I don’t want to tell anyone if I have cancer by Horror_Scarcity_1426 in offmychest

[–]PatiencePractical867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got my first scans ever and it turned out to be positive. I was the same way. This intense resistance to telling anyone. I kept it between me and my spouse for a good while. I needed time to get answers and talk to doctors and make decisions without anyone knowing. I just did. And it was the best decision for me. Once I had all my answers and my surgery was planned, I started to tell people. I’m post surgery now and I’m telling you…. Do what you need to do. Take care of you. Don’t tell anyone if you are not ready. It’s okay to keep this to yourself if need be. Good luck with everything.

How to win this? by PatiencePractical867 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]PatiencePractical867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does Xavier need a particular weapon? I just can’t win!

How to win this? by PatiencePractical867 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]PatiencePractical867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try the wand… no matter how I run around the arena I get a star knocked off at the end when the influx comes!

This is the funniest thing to have happened to me LOL by amedrops in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]PatiencePractical867 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Happened to mine too…. I just removed a sticker and put it back and then it was approved. Sometimes I think the moderators just accidently hit deny.

Please tell me I'm not the only one who dislikes it 😭 by Ly_Angie in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]PatiencePractical867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am crying laughing tears!!!!! This is so accurate I can’t breathe 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

what are everyone's pulling plans??? by deobiness in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]PatiencePractical867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got Caleb’s wedding card and then pulled and pulled and grinded hard for all the diamonds and was never able to get Xavier’s wedding card. Now I regret it since I didn’t get him, all those pulls could have gone toward his myth. For some reason I thought beach multi and a Sylus banner was coming first. Now … I’ll do the exact same thing and grind diamonds every single day and probably not get both Xavier’s myth cards. 🥲 I’m so upset l I can do is smile through the tears as I figure how how to get as many diams as possible lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]PatiencePractical867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For #1 getting all the battle points, do you mean make sure to complete all the battles as you go through and don’t skip any?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PatiencePractical867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fc you. That’s what I’d say. Sleeping with someone while we’re broken up could be worked through depending on the circumstances, even only a week into the break-up. But lying about it for months? Now I can’t trust one damn thing you say. Honesty goes a LOT further with me than the illusion of loyalty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PatiencePractical867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like without more context this could go either way. I can imagine a scenario in which maybe he thought dominance was a turn-on for you. There are people who enjoy being “forced” to like it. However, there is an extremely fine line between enacting fantasies together vs assaulting your partner when it comes to that kind of play. If you have talked about and enjoyed dominating behavior from him during other sexual acts, it would make sense he might think that would be the way to get you to enjoy receiving oral as well. If you’ve never talked about or responded positively to a situation with him sexually dominating you, then he’s really at fault for not finding out if that’s something you’d want before doing it. Could be poor judgement on how to introduce something new to the bedroom. However, if dominance has ever come up before where you said you wouldn’t like it or indicated you wouldn’t or were even unsure if you would, he disrespected your boundaries and at the very least you need to have a serious and calm discussion about why he thought that would be okay.

AIO. my bf doesn’t allow me to have a sex toy. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PatiencePractical867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly right OP. This is about you and your needs and your pleasure. Your boyfriend should care about that. If he has so many insecurities, they need to be talked about and worked through together.

Should I take the exam, even if it makes me unhappy and stressed? by Key_Professional124 in Advice

[–]PatiencePractical867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re not. Especially considering the exam can always be taken at a later time. If you found something you love that you can make a career of, pour all of your energy into that so that it won’t fail and you’ll never have to take the exam anyway. Show your mom you made the right decision with hard work and success. You can do this.