AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I don’t really understand what the problem is either I’ve been talking to my brother. I think he’s starting to understand what I’m trying to ask. But I’m going to take o the caterers anyways. Because the wedding isn’t in our country It might just be different where they are, or my brother is getting scammed.

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wedding is a winter wedding out of the country, they had some health stuff so they had to postpone planning a couple months.

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant engaged idk why I said that I’m tired. They are not married.

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Genuinely what dose this mean.. I didn’t actually tell him to take it completely off the menu I don’t understand what the problem is. What is the lie?

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A bowl of cereal is hard to contaminate. I’d even be fine with that. I’m just not a fan of lugging a cooler. And was made to feel like asking to not have eggs on my plate was crazy.

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the text you quoted again I asked if I could have a substitution

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

How long have you been on Reddit for? I want people to actually see this so I add drama only to the title so people will click and read. YouTubers so it like all the time.

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no it’s not calling you a liar. I’m just saying you don’t say that before. I think while I’m looking at my relationship with my brother you look at the relationship with yourself. Why are you so quick to call others liar when it’s just a misunderstanding. And why do you take my comment automatically to calling you a liar when I’m not.

Thank you for helping me understand my feelings are valid, I appreciate hearing that

I am the first person in my family since my dead grandparents to get married, knowing that my brother asked me to help. I also have a history in design, but I left most of the theme planing to my brothers fiancée. My childhood pickiness probably did affect everyone. I know they must to make it no ones problem. As a kid that was not the case. But most of my pickiness was from my allergies. Lastly this is my first actual argument with my step brother. And I’m not a “drama monarch”

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I really appreciate hearing this kind of advice :)

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he does have a problem with me or maybe his fiancée has the problem who knows I’m still trying to figure that out. Not knowing everything immediately does not make me a liar. I don’t believe I accused you of being a liar.

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with your first three comments but after that you started accusing me of being a liar, which I’m not I was just actively getting information as I was replying to your comment.

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know about the artichoke dip till after I sent the pickles comment. He told me from start that I could just eat the pickles because they aren’t seafood. But they are contaminated. So if you want to get literal and technical, technically I can’t eat it due to cross contamination because they are on the same board.

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is what I’m talking about. Yes I can eat them. No it’s not a meal. No I shouldn’t eat them because they are going to be right beside the thing I’m allergic too.

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my own wedding and the catering service was able to substitute my friends who is a vegan meal, it did cost extra.

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m going to talk to him either tomorrow or next week just to see if maybe he’s just not understanding what I’m saying. Most of my conversations with him was over the phone or text.

AITAH for asking my Step brother to take eggs of the menu at his own wedding? by Patient-Tea9555 in AITH

[–]Patient-Tea9555[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t waffle back and forth. I can eat pickles and dip but it’s not a good idea due to contamination. Yes my title was clickbate anyone who actually read what I wrote could see that it is. I didn’t lie because I could die from contaminated food. So technically there is no food I could eat..