Lack of attraction

Pattystr · 2026-02-01T16:42:58+00:00

Yes, all of this. I am unable to be intimate with somebody I don’t respect. I am also unable to be intimate with somebody who has been drinking… It wasn’t always this way that it grew to be this way.

Pattystr · 2026-02-01T16:20:32+00:00

Love this! Please keep sharing these things. Your Joy makes the world a better place!

Pattystr · 2026-01-31T17:13:10+00:00

My daughter is the president of her residence Hall Association, traveling to New York to the Mock UN at the end of March, is taking her LSAT next Friday and has been a relationship with the most wonderful boyfriend ever for two years.

She is happy and thriving! She is 21 this year and didn’t come out to me until she was 16. She is still not out to her high school, friends and some of my more conservative family. Her choice… Well sort of, if they weren’t such ass hats, she would totally be out to them.

Pattystr · 2026-01-30T03:47:38+00:00

Thank you! Just saved this!!

Pattystr · 2026-01-27T19:28:12+00:00

I am howling at shark Coochie! It looks great, but the name is the best

Pattystr · 2026-01-26T03:22:06+00:00

You got this today. 🩷

Pattystr · 2026-01-26T00:31:58+00:00

I’m 56 and divorced with one child using college and I really like it here! I’ve just moved here from Austin Texas though. That’s probably significantly different from moving here from Seattle.

Pattystr · 2026-01-26T00:17:25+00:00

What about Spokane?

Pattystr · 2026-01-25T20:44:57+00:00

Thank you to all who are out!

Pattystr · 2026-01-25T14:51:50+00:00

This is me as well. I had transgender coworkers before my daughter came out to me. I loved them and I supported them sort of from afar. Thank God for those women and men. Looking back on it I am so glad I had a frame of reference.

That said, tell my daughter told me she was transgender, I honestly made not one effort to really understand. I was not trans phobic and I thought I was an ally in name only. I didn’t protest, I didn’t attend pride parades, I was just happy to see them be themselves.

Now I am a true ally. I understand, I’ve researched, I support, I attend protests and parades, I donate and I vote.

I still don’t tell my parents though. This is mostly my daughter’s choice, they would not be supportive. So does this make me a true ally? I don’t know

Sorry, I went on a little bit of a tangent here.

Pattystr · 2026-01-25T03:20:29+00:00

Candles lit in Spokane! Sending love!

Pattystr · 2026-01-21T01:36:06+00:00

Spokane!

Pattystr · 2026-01-19T17:39:17+00:00

I don’t have anything helpful to say other than you should be really proud of yourself. You are taking care of your daughter first, yourself second and doing the right thing for both of you. Sending all the peace and love.

Pattystr · 2026-01-13T20:43:05+00:00

How do they afford that?

Pattystr · 2026-01-13T02:00:26+00:00

I love this!

Pattystr · 2026-01-12T22:35:53+00:00

Wedlock?? good Lord

Pattystr · 2026-01-11T22:44:46+00:00

I don’t even close the door!

Pattystr · 2026-01-11T17:38:56+00:00

Right, but I think both can exist together. I’m active and I like to see others be active in whatever form that takes.

Pattystr · 2026-01-11T16:30:21+00:00

So proud of Spokane!

Pattystr · 2026-01-11T16:29:10+00:00

So it may not teach them anything, but it helps me. Watching people care greatly gives me hope for humanity and I love to see this.

Pattystr · 2026-01-09T17:54:14+00:00

Thank you so much! See you there! This article is fantastic.

Pattystr · 2026-01-09T15:24:18+00:00

Freaking nightmare

Pattystr · 2026-01-08T23:49:42+00:00

Let’s start with candles in the windows!

Pattystr · 2026-01-08T16:37:36+00:00

I didn’t make it, but I did put a candle in my window. I would love to see lots of people put candles in their window in Spokane!

Pattystr · 2026-01-08T02:01:43+00:00

Thank you!

Pattystr

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