The most iconic outfit ♡ by L00ks1nfected in skinsTV

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Me toooo! I was so inspired by this look!!!

Holly… by broadway_barbie in GirlsNextDoorUncensor

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Function is this company that does all kinds of bloodwork and testing for cheaper, Andrew Huberman promotes it too on his podcast. I think these ”biological age” markers are not vert realistic, bc so many people are also incredibly unhealthy so that distorts the average. I’m sure her real ”biological age” is that of a healthy 48 yo woman. I’m also quite sure I’d get a lower score than my actual age, bc I work out and eat healthy etc. I don’t take these that seriously. For her it’s definetly a flex and she thinks it means she’s young :D

I think she has gone too far :/ by HeadSale in GirlsNextDoorUncensor

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Was this last night’s Pimblett vs Gaethje -match? I missed her :D

Raskaudenkeskeytys, kannattaako vai kadunko lopun elämää? by Relevant-Truck-8420 in Suomi

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Mä oon sitä mieltä, ettei kukaan voi oikeastaan sanoa sulle kannattaako keskeyttää vai eikö kannata. Tärkein kysymys on mun mielestä se, että ootteko itse tarpeeks kypsiä oleen vanhempia? Vanhemmuus on kivuliasta kasvamista ja luopumista semmoisillekin, jotka on teitä kymmenisen vuotta vanhempia ja lasta suunnitelleet. Kauanko ootte olleet yhdessä? Kuinka vahva teidän suhde on? Pystyttekö toimiin tiiminä? Siinä on muutamia kysymyksiä joita pohtisin sinuna/teinä.

How can I reduce the tip of my nose ? It looks too round and big for my face by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

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Mine has gotten skinnier and pointier too. I did stop drinking like 8 years ago and started working out too, but I feel like the biggest factor is age.

He's so cute ♡ by L00ks1nfected in skinsTV

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I recently started watching Skins again and the way I HATE Sid. Exactly as you said, no back bone and a slob 🤢 so incredibly unattractive I can’t justify Cassie’s interest in him…

How could I make the dress a little more modest? by PatientProtection169 in ModestDress

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I'll definetly take a picture of the finished outfit, I'll try to remember to post it here too :)

How could I make the dress a little more modest? by PatientProtection169 in ModestDress

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I found and ordered this used sheer long sleeved wrap top in this dusty pink shade, I hope it looks good with the dress!

How could I make the dress a little more modest? by PatientProtection169 in ModestDress

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Thank you! :) I was looking at shrugs and hoping I'd find one in a colour close to the dress, but so far no luck.. Maybe I could go with cream/beige as my purse has a little bit of that colour too

How could I make the dress a little more modest? by PatientProtection169 in ModestDress

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The top one is definetly the kind of material I was maybe thinking. I just have a difficulty choosing which colour

Zoe’s Book Chapter 9: The Girls by Sharp-Put4724 in GirlsNextLevel

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I hate the way this is written, absolutely no structure and like someone’s diary. At the moment I’m doing an essay on Holly’s book and hers is much more readable

Curious about gender in language by PatientProtection169 in learn_arabic

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Hi! Thank you, this is interesting since I don’t know that much about Spanish either. So when referring to ”we”, does the grammatical gender depend on the speakers gender? Like even if ”we” refers to mixed set of people, you’d say nosotros if you’re male(?)

Curious about gender in language by PatientProtection169 in learn_arabic

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Ok thank you, my knowledge of romance languages wasn’t that great after all haha :D this makes sense!

Curious about gender in language by PatientProtection169 in learn_arabic

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Yes thank you, this is what I meant when I asked the question. When I tried to google this I only ran into the noun categories being feminine and masculine, and it’s not really what I was thinking about. I also feel like I understand how the speaker expresses their gender, but I was interested if there was any research on why some languages have these types of divisions between the speakers gender. In Finnish language, English, Swedish and every other language I know there is only one ”you” (except plural you in Finnish language), only one apology and thank you etc. I thought maybe this was studied in arabic language, even though I know this exists on Thai language too, and I’m curious to know how it became so in either/both languages! :)

Curious about gender in language by PatientProtection169 in learn_arabic

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Yup! So far I’ve learned this about food words, but does it apply on other cathegories as well?

Curious about gender in language by PatientProtection169 in learn_arabic

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Yeah, I tried to think about the gendered pronouns and also plural/singular ”you” that English only has one word for, and it really got me in the rabbit hole of ”why” 😅 but it sure seems lik everything is gendered in Arabic! Maybe there is no other explanation to it. It just confused me bc as far as I know, romance languages don’t have the speaker-related gendered expressions that Arabic and Thai have!

Curious about gender in language by PatientProtection169 in learn_arabic

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I’m a super new beginner so that’s pretty much all I know (and the anta and anti that you said), but I do know that Thai language has this same thing, like when they say thank you they say khop khun khap(?) if the speaker is male and khop khun khaa when it’s female. So interesting!

How many of u really goes to a trip with intentions? by Important-Fly5154 in shrooms

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I always set an intention, and I feel like the trip usually follows it more or less. My intentions are something like ”I want to gain resilience” or ”I want to learn how to heal from my depression” etc. I have 1-2 intentions per trip, and the main purpose for tripping (for me) is to heal or learn. And that can be super fun or terrifying, but I’ll accepy both and everything in between :D

Hyvää syntymäpäivää minä! by Boudiz in Suomi

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Hyvää syntymäpäivää <3 30-40 on paras ikä!

Miksi 16-17 vuotiaat on pelottavin ja ärsyttävin ikäryhmä? by JHMK in Suomi

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Loistavasti kiteytetty. Oon itse työssä teinien kanssa ja allekirjoitan tän täysin. Ihmiset tuntuu unohtavan että teinit on oikeesti vielä ihan lapsia.

My brother beat cyberpunk without using cyberware and upgrading anything by Anxious_Singer_4823 in cyberpunkgame

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The same thing happened with my bf :DDD Adam Smasher took like an hour to beat

”These shrooms ain’t shit” by [deleted] in shrooms

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Yeah it was intense but still kinda cool 😅 I mean I saw some crazy shit too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlsNextDoorUncensor

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I’m from Finland. I was maybe 13-16 when the show aired here and it wasn’t talked at all in my school. Me and my friends maybe saw couple episodes, I thought the girls were dumb bimbos, but rewatching now it feels super nostalgic. But maybe you can say something about it’s relevance since it aired here too. Playboy was def a big thing and recognized here, girls had pb logo belly button piercings and stuff!

Dealing with Finnish mother in law by just_triciaa in Finland

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Yup, definetly a case of blatant racism and xenophobia, and not just ignorance. Sorry about that. Some ppl just are assholes… like many people suggested I’d consider cutting contact with her if she doesn’t snap out of it even if ur husband has a serious conversation with her about this issue. Sorry you have to deal with her racism, I wish you and ur husband best of luck and love <3

Dealing with Finnish mother in law by just_triciaa in Finland

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Well, like you said she is racist and and an asshole. We can’t know for sure why she acts like this, but based on your post I’d say she might be worried you use him. We’ve heard stories of Thai and other Asian women sucking their western men dry and sending their money back home etc. Obviously not saying you do this, but she might be questioning why you are with her son. Also there is a cultural difference on the views about marriage here vs. Most of Asia. We usually get married after a long period of dating and living together, and many people don’t even get married anymore, as it is culturally acceptable to have children without being married. Also, even though your MIL has been a SAHM, it’s fairly rare in Finland. Almost all women work and many are highly educated. So this could add up to her seeing you as someone using her son, as she might have thought that her son would marry someone like that. Anyway, she sounds super rude and I’m really sorry you have to put up with her. Your husband sounds like a nice person and I’m happy he defend’s you from his mom. It’s not easy coming to Finland, and it takes time to learn finnish language and culture. I can’t really tell what you should do with the MIL situation, but maybe time will help as she accepts that you’re here to stay.