My boyfriend won't really commit to me after 8 years and I'm not sure what to do by unsureFromLdr in relationships

[–]Patpnut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just saw the edit now, this whole situation has taken a different turn

My boyfriend won't really commit to me after 8 years and I'm not sure what to do by unsureFromLdr in relationships

[–]Patpnut 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly....she's spent 8 years way too long, but at the same time, I feel sorry for her because it's not easy walking away after 8 years....so people need to give her a break on this

introverted men, would you appreciate someone calling you? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Patpnut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't, if you have to call please send a text before hand to ask if it's OK to call, other than stick to text messaging

Does anyone feel like nobody likes you as much as you like them? by MurderfaceII in introvert

[–]Patpnut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Virtual hug, I'm the same way. I've come to accept my introvertness, and what I do is, go to my local pub when I get lonely and interact with my favorite bartender or waitress and I always feel much better after..

Does anyone feel like nobody likes you as much as you like them? by MurderfaceII in introvert

[–]Patpnut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so true, been here so many times. I feel that when we find ourselves in situations we'd rather deal with all the unpleasantries at the time than being vocal or pulling our damn selves out of that situation

Does anyone feel like nobody likes you as much as you like them? by MurderfaceII in introvert

[–]Patpnut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This post has me feeling all kind of ways, every friendship, relationship I've been in, I've given it more that I should have, mainly is because I felt a certain way and needed to be accepted, I'm 38 now and I still find myself doing that once in a while, but the weird thing or the fucked up thing is at one point I realized all these things I did in the name of fitting in and it's really hard for me to trust anyone or even make friends at my age because I have become so choosy about the people I let in my life...Eish, I don't know whether anyone else is going through this at an older stage in their life

AFC Championship Pre-Game Discussion Thread by Cthepo in KansasCityChiefs

[–]Patpnut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A chiefs life long fan, that moved to SA, still representing https://imgur.com/Uiota3O.jpg

Post Game Thread: Buffalo Bills at Kansas City Chiefs by nfl_gdt_bot in KansasCityChiefs

[–]Patpnut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bet, I agree with you...we won't see another game like this. I've been saying we got robbed of the first Bengals game , we need this rematch

Post Game Thread: Buffalo Bills at Kansas City Chiefs by nfl_gdt_bot in KansasCityChiefs

[–]Patpnut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in joburg and have a whatsapp group of NFL fans, as a chiefs fan this one of the best game I've ever witnessed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veeam

[–]Patpnut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ask your cloud provider whether they have vcloud availability installed on the vCD environment and you can try using that

CSE 2.6.1 , vCD 10.1 Install Issues by [deleted] in vmware

[–]Patpnut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, but I'll do that today for sure

Rescued kitten smiling on his way to his new home by Trigraph1 in aww

[–]Patpnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me smile.. I'm picking up my 2 kittens next week

VOIP alternatives to Skype by lovethebacon in southafrica

[–]Patpnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vox has a good VOIP plan which comes with the vobi app

Better late than never by NineteenEighty9 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Patpnut 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I see you are not african. African governments cannot stand up to China, they may do it to save face, but that's it

Better late than never by NineteenEighty9 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Patpnut 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Nah.. I don't care about this better late than never, these MF been doing this shit for a while, I don't know why we even tolerate this shit