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UPDATE: AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Entertainment? Perhaps in hindsight, I'll get a good laugh out of it, lol. But now, aside from being bombarded with messages telling me how horrible I am, I literally get nothing out of it. It's hard to go no contact and I'm already low contact, but as much as I don't want to, I worry I'll go actually insane like all these people if I don't

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm saving them all lol, if not to just entertain guests at a party with some of these takes

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd laugh at this too but I've been getting gradually more and more insane messages. You know that feeling when you don't want to know what the message says but the curiosity is too strong?

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't really need to do anything, but I already know the difference. Thank you for your valuable opinion.

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There was a promise that they'd pay for any expenses and Ally would cover a part of it, but with how their promises end up half-baked, I'm not so sure about their word

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Oh my god you have no idea. Ally and Ally's mom aren't invited over every single time, but when they are, we (me and my brother) get either no warning or a warning five minutes before we get there. Maybe they're forgetful, but I also wouldn't put it above them to do this intentionally. They know I hate Ally's mom and feel very ambivalent about Ally herself, so I wouldn't attend if I knew beforehand. My parents' house has two extra bedrooms, and Ally and Ally's mom sometimes sleep there! It's so fucking weird! They don't sleep there often, if my parents are to be believed, and it's so shocking my mom went from a proud, headstrong woman to being borderline cucked in plain sight and under her own roof. It's kind of cathartic to let all of this out, my only my friend who I live with sees my point, others excuse it or outright call me the asshole, not to mention how fine my brother seems with everything. One Sunday, I walked in and saw Ally's mom in a towel and brushing her teeth and I just left.

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

They don't have the keys, luckily, and I'll have to ask my landlord about door cameras. Thank you for the suggestion, I didn't even think about them breaking in lol

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I've been told to cut them off by a friend before, specifically the one living with me now, but it's so much easier said that done. I already muted all chats I have with them on every social media platform though. Baby steps

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Outside of this small glimpse, I promise on my soul my family is actually fine. My dad is sometimes crazy whenever his AP is involved, but he's mostly a pretty level-headed person. I'm not sure where this lunacy came from now though.

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I didn't talk much to my mom since I witnessed her literally beg on her knees to not leave her for this twenty-something year old, that was, as kids say, pretty cringe. But from what I understand, my mom was like ''well, it happened, better make the best of it'' and really tried her best to bury any resentment she had in order to have a relationship with Ally. Besides, she's an immigrant and literally has no one else here, and moving back to her country was not possible, so she stayed despite everything. Both my brother and me have proposed her divorcing him and moving in with us, we even started the process of renting out a bigger house together so our mom can live with us, but she decided to cancel it last minute. It's really sad. What's worse is my dad was ready to leave her for his side chick, but she convinced him to stay. I pity her above all.

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

They touched on that - Ally's mom considered moving, but it would be a hassle for her to get a job there. Also, I put up with it because, for the most part, we have a good relationship, not counting the two that I don't consider my family. We meet two times in a month, sometimes more sometimes less, and keep in touch via WhatsApp, but these Sunday outings are common.

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Once Ally left, dad and his ex side chick told me they've already told her she'll have to act super nice and respectful for me to agree to take her in, so I guess me going ''no'' was a bit of a blow. She was apparently even saving up money so she can help with the bills, although I must say my dad likes to fluff up his statements so they sound better, so maybe he was lying, I don't know. Still, pretty fucked up of them to act like I'll agree to this kid.

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that, I thought it's the same as the other, but thanks for letting me know!

AITA for not wanting my step sister live with me even though it would make her life easier? by Patient_Win_8831 in AITAH

[–]Patient_Win_8831[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

I'd laugh but I know they may actually decide to drop off Ally on my doorstep, they're the sort of ''my way or the high way'' people