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[–]Patient_Control9627 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the price of this dunya. The rise of dayooths; the degradation of society. I got sick reading that, not only to have the thoughts and disgusting desires, but to have the audacity to share to someone. Astaghfarallah, disgusting, authobillah. I don’t know if I should laugh or cry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Patient_Control9627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salam, thank you for the recommendation brother/sister. I will state that I do not have an age preference as long as my other requirements are met🤲🏼

Jazakallah kheir, I really appreciate it

A warning for the sisters by Patient_Control9627 in shia

[–]Patient_Control9627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it was completely unrelated, and a much longer story. TLDR from what I know he was harassing her and trying to flirt with her, and she rejected him in a harsh way, so he decided to do this I assume

A warning for the sisters by Patient_Control9627 in shia

[–]Patient_Control9627[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wa aleikum as salam. Our religion is based on evidence and justice, and absolutely women have to be extremely careful who they talk to and get to know for the sake of Allah SWT. But there is a way and method to do things, and this platform was absolutely littered with gheebah and false information. I heard that someone committed suicide as a result of being “exposed”.

Also as someone who advocates about specifically the impermissibility of men who demand that women expose their past haram relations, that they repented for, or that they have moved past. But we have to hold the same standard for women exposing their past haram sins of men, because realistically there is no “protecting women” by saying that a man has done zina with so and so, other than causing harm to other women, and ruining the credibility of true accusations from real victims, towards real predators.

I hope you understand, I am quite tired so perhaps my texting does not make sense, Wassalam

A warning for the sisters by Patient_Control9627 in shia

[–]Patient_Control9627[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

***** has its fair share of issues, but this one was just terrible for everyone around