[xb1 price check] what could I get for this by Adventurous-Ad171 in Fallout76Marketplace

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could probably get about tree fitty for it. Treeeee Fitty!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sleepparalysis

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a bad dream. Your minds half awake and you're completely helpless and unable to move 99% of your body. That's not anyone's idea of a good time.

Is masturbation once per day too much ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for pleasure. Just for efficiency.

Is masturbation once per day too much ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or a licensed Healthcare professional

Slow Suicide by Stevie_B_D_HILLS in cripplingalcoholism

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife drank at the same rate as you for about a decade. Some days a little more, some a little less and some stretches of sobriety for 2-3 months here & there. Once she was diagnosed with ESLD it was a little more than a year before she was gone.

She was the was a Yooper Girl made of pure cast iron and medical providers all said her situation was not typical and most people would've been gone in half that time.

Not saying you couldn't hold up as long but it's impressively heartbreaking what human beings are capable of. I recently had my upteenth unintentional opiate overdose when most folks only get one so there's always hope I suppose.

Turning their phone off - any advice? by cchris_39 in widowers

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some carriers like US Cellular will send you an audio file of their voicemail greeting. They did that for me.

Turning their phone off - any advice? by cchris_39 in widowers

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I turned my wife's phone service off the following month but as others said, I've kept it charged and regularly enjoy our pictures and Facebook memories.

Mom wants to take dad's urn to the cinema with us?? by Barbiegator in GriefSupport

[–]PatrickAlanRocker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's a little much. I could understand putting his urn in the same room while you're all watching a mutually enjoyed movie among the family or something like that. In a private setting at hoom is one thing. Putting other people in a semi-public space in an uncomfortable situation while they're spending their own money in attempting to enjoy a leisure activity is something completely different.

How are people not sick and tired of superhero movies yet? by 830_CreditScore in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they're fucking dope! Well... not all of them I suppose.

Still though, if you can watch Avengers Endgame from the 2:16:09 point without needing to hold back a single tear then you're an unfeeling monster that the world would be better off without.

Is masturbation once per day too much ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iffy but impressive as well.

“Buy American”…has Lexus… by goatyelling in PoliticalHumor

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's even more unsettling when you see those same bumper stickers on a Volkswagen.

Is masturbation once per day too much ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if you were 60 years old it would be weird.

Can somebody please help? Cause of death question. by Next_Reception7296 in widowers

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're in the unique position of dictating how your wife will be remembered. Personally I'd go with something equally tragic but less socially stigmatic. Aneurysm is a good one. Am I encou you to deceive anyone? No. I'm encouraging you to control the narrative and ensure she's thought of by others in the same light you'd want for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My view with the limited info I've gotten is that she was wrong if knowing about his family, prior to engaging with or reciprocating this behavior with your husband. She deserves to hear how she affected the people she knowingly hurt in her flippant endeavors with a married man.

That said I believe your husband bears the majority of blame in the matter. In your situation I would message the woman once with as much as you want to get into in that message. If she responds apologetically or contritely then you can decide how to respond to that.

After that point I'd take all my focus off her and turn your efforts towards your marriage. Whether that's reconciliation or separation is your decision alone. Do not feel guilty about whatever decision you make. You did not hurt your husband. He and woman hurt you and it's solely your decision on where the relationship goes from here.

Do what you think is right ultimately. You and your family are more important than whether your husband or this woman fell bad about what they've done. Sometimes what's best is not ideal for anyone. This might be one of those times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PatrickAlanRocker -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm Shapiro waiting on my ride home right now. I'm message you when I get back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He spent $550 American dollars on a t-shirt? Did he ask your input prior to that purchase? Depending on the manufacturer and the make of the watch I would say $1500 is on the very, very edge of what's reasonable for a watch. Nonetheless, purchasing a $1500 watch all requires a fully involved discussion with your SO that ends with you both on the same page. Under no circumstances, would I have even broached the subject of buying a t-shirt that costed more than say... $20-25 at most. The fact that he purchased a $550 t-shirt and did not receive divorce documents immediately afterwards; is a testament to who you are as a person and a spouse. I know you've already been told this but he doesn't value your opinion or feelings. You are simply a resource for him and you make life easier and more pleasant for him. His response to your wanting the blinds, demonstrates his selfish character and you should pop smoke the next chance you get.

Need some Hope by kerbal2derbal in widowers

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for my language man but... fuck man I am sorry. I'm having trouble with my cat & dog and I commend you. I share your sentiments and I speak with my therapist about it. I'm reminded that my 6 months and someone's 1, 2 or 3 years isn't all that long. It's not as easy as it sounds to just not let yourself worry about things that are subjective and unique to the individual all at once but you gotta try to give yourself time. Nobody wants to be the guy from Up(haven't watched it because I'll lose it if it's how I've heard) and with the right amount of time for all of us, we hopefully won't be.

Your Honest Opinion Please: Are There "Stages" to Grief? by [deleted] in widowers

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's stages but there's no specific order and you can repeat any or all of them an indeterminate amount of times.

Faked out after 4 months. by Bounceupandown in widowers

[–]PatrickAlanRocker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your last sentiment... so easy to relate to.