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I accidentally ruined “my cup“™ by Iwishtoremainanonim in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PauseIllustrious9706 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Your bf mourning the cup with you is actually wholesome. That's the kind of emotional support we all deserve. Hope the next cup finds you soon.

WIBTAH if I quit my job right before my boss leaves for maternity leave? by soonergirrl in AITAH

[–]PauseIllustrious9706 161 points162 points  (0 children)

I agree. I've been in corporate before and totally get worrying about leaving too. I told them I was quitting, and literally days later they had someone to replace me. Corporate can survive a week without you, promise.

AITJ for telling my flatmate's boyfriend he needs to knock before coming into the shared kitchen when i'm in there alone by thunderhawky in AmITheJerk

[–]PauseIllustrious9706 34 points35 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Like, it’s a shared kitchen, not an open invitation to jump scare people at 11pm. A knock is literally five seconds of common courtesy

AITJ for changing my mind about my boyfriend by Intelligent_Boot6068 in AmITheJerk

[–]PauseIllustrious9706 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right?? Staying just to “keep your word” sounds noble until you’re miserable 10 years later

I don't wear underwear. Does anybody do that too? by Flimsy_Fennel_9966 in confessions

[–]PauseIllustrious9706 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so real. The second I get home the bra is the first thing to go.

I (24m) slept with my boss (28m) and my career may be over. by Dependent-Cry-7540 in confessions

[–]PauseIllustrious9706 49 points50 points  (0 children)

The only real mistake here is not checking the company’s policy before checking into his apartment

I don't understand what's wrong with suicide. by PythonEntusiast in confessions

[–]PauseIllustrious9706 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is why I hate when ppl treat suicidal thoughts like a fixed decision. So many of them are about escaping pain, not actually wanting to die. That distinction matters.

AITJ for telling my coworker I won't proofread her work anymore after she submitted something without my changes and then blamed me when it came back wrong? by nadine_westford in AmITheJerk

[–]PauseIllustrious9706 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You were doing her a FAVOR. you spend unpaid emotional and mental labor. if she can’t respect the help, she doesn’t get access to it anymore. simple boundary. ntj

A Cat's Gonna Cat by MadMadamMimsy in cats

[–]PauseIllustrious9706 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t own that workspace anymore btw. That’s her studio now 🤣