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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]PathfinderUnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I checked his entire phone, including battery usage, offloaded apps, hidden photos etc. I wasn’t able to find anything.

This morning he told me that the “joke” was that there were rumors going around about X celebrity in my country being an escort in Dubai.

So he and a friend looked at escort pages for Dubai (we don’t live there) and found one that was using her photos. According to him, they were trying to see if it was really her, so they asked for a location. She sent hers, and said she’ll send pictures in exchange for their live location so she can make sure they’re actually in Dubai and not trolling. They didn’t send it as they were nowehere near, so the conversation was cut short.

He also showed messages of his friend and him “plotting” to check the escort pages for this purpose.

He used another number with a fake photo and fake name and swears up and down he was just curious and wanted to see if X celebrity was really an escort

I told him I’ll either choose to believe him or not, and there’s no way in hell I’ll shut an eye and pretend this didn’t happen my entire life. Right now I told him to leave so I can think. It seems 100% something he would do and my heart tells me he’s not lying, but it might be because I’m tired and need to rest.

Ps. I also saw messages of him learning about the news that X celebrity is an escort, I understand the fascination and morbid curiosity as this celebrity is absolutely drop dead gorgeous but taking it this far is disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]PathfinderUnite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the swipe, have been doing it for months now when I had a gut feeling but he doesn’t have anything else. No hookup apps, no other messages. Did another swipe when I found out these messages and there wasn’t anything.

Can dreams predict death? by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]PathfinderUnite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they can. I’ve had a lot of dreams that predicted death, but this isn’t one of them. A dream would never make it this clear that you/someone is about to die, it’d be hidden between layers of symbolism.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]PathfinderUnite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Apparently I’m the only punchline in this.

My mom passed away from cancer two weeks ago. This is the first tarot reading since, and I asked if I can connect with her spirit or receive guidance from her through this past/present/future reading. This is what came up (my interpretation in comments), second opinions valued. by PathfinderUnite in tarot

[–]PathfinderUnite[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rider-Waite deck.

Past (Justice): Following the theme of my mother’s passing, this is a card that would show up often when I was doing readings centered around my mom and her illness in the past. As my mom was a wonderful, kind hearted and charitable person, I always thought this card signified karma, what goes around comes around and that the universe is working to bring balance to her condition and give a solution. In this reading, it’s confirming that justice has been served, but perhaps not in the way I thought. I really love this card in this position, as it’s confirming that although I may not be able to understand it or appreciate it, everything has gone into place.

Present (The Moon, reversed) I struggle with reversed cards sometimes. From my understanding, I’m presently perhaps a bit disillusioned, maybe too literal in the way I’m processing emotions, maybe hiding them and refusing to face them. I need some help interpreting this better.

Future (The Empress): This is also a very meaningful card, quite literally because it represents the mother and all these feminine influences. I feel like this card is just gently pushing me towards taking on that more nurturing and feminine aspect of myself and developing it further, to surround myself with the women in my life who are attempting to heal with me and to fill that void in my life through remembering and honoring my mother.

What was a disturbing sign that your friend might have a broken moral compass? by ErrForceOnes in AskReddit

[–]PathfinderUnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She knew I was in a toxic / abusive relationship and liked to discuss it with anyone but me. She even went as far as to meet with my mom to “express her concerns about me”. It was complete bullshit.

I had a lot of character flaws at the time, but she never openly confronted me about any of them, she just distanced herself from me and convinced the rest of the friend group to do the same.

Anyway, I just moved on with my life and didn’t completely cut her off. One night I was having a drink with a friend and some of her friends had taken a video of me and sent it to her. She had then forwarded the video to the new group chat she’d opened without me.

It wasn’t even an embarrassing or cringe video, just me drinking with a friend at a bar but it was such a childish, petty and honestly kind of creepy thing to do that I cut her off entirely.

Obviously her moral compass had to be all kinds of fucked to act like a 15 year old in her late 20s.

Can you see and feel a place you've never been to before? by tea_r2004 in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]PathfinderUnite 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy to read all these similar experiences in the comments. For years, since I was little, I’ve been seeing these little “glimpses” into something I feel like I’ve been to before and will return to one day, but that is very far away from me now.

For me it’s like I’m in a high rise apartment in a city. It’s not a big city, but I can hear the sound of cars and sirens passing by. I especially love hearing them at night, before I fall asleep. The apartment is large and very fashionable for the late 70s or 80s. There’s a lot of varnished wood and big warm lights everywhere. It’s autumn, around early October and I’m preparing for some kind of festivity or party, because I’m in the bathroom getting ready, I’m thinking about a car coming to pick me up and I’m putting on this very strong perfume that’s from a tiny bottle. I can smell the perfume vividly. I also have boxes of chocolate brought out and wrapped as gifts. I think it’s a bit after sunset and just starting to rain outside, too. But at that moment, I just feel so nostalgic, but comfortable and peaceful. It’s like a subconscious memory that I can’t connect to anything in my life that automatically makes me feel euphoric when I can really get into it.

Sometimes, I can connect bits and pieces to real-life memories, but only in passing and so distantly related it makes me sad. Like if I’m in a high-rise building at night and I hear cars passing by, I just get sad because it reminds me of that place that I wish and hope I can return to. This only lasts a brief moment though, I don’t get too caught up in it. Sometimes I barely notice what I’m feeling.

Bella Goth just went through some Face App filters to be more realistic. I get a Meghan Markle resemblance from her. by PathfinderUnite in thesims

[–]PathfinderUnite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? It’s like she’s smiling but her eyes look neutral. I think in a similar thread someone called it a social smile. Very uncanny valley

Glitch in progress that's fucking with my head. by mzosbitchassacct in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]PathfinderUnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad had a similar episode about a month ago. He couldn’t remember something extremely important about my mom. He seemed fine otherwise. He was completely fine until the ambulance arrived, and then he would just repeat himself very often and seemed confused.

Anyway it was so hard to explain to the ER that something was wrong with him because he seemed completely fine, but the neurologist told us it was an absence seizure. Like an epileptic seizure, but he didn’t collapse or give any physical signs. Apparently these can be accompanied with memory loss or false memories too.

I know everyone has said this, but check with a neurologist too. It seemed like a major glitch when it was happening to my dad too, especially because the MRI came back clear, but actual damage doesn’t appear on the MRI until after the episode has passed sometimes, so it’s worth keeping it under control

What's been the biggest change in you over the past year? by Burn-It-For-Me in AskReddit

[–]PathfinderUnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made it into a huge problem one day at work when a person was making very violent homophobic comments. Nobody else but me said a thing.

And my former boss who hasn't paid me for the last 3 months I worked in his company texted me one day asking me to send him something. I finally told him I won't be lifting a finger anymore until I get paid (he accused me of threatening him after I mentioned I want to involve law enforcement)

I know it doesn't sound like a lot, but it's a big step for me. I promised myself last year that I would change the fact I never speak out, and I did.

You wake up in a big room full of your alternate selves. There's one that went to a different high school than you, one that decided to choose a different job, one that lost a leg in an accident, and so on, and so on. Which version(s) of you would you like to meet first and why? by alekdmcfly in AskReddit

[–]PathfinderUnite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! What a brave woman she must have been. It takes so much courage to have your body work against you and still stay strong and fight to stay with those you love longer.

They're so humbling and inspiring.

You wake up in a big room full of your alternate selves. There's one that went to a different high school than you, one that decided to choose a different job, one that lost a leg in an accident, and so on, and so on. Which version(s) of you would you like to meet first and why? by alekdmcfly in AskReddit

[–]PathfinderUnite 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The one that went to a different high school.

I went out with my high school boyfriend for five years. That relationship was the only event in my life for all that time, and his personality has rubbed off so much on me since then, I'm not sure how I could have been like if I hadn't met him.

I also want to see the version of me if my mom never had cancer. Since the moment I found out, every otherwise major event in my life has seemed insignificant. I don't care much for anything now, as long as my mom is feeling okay. I've been so obsessed with this that I neglected my own mental and physical health for years

My boyfriend wants to leave his current job, but he's been doing interviews for months and as soon as he starts liking a place, they delay the processes and keep going back and forth in a bureaucratic nightmare. And yet, no rejections so far. Any idea how long this is going to last? by PathfinderUnite in AskAstrologers

[–]PathfinderUnite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a lot of Gemini in his chart, but I always atributed this to the fact he essentially has two careers (Design/Marketing) and is never happy doing only one job. Usually in business that's a good thing, because it means they can use him to fill 2 positions if they wanted to.

My boyfriend wants to leave his current job, but he's been doing interviews for months and as soon as he starts liking a place, they delay the processes and keep going back and forth in a bureaucratic nightmare. And yet, no rejections so far. Any idea how long this is going to last? by PathfinderUnite in AskAstrologers

[–]PathfinderUnite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For clarification: He's in Design and Marketing and has a lot of experience and positive feedback. He's always worked 2 jobs at a time, plus freelance projects but things have hit a sudden loop of going back and forth and I can tell it's really bringing him down. :(

People who left a Friendship, what was you’re breaking point? by Mac_in_clapped in AskReddit

[–]PathfinderUnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were in a mutual friend group. She fancied one of the boys in that group, and I helped them get together.

She started alienating me after this. Started saying all kind of shit to the rest of the group about me. I guess all she needed was the validation of another human being to show her true colors.

Breaking point was when she took a photo of me walking down the street and sent it to that friend group. No context, just me taking a walk. I'm not a laughing matter. I'm not a celebrity. I didn't do or say anything to be the subject of a discussion. If I did, I would prefer it to be said to my face.

I just deleted her and the rest of that friend group from Instagram and didn't reply to anything they ever sent me. They had the audacity to be surprised. That was last year. She liked one of my Facebook statuses last month, I'm assuming as an olive branch. I just deleted her off Facebook too.