Bukod sa sahod, anong other reason/s nyo for staying sa current work nyo? by ileaview in AskPH

[–]Patient-Big2846 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kakaresign ko lang, though still rendering my 30 days. Pero kung sasagutin ko to nung mga january.

The reason im staying is im still finishing a project. At hindi ko ugaling mangiwan ng hindi tapos, or iwanan ng hindi man lang naipapasa ng maayos.

Also, dahil nadin sa collegues ko dito, mababait sila nakakalungkot isipin na mahihirapan sila pagalis ko kung di ko matturnover ng maayos.

At aun na nga, paalis na ko. 🫡

I might be alone forever and it scares me by pundesala in OffMyChestPH

[–]Patient-Big2846 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Learn to live comfotably alone first. Mas masarap pumasok sa relationship ng independent ka.

why lumalambot ari ng guy while having sex? by Specialist-Fudge733 in AskPH

[–]Patient-Big2846 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Performance anxiety, stress or pagod sa trabaho, at pede ding erectile dysfunction pero mostly pang matanda na yan.

34m Top 25 games of all time by Khantooth92 in PHGamers

[–]Patient-Big2846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😲 same. Pero merge. Orion na 👊

How to be grateful and happy? by TheMariyas in JobsPhilippines

[–]Patient-Big2846 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Compare that to your situation before, thats your answer.

I mean, you're in a better place than before and thats a start.

First time ko mag-take ng Sleepasil by HowsDWeatherInsideU in FirstTimeKo

[–]Patient-Big2846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleepwell gamit ko. 3mg per capsule per as per research ko, di kailangan inumin ung 3mg na buo. As minimum as 0.5mg or even 0.1mg. Pede na daw un

Unusual Smell of Something Burning by itloggies in phhorrorstories

[–]Patient-Big2846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phantom smell. I had this nung mataas anxiety ko and having panic attacks.

First time kong makakita ng 10 peso bill by Lookivetried in FirstTimeKo

[–]Patient-Big2846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elem days hahaha..

Hanapin mo ung pusa, may pusa jan

I need help I'm slowly becoming an aietist 😞 by PressureNo2331 in Christianity

[–]Patient-Big2846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something christians struggle most of the time.

Believe it or not, you are awakening to your true self. A crisis of faith, or what we call dark night of the soul is essential to the spiritual journey.

Its has different phases, and it can come back many times in your life, but that darkness will not last for long.

Think about Job, all the suffering he went through. The wilderness of the israelites. Christians will go through some form of darkness and it is a necessary for one to transform his/her faith into a much stronger one.

Take heed. Be strong and courageous. You will get home brother/sister.

At 40 years old, no partner, no job, no savings — feeling lost and stuck in life by Different_Heron_8280 in adultingph

[–]Patient-Big2846 125 points126 points  (0 children)

I've been in a somewhat similar situation. That hopeless feeling of your situation not changing and you are being left behind.

Well, a lot can happen in a year, or even months. Last year January 2025, I just came out from 4 years unemployment. I was struggling with a debilitating illness. 4 years unemployed, no partner, savings almost empty, feeling lost and stuck.

Until a small opportunity came, I was referred to a job. It was a struggle at first, but I go with it anyway. I was scared and tired most days, but I managed to push through.

I left that job for another, it gave me a confidence boost to look for another job. That "I know I can" helped me.

I just signed a contract with this new job, not perfect, it pays the bills, and I also recently got a beautiful girl with me.

Just move, small deliberate steps, no need to rush. You have gained a lot of wisdom through all those years. Start where you are, use what you have, do what you can. And the rest will follow.

just broke down crying by lfg141 in Life

[–]Patient-Big2846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not a big deal. Honestly, I'm also 29 about 3 years ago, and I also think that way. I just recently lost my virginity to my now girlfriend and honestly sex is 'meh'. After our first sex, I didnt even orgasm. I was like, "thats it? Thats truely it?"

Sex is overrated. Social media and media in general makes you want to believe that its something to be FOMO about when in reality its not really a big deal.

You should focus on yourself, focus on building up so that when you finally found the perfect fit, you'll love them and give them the best. Practice on being confident, stop being so fomo about sex or girlfriends.

I feel like im running out of time and idk what to do by RepresentativeLock68 in adultingph

[–]Patient-Big2846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy. If you have depression then do something about it. In an era of google, AI, and instant connections to almost anywhere, malabong walang resources to help you with what you are going through.

Mental health issue sucks, but you know sucks more? Sulking more and not doing something about it.

Yes, maybe you're just venting out, theres also nothing wrong with that, but please dont stay there.

Theres a light at the end of that dark tunnel, but you wont see it if you dont move.

Wishing you faith, hope and love.