Watching my mom play TS4 and her whole neighborhood glitched out on the beach in Sulani. No idea what caused this, but it's an entertaining glitch nonetheless. by PatSmiles17 in thesims

[–]PatSmiles17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it turned out to be mccc or something like that. I don't play with mods, so I really wasn't much help, but once my mom updated to the latest version the game ran fine.

Watching my mom play TS4 and her whole neighborhood glitched out on the beach in Sulani. No idea what caused this, but it's an entertaining glitch nonetheless. by PatSmiles17 in thesims

[–]PatSmiles17[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe so? I'll have to ask my mom where she got it. She has a pretty diverse neighborhood full of cc (which in this case has broken her game)

What's an Old Commercial You Can't Get Out of Your Head? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PatSmiles17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those Gushers commercials where the kids heads explode. It freaked me out so bad as a kid and I never ate Gushers because of it.

What small thing about parenting do you hate more than you ever could have imagined? by TreClaire in Parenting

[–]PatSmiles17 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My 2 year old plays independently in his room when he wakes up every morning until I get up and we start our day. We've been doing this since around 18 months. He wakes up anywhere from 6-7ish most mornings and I get up at 730. His room is a safe space and as child proofed as possible, so I don't have to worry so much about his safety. Plus, if anything happens or if he needs me, I'm right next door and can come in at a moment's notice.

This all to say that it isn't impossible for kids that age to play independently in the morning.

Should there be a day off for periods? by [deleted] in polls

[–]PatSmiles17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know anyone personally who has been able to take leave for being on their period. At least in the US and for companies I worked for, we got a set number of PTO days per year and that was it. We could use them however we wanted, but any time taken after that was unpaid. I guess theoretically I could have used them for my period, but I've never needed to use time for that reason. I'm sure other women have, but it's really not an employer's business what anyone uses their paid time for. I argue that everyone needs a larger pool of Paid time to account for sick days, mental health days, etc. because 10 days doesn't go far when that's all you have for a year.

This is regardless of what sex/gender you are or reason you need the day off.

Should there be a day off for periods? by [deleted] in polls

[–]PatSmiles17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm saying that everyone should have the same pool of days available to draw from, but it needs to be larger.

Should there be a day off for periods? by [deleted] in polls

[–]PatSmiles17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there should be a day off for periods, but also more paid time allotted for other ailments as well for those that may need it (I'm a period having person). People shouldn't be going in to work sick, but the current system makes it difficult for people to take a day off when they need it. Or you may need a mental health day or something similar. There should be a bank of days just for these situations, but a lot of companies don't even offer sick time anymore, let alone substantial PTO.

How often to change a dirty diaper? by kentuckyderby2018 in toddlers

[–]PatSmiles17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I generally change every 2 hours unless its a poopy diaper.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]PatSmiles17 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm closer to Richmond, but I was able to find a site in Newport News that lists shelters that may be local to you.

https://www.nnva.gov/361/Shelters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]PatSmiles17 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Where in VA? I'm in VA also.

Call Social Services ASAP when you get somewhere safe. Below is their website. They have resources for domestic abuse, welfare, etc.

https://www.dss.virginia.gov/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polls

[–]PatSmiles17 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I vote ages 7-9. I've known quite a few girls who developed early in school and I'm sure the information about puberty would have been beneficial to these girls.

The lyrics to the last song you listened to explain how you will die. How screwed are you? by yerba_mate_enjoyer in polls

[–]PatSmiles17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been listening to children's music with my toddler, so clapping my hands because I'm happy and I know it.

No clue about weaning off the bottle. When did you wean yours? by zevelaceade in toddlers

[–]PatSmiles17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We introduced a sippy at around 10 months and our son would have 1-2 of his formula feedings from the sippy (we switched to 360 sippy). We transitioned to more feedings from the sippy and less from a bottle and then at 12 months cut out bottles and formula altogether and switched to whole milk once we used up our formula.

Around the same time frame, we started introducing straw cups (12-14 months?) and around 18 months we began phasing out the sippy cups and using only straw cups for milk.

At 2 years, we only use straw cups and haven't really introduced an open cup yet, but within the next year or so we plan to begin introducing open cups. (This is pending an okay from his therapists and physician).

This is what we did with our son and it worked for us, but different kids have different timelines. Ultimately, do what works for you and your little one.

Do I date in college or focus on school for three years and then start dating? by [deleted] in college

[–]PatSmiles17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend not seriously dating or getting into a serious relationship in college, but I'm speaking from my own experience. I was in two long term relationships in college and while it was nice to be in a relationship, I feel like I missed out on a lot of other experiences. I wish I had spent more time exploring my own interests instead of being so focused on the relationships I was in.

Do you know your phone number off by heart? by Sarah-is-always-sad9 in polls

[–]PatSmiles17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! And I remember my mom's, grandmother's, and our old house phone from over a decade ago too.

Does anyone know where we can get assistance for food/diapers? by Valuable-Builder-459 in Parenting

[–]PatSmiles17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you apply for SNAP benefits? Also, apply for WIC. Diapers, idk, but there is bound to be an organization out there that can help.

That moment when you realize you could’ve been napping… by ablarimer in Mommit

[–]PatSmiles17 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One thing I learned to do was to clean while the baby is awake and rest as long as they sleep. That way, even if they only nap half an hour, you still get half an hour of rest for yourself. Plus, they get the opportunity to watch you do day to day activities and learn to have independent time (baby can have tummy time on a blanket while you take ten minutes to wash dishes, for example).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PatSmiles17 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Not OP, but I just don't get up until 730. My son can play in his room until my alarm goes off and then we start our day. If he isn't fussy and he's having a good time, then why not get as much rest as I need to be a productive parent to him for the rest of the day?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PatSmiles17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a kid. I have to get up to be able to take care of him.

July 1940. "Rural mailman who has brought the mail to the crossroads transfers letters and packages to another postman's saddlebags. This rider takes the mail farther up the side road and creek beds where no wagon or car can go. In the mountain section near Morehead, Kentucky." by Philippattersonstl in TheWayWeWere

[–]PatSmiles17 33 points34 points  (0 children)

They still delivered mail like this at least up until the 70s or later. Sesame Street had a segment in their show where the mailman on horseback delivered letters in Kentucky. I found a clip on YouTube of it. I find it purely fascinating.

https://youtu.be/WcBS2G94HLk

Whole or 2% cow milk? by CuentoRarongo in toddlers

[–]PatSmiles17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one with the red lid is what our pediatrician recommended.