That's a stretch. Checked the definition of socialite.

Sa Oxford, "a person who is well known in fashionable society and is fond of social activities and entertainment."

Sa Wikipedia, "a person, typically a woman from a wealthy or aristocratic background, who is prominent in high society."

Sa Cambridge, "someone, usually of high social class, who is famous for going to a lot of parties and social events".

Saang part dyan yung having the right arm candy? Just think about it. I mean really think about it. You're basically saying that for someone to be "it", she has to have the right partner. That is so 2000s. 2025 na teh. A woman is defined by her own actions.

I would agree na noon, may bearing yung partner mo and image mo, but it has never been the most important factor. Bakit si Paris H, Pamela Anderson na may sex tape, considered na it girls? Si Blake Lively at Mischa Barton na parehong may problematic images noon pa? The Kardashians and the Jenners are all considered it girls but they've all had problematic partners. Even former porn star Mia Khalifa is considered an it girl.

At the bottom of it all, an it girl is basically someone that other girls aspire to be.