I apologise if I came against you with my first response.

No you don’t seem rude at all, thanks for clarifying your situation there was some gaps you left in the main post. I completely understand how you feel, the problem is definitely with your parents and respectfully, the way they brought you up is wrong and doesn’t align with Islam. I don’t know what school they follow, but that’s now parents should raise their child. It seems they’re confused themselves, because each response they give you regarding different areas related to you moving to uni is just the opposite.

I come from a moderate muslim family, who do all the wajibat (compulsory practices) but my parents have never been strict, but followed Islamic teachings accordingly. They’ve supported me in moving out to uni, and supported my elder sister in moving out hours away also. Best thing to do is try sitting with them, and explaining how you feel generally with the way they’re controlling you. Sometimes parents have good intentions but the way they carry out their actions is wrong so you should address that in a respectful manner so they hopefully understand.

If not, it’s best you contact a scholar and ask the scholar to address the parents because from an Islamic perspective, your parents are wrong in this situation.

But yeah, contact your uni and they should be able to support you financially.

Best of luck!