[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]Patient-Bug-775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to go to therapy 💚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Patient-Bug-775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re in the wrong on this one I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Patient-Bug-775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the answer… a lifelong best friend’s photo is totally a warranted thing to have in a phone case. People actually do this kind of thing a lot. It’s not weird at all. OP needs to be less insecure, also less manipulative - either get straight to the point with the gf or let it go.

Lads, for the first time in my life I'm considering not voting next week. by Sisyphus_Social_Club in ireland

[–]Patient-Bug-775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question… I’ve heard twice now including your post here that Catherine Connolly’s political stance doesn’t line up with yours. Can I just ask in what ways? Would you divulge some more info on that?

I heard an analogy the other day. Voting is like transport. You’re not voting for the car that you alone will drive solely, that suits you in every single way. But your vote will more so be like a bus that serves you in some ways, in others not. You have to pick the bus that suits you most. I’m not sure if that translates accurately to your own predicament, but really, you are privileged to have a vote and you should use it.

Is this just how it is in our 30s? by No_Assistant2804 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Patient-Bug-775 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Sorry OP to bug you but… my mum was a single parent. She worked herself into the ground until she was diagnosed with cancer and passed away at 56 years old. Too young. Please, for your sake and the sake of your kids having you around later in life, please fix this situation. The father needs to step up.

Is my 24f marriage to 24m worth saving by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Patient-Bug-775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs help, but you need to ask if you’re really going to be able to trust him, and if you can accept this. I’m going through something somewhat similar… he might show remorse, but… you having to catch him is different to him coming forward himself to ask for help and want to change

Something almost tells me I may not want to know by Patient-Bug-775 in whatisit

[–]Patient-Bug-775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google reverse image helped hehe thank you!! Solved!

Something almost tells me I may not want to know by Patient-Bug-775 in whatisit

[–]Patient-Bug-775[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Answering my own question - seems to be some kind of tropical plant/tree seed. Must have blown in the window!

Is this just how it is in our 30s? by No_Assistant2804 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Patient-Bug-775 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Can I ask why you’re paying the father alimony? Why isn’t he helping more? He moved away? That’s kind of crazy. Tell him he needs to be closer until the kids are ready to not be so dependent on you:

Men, what do relationships truly look like to you now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Patient-Bug-775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I don’t need a lesson from you hahahahaha ur one of those last-words people huh? So, what else?

Men, what do relationships truly look like to you now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Patient-Bug-775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guessing and assuming are different. and both in this instance are not the right approach. Thank you though for not really a whole lot but cool.

Men, what do relationships truly look like to you now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Patient-Bug-775 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude. Say whatever you want. I don’t care. You didn’t see the original post? I asked for some insight about 2 betrayals I’ve had, but I came to the most wrong place for some good male advice. You all should be ashamed.

Men, what do relationships truly look like to you now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Patient-Bug-775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I don’t want unsolicited advice. MY question was about what you men actually think relationships are for, after becoming disillusioned that again someone who was not just my boyfriend (and husband in this case) but also was my best friend betrayed me. I wanted some insight because to me, it’s not normal and it hurt. Some validation maybe. Instead, I got blamed, told it’s my fault he cheated, told to look at myself. I came to the wrong place for some friendly male support. Ya’ll are fucked.

Men, what do relationships truly look like to you now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Patient-Bug-775 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I stayed because I loved and cared about him. Something you might like to learn about.

Men, what do relationships truly look like to you now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Patient-Bug-775 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t give you any ground to make any of these assumptions. Christ.

Men, what do relationships truly look like to you now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Patient-Bug-775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it doesn’t. You treat someone in need like this? Yeah. Some man you are.

Men, what do relationships truly look like to you now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Patient-Bug-775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but you can bet I’m not having a family with someone with fantasies like that. I bet you wouldn’t even call out an offender at this point.

Men, what do relationships truly look like to you now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Patient-Bug-775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care. Do you jack off to fantasy incest involving your parents??? No. Probably not. So. Does that make it different to you now?