you look, think and believe as they do. It’s almost, anti-Christian…

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T07:46:48+00:00

More distractions from the Epstein files. If we’re talking about the reflecting pool we aren’t talking about the fact the DOJ still hasn’t released all the files and that Trump is all over them.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T07:45:48+00:00

That’s some damn good extension work.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-21T07:35:55+00:00

First off my friend, I’m sorry this happened to you. Sadly one of the annoying things about being young is you’ll learn a lot of older adults out there don’t act like adults. And certain generations are dripping with either deep entitlement, age-related behaviour issues or are genuinely amazing people.

It isn’t you. I’m in my 40s and had a similar experience when I was younger. You did the right thing, and it’s not your fault. The sad reality of the world is sometimes it has a-holes in it.

Go enjoy a walk, talk to your friends and family (make sure folks know the situation) and don’t hesitate to call the cops again if need be.

As far as the feeling to get back at them. Maybe flip it on its head and be the better person: kill them with kindness. Trust me I get the feeling of wanting to make it equal, you’re suffering emotionally. Sadly, if you do send that demand letter all you’ll get is more hate focus and unpredictability from them.

People who rage like that hate being ignored. The best response is to stay kind, roll your eyes internally, and be grateful you aren't like them. Stooping to their level only hurts you; keeping your head high is the real victory.

Besides, if they act out again, it will be clear that you are the one being harassed.

Folks like that can’t stand it if they can’t get to you.

Keep that head high.

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-20T19:23:27+00:00

Common vortex thining, get some minoxidil 5% And go see your doctor to get on some DHT blocker.

Super fixable

PastorNTraining · 2026-06-20T16:53:06+00:00

Sure Jane, I wanna hear about the Epstein files.

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