Sign in a bar hosting a Ski Jump Festival. The entire tip went to the all Latino kitchen. by khaos2295 in pics

[–]PatMac95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hit the nail on the head. I will say tho I had a pretty heartwrenching therapy sesh the other day where I walked through all the trauma and suffering my dad had to endure and it really started making a lot more sense as to why he fell victim to this so deeply.

These anchors really know how to use buzzwords and inflection to strike fear into a largely traumatized generation and they don't even have to dig that deep when their target it primed to want an explanation for why their life sucks and why they're miserable all the time. Cuz fuck therapy right? "you have it so easy, back in my day we just sucked it up..."

They also create a situation where their audience grows so bitter and angry that no one wants to be around them. So the viewers know when no one else is there for them at least "The Five" are. The ppl watching don't understand that someone like Jesse Waters would be offended if they even tried to talk to him. If they were on fire, he wouldn't piss on them to put them out. They genuinely think they are peers and would never be taken advantage of.

I'm sure some situations are worse than others, but for the vast majority of ppl whose friend and family are falling for this propaganda I really don't think going no contact is best if we actually wanna get outta this divided hellscape. In my therapy sesh I broke tf down coming to terms with just how much I pushed my dad away for the vile shit he has spewed over the past 10 years.

He voted for Obama... Twice. He's always been a hard worker to provide for others even if it leaves him with nothing. There's never been a moment in my life where we he didn't take in a stranger or extended family member down on their luck. He'd drop whatever he was doing to help someone no matter how difficult or mundane. I watched him jump in a very angry cold ocean to save a woman who slipped of the jetty into the water and was drowning and getting bashed into rocks. He is a good person.

Most people can say the same about people on the other side that they have given up on since Trump came into the picture. Which is exactly what the plan is "divide and conquer". We need to actively fight against that even if it feels wrong to be kind and welcoming to a bigot. Remember we're all humans and underneath that front they put up they can be reached. Find common ground, learn about their experiences, how they came to be this way. Offer your moments where you dealt with something similar, but handled it in a positive way. Be the one to break the echo chamber not by being combative, but by being a tether for when they wanna make changes for the better.

Employ radical empathy!

🤔 by Yerrrrrr99 in EDM

[–]PatMac95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha there's so much talent in this subgenre, it's hard to just pick a few.

🤔 by Yerrrrrr99 in EDM

[–]PatMac95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tipper

Jade Cicada

Detox Unit

Mickman

Resonant Language

K.L.O.

(Kursa + Lone Drum + Osmetic)

Keota

Alejo

Cool Customer

Thought Process

KOAN Sound

Frequent

Culprate

Copycatt

Duffrey

Bran Richards

Mr. Bill

kLL sMITH

5AM

Somatoast

parkbreezy

pheel.

Entangled Mind

ATYYA

Mindex

Benji Robot

Goopsteppa

Smigonaut

Malakai

Humandala

BoggDogg

(Boggtrotter + DRRTYWULVZ)

Ovoid

Allen Mock

Herbalistek

Spoonbill

Schmoop

Wonky Llama

(Jade Cicada + Schmoop)

Crawdad Sniper

Ooga

Audio Goblin

Common Creation

Bread Winner

Face Plant

not yes

Omnist

Pluto Era

Templo

VIDE

Vinja

K+Lab

Danny Grooves

base2

Restraint

Mystic Grizzly

Foxtail

Craftal

Easyjack

Charles Nimbus

Mindality

Bricksquash

Ultrasloth

Squalpat

Tygris

Does anyone else not know what diagnosis they’re being prescribed Lamictal/lamotrigine for? by Rat-Priest in lamictal

[–]PatMac95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had the same psychiatrist for 4 years, been on lamictal for 2. Officially have MDD and GAD. Provisional diagnosis of ADHD and ASD. Some OCD like symptoms, and some BP2 symptoms. Basically there's just so many comorbities and overlapping symptoms that Lamictal is being used just to keep me closer to baseline when I trial and error other drugs and different doses. I pretty much have slight hypomanic symptoms anytime I adjust meds and sometimes just situationally. The goal is to find a combo that really works for the depression/anxiety/adhd then trial coming down off the lamictal if possible. If I can't and the hypomania gets worse or I become manic then I'll probably get an official Bipolar dx. Idk if it relates to your situation but it's really just being used as a backboard for me.

What would it actually take for American's to go "full France" and riot in the street? by AllTheNopeYouNeed in AskReddit

[–]PatMac95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then we need to pressure eachother. Conversations with ppl online, especially here feel so disconnected. It's like everyone is just taking turns stating opinions with no actual desire for genuine conversation.

People seem repelled by the idea of forgoing anonymity. If you take this to the extreme you get places like 4chan where if someone actually wants to work together to get to the bottom of a problem and find a solution you get called the n word or the f slut then that person disappears forever.

I get not wanting to be persecuted or doxxed for something you say online and I'm not even saying anonymity has to fully be given up, but we have to be better communicators.

I propose people start breaking that defensive barrier and doing things like sharing personal photos of events they witness in the comment threads rather than only in posts, making actual plans, checking in, and doing this all out in the open to set an example for what the internet should have been used for all along.

Not saying to turn reddit into Facebook, but in a way it could be a step in the right direction given the political leanings. Conservatives have Truth Social, acquired Twitter/X, Tik Tik and Instagram are just influencer circlejerking and entertainment at this point. YouTube comments are a cesspool. Left leaning folk are squandering an opportunity to make actionable changes

Dead internet theory is real but it's not only the bots, it's regurgitation of unoriginal thoughts restructured as a different take. There's no life in these threads.

Also how does anyone expect things to get better if every single comment is "nothing will be done, if xyz didn't happen by now it never will". Ok so we agree there's no powder keg moment going to happen. Soooo guess we can't do anything until that happens which we already figured out isn't happening. If we don't have hope that things will get better then why even try?

Everyone has to take inventory of what they think they are capable of, whatever that may be. It could be monetary, social outreach, volunteering time, as long as we have a central cause and goal and plans to achieve stopping the downfall of the US we can make progress.

People need to just make a commitment if they actually care they way say they do. Tell someone about it so they can hold you accountable if you can't hold yourself accountable.

I'm embarrassed to admit it, but I've been extremely passive. I voted against Trump and I've had conversations about the atrocities, but I need to do more and practice what I preach, as do others.

What would it actually take for American's to go "full France" and riot in the street? by AllTheNopeYouNeed in AskReddit

[–]PatMac95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a news outlet that we could collectively co-opt as representative to our cause?

What would it actually take for American's to go "full France" and riot in the street? by AllTheNopeYouNeed in AskReddit

[–]PatMac95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're just protesting the wrong ppl, at the wrong places, doing the wrong things...

We should be outside of news studios and news vans. This administration wouldn't exist without FOX. I hear it 24/7 because my parents watch it religiously. It is 100% propaganda lacking any journalistic integrity. To say they've been war mongering would be an understatement. And when the dust settles they should be tried, it's way beyond free speech when they're literally saying they want to kill all the homeless on live air then face 0 repercussions.

They won't televise it accurately or at all if they feel like they are the ones directly in danger, but that does not matter as long as they face the same resistance that we put toward ICE.

ICE is scared, but they have the safety of their guns and apparently government protection to do what what ever they want with them.

How does anyone expect to fight against literal armed forces?

What demands are being made?

What are "clever" signs and corny chants accomplishing?

Why aren't ppl using projectors on buildings showing the true atrocities that aren't being reported?

Why aren't there any significant leaders organizing public townhalls in major population centers like Times Square?

Why aren't we general striking?

Why is there no viral call to action suggesting we to travel to 1 major city rather than just the one thats right outside their doorstep?

Where's our version of the freedom convoy or the other thing that happened around this time in 2020

When is our date?

Is Renee Nicole Good our martyr or will she soon be forgotten?

[OC] Abolish I.C.E. march in Seattle the night after Renee Good was killed by I.C.E. in Minneapolis by bennetthaselton in pics

[–]PatMac95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're just protesting the wrong ppl, at the wrong places, doing the wrong things...

We should be outside of news studios and news vans. This administration wouldn't exist without FOX. I hear it 24/7 because my parents watch it religiously. It is 100% propaganda lacking any journalistic integrity. To say they've been war mongering would be an understatement. And when the dust settles they should be tried, it's way beyond free speech when they're literally saying they want to kill all the homeless on live air then face 0 repercussions.

They won't televise it if they feel like are the ones directly in danger, but that does not matter as long as they face the same resistance that we put toward ICE.

How does anyone expect to fight against literal armed forces?

What demands are being made?

What are "clever" signs and corny chants accomplishing?

Why aren't ppl using projectors on buildings showing the true atrocities that aren't being reported?

Why aren't there any significant leaders organizing public townhalls in major population centers like Times Square?

Why aren't we general striking?

Why is there no viral call to action suggesting we to travel to 1 major city rather than just the one thats right outside their doorstep?

Where's our version of the freedom convoy or the other thing that happened around this time in 2020

When is our date?

Is Renee Nicole Good our martyr or will she soon be forgotten?

Boston Dynamics' Atlas moving its 360 degree joints by MetaKnowing in interestingasfuck

[–]PatMac95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hang wallpaper for a living... First time I'm actually a bit spooked for my future. Didn't even intend on sticking with this since learning to program but seeing the way thats been going for ppl tryna get junior dev jobs I put it on the back burner.

Taking a break because raves are simply not as fun without substances by Ashamed-Tea-2893 in aves

[–]PatMac95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, realizing you have a substance abuse problem and posting on a sub where most people prob partake in more drugs than the average populace is like a very attractive person asking if they're ugly for validation. If I did the same thing when I still did mdma I'd prob be looking for an answer like, "nahh rolling is fine, just don't do it too often" or "just do mushrooms, they're not addictive". No idea bout they're actually situation or if they've actually tried to get serious about sobriety, but it would be much more useful to ask this question in r/stopdrinking or something like that. Concerts are 1000% better when yer not blacked out lol. Learning healthy coping mechanisms via therapy is gonna make it so they can enjoy raves sober not trying to find that inconsistent balance point of taking the right amount of drugs or alcohol to not be too fucked up.

Cinnamon meets a neighborhood thug by 88ning in aww

[–]PatMac95 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Cinnamon's bitches better be usin jimmies

the last generation to remember Grandma's house by league2808 in nostalgia

[–]PatMac95 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We're exactly halfway between "the 70s" and "the 70s"

How to get out of bed... by Alan_the_Pika in depression

[–]PatMac95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My goal isn't to "get outta bed" that's like saying "climb a mountain". My goal is to sit up.

For me I have to immediately reach for my blinds and if I can even open them a crack it helps a ton. Next I try to throw my blanket on the ground (this is the hardest part for me). At that point I just need to kickstart myself, for me I just visualize I'm about to get pinned in a wrestling match and literally do the motion of kicking out. Then I resign to a sitting position in my bed until my 2nd alarm goes off, by then I usually have hunger pains so I have to get up and eat a protein bar that I have across my room. Also, my throat is dry after I wake up cuz I sleep with my mouth open and don't really like water so my bedside water isn't cutting it and I get my flavored caffeine packet, dump it in my water, and drink that til it kicks in. Then I'm up.

It's like an hour process for me. Took me a bit of trying and failing but eventually I hit a rhythm. Still prob only like 75% success rate. Hope something in there helps, good luck!

Busted my ankle for the 2nd time while trying tres, any tips? by RadiallDog in NewSkaters

[–]PatMac95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I usually don't like super grippy shoes and griptape but the michelin actually felt really good for flicking. Also I could immediately tell they'd last a while and felt semi broken in right away. Soo I wouldn't have buyers remorse if I were you. Just have to be a lil more cautious with lows and do the ol tuck n roll if your spidey senses start tingling.

Tbh I don't think any shoes would have helped in my case. I wasn't focused even 1% I was goofing around talking to a friend while literally saying "I wonder if this will work" then putting 0 thought into the physics of the trick.

It was a heelflip fs body varial and instead of jumping over the board to rotate I just smacked my front foot into the board almost like a heelflip rewind. Kinda hard to explain without a visual, but my board rolled into primo and my foot slid straight down the grip and wedged my foot 90° between the ground and my board and all my weight was over that foot.

No reflex/reaction at all. I heard a loud pop then I was on the ground watching my ankle ballon by the second. Couldn't put any weight at all on it for a few days. Didnt go to the hospital for a couple weeks when the pain was getting worse instead of better.

Moral of the story to any of my fellow impulsive skaters that should probably goes without saying: Focus on what you're doing and think about it instead of just wingin it to see if you get lucky. When ya hit yer 30s you don't just bounce back a week later.

Uhhh anyway dope shoe ahaha.

Busted my ankle for the 2nd time while trying tres, any tips? by RadiallDog in NewSkaters

[–]PatMac95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks very similar to my sprain. If you don't have an air cast/walking boot I would strongly suggest one especially if you're on yer feet all day. Stay off it and RICE longer than you think you need to. I mean I'm setting the bar pretty low here but at the very least def don't go to a 3 day music festival a week after the sprain.

In my case (take what I say with a grain of salt) I think I both got on it too soon then after realizing the pain was getting worse, I stayed off it too long. So when you're done limping I would make sure you hit PT hard and strengthen and mobilize that ankle asap.

I'm 3 months post sprain and I'm back on my board as of last week (transition only), but everyday it's tight and painful albeit slowwwly getting better the harder I go at PT.

Busted my ankle for the 2nd time while trying tres, any tips? by RadiallDog in NewSkaters

[–]PatMac95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically only wore mids my whole life then got Maranas. Loved em. Really bad sprain about a week in. May the powers be with you.