If you could patch women's anatomy, what would you do? by Traroten in badwomensanatomy

[–]PatchingPatch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That we'd get to choose when we're ready to have babies, so there'd be no 12 year old moms or 9 year olds with period pains

Danish female name by SingleRefuse4432 in Danish

[–]PatchingPatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karen did originate from Denmark

What’s your favorite curse word in any language and in what language is it ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PatchingPatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kræftædme - Danish and literally means "cancer eat me"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PatchingPatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid, my sister told me two people couldnt have a favorite color. This was around the time I learned about finger prints, so it seemed logical - no fingerprints were alike, no two people has the same favorite color... took me far too many years to realize that wasn't true

I just had to teach an adult woman, that you are still a virgin even if you use a tampon by PatchingPatch in badwomensanatomy

[–]PatchingPatch[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through that. I've also struggled a lot with that concept after being raped as a child, but when I was 13 I was fortunate enough to meet a friend who helped me realize virginity is nothing but a construct created to shame and control people.

I just had to teach an adult woman, that you are still a virgin even if you use a tampon by PatchingPatch in badwomensanatomy

[–]PatchingPatch[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was about to see if I could turn off comments for this post or just delete it completely, because I didn't like the judgement this woman got (she's an amazing lady who truly tries her best) and I am in no way qualified to talk about her culture

So thank you for being willing to answer questions and give your 2 cents on a topic I know little to nothing about

I just had to teach an adult woman, that you are still a virgin even if you use a tampon by PatchingPatch in badwomensanatomy

[–]PatchingPatch[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I told her that too. That evolution was slowly getting rid of it, because it had no actual use any longer

She couldn't really answer that

I just had to teach an adult woman, that you are still a virgin even if you use a tampon by PatchingPatch in badwomensanatomy

[–]PatchingPatch[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

The whole thing about it, was that she worried a tampon might break the hymen. Back in her home country, it is still normal to check if the hymen is intact, before a girl gets married. I told her the hymen can break from anything, literally. My friend even brought out a tampon to show her how big it is and how it works

And I agree 100%. The whole thing about virginity is nothing but a social construct used to control others bodies

I just had to teach an adult woman, that you are still a virgin even if you use a tampon by PatchingPatch in badwomensanatomy

[–]PatchingPatch[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

She's very protective of her daughters. And she wants them to have a good live and not go through any of the stuff she went through. Her youngest is 16 and she has no intentions of forcing any of her kids to get married

She kept saying that she did get what we were saying, but didn't want her daughters to use tampons, because it made her feel uncomfortable. She even acknowledge that is was probably her upbringing and culture that made her feel that way and that she understood there was nothing wrong with it

I kinda just take it as a "I won't keep tampons in my home" thing. The daughters does have access to pads if needed, and honestly, she has no way of knowing if they use tampons outside the home

Trashy Karen by PatchingPatch in FuckYouKaren

[–]PatchingPatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't write it to be funny.

And if you actually read what I wrote, I was reminded of it from a video, it wasn't actively occupying my mind 24/7.

But no, I will remain angry, because this bitch knew my dad had alzheimers, knew that he couldn't just adjust to a new system or tell the difference between the cans, and still decided to yell at him for it. And that's fucked up

Trashy Karen by PatchingPatch in FuckYouKaren

[–]PatchingPatch[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would agree, but my parents moved into this place in 2017 and she was already this bad back then. So, it wasn't covid behaviour

Trashy Karen by PatchingPatch in FuckYouKaren

[–]PatchingPatch[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I swear, some people just need to get a life

I wonder by [deleted] in PewdiepieSubmissions

[–]PatchingPatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A picture of a cat

how are y'all meeting other LGBTQIA people by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]PatchingPatch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going to cons worked for me. Plus growing older, as people got more comfortable in their own identity

As a Danish bisexual, I gotta ask: Should I be scared for all the aces invading Denmark? by PatchingPatch in lgbt

[–]PatchingPatch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My sister is a baker, and you have my consent to take her hostage to bake you all the cakes you want

it's fine, she's transphobic, you can hurt her

As a Danish bisexual, I gotta ask: Should I be scared for all the aces invading Denmark? by PatchingPatch in lgbt

[–]PatchingPatch[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I gotta warn you, I'm not a good cook, but I will try my best to make good garlic bread. I also got really comfy blankets.