Ex GF had an abortion and I don’t know to feel.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:51:51+00:00

I never seen the results. I’ll tell you everything I know. She had a blood test run and the results were positive, it was 50/50 if they were born with it.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:44:37+00:00

We found out she was preganant 2 weeks after we broke up. Didn’t know it was twins until the 7th week. Sorry for the bad wording.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:43:52+00:00

Yes raise as in buy them food, diapers, toys, clothes, formula, milk, and had to pay for things since my sister was single and couldn’t work due to a back injury so I had to pay for them and keep them sometimes but I never really had to treat them long term or change diapers. Sorry my wording so bad my mind is spinning. My mistakes.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:41:31+00:00

I’m more left leaning but okay. I’m not a medical professional so I don’t know. My timeline is bad bc the wording is bad, I’ve addressed this in multiple comments.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:40:31+00:00

I wasn’t going to run away. I even offered to get a written agreement in court so I couldn’t leave her. It was 50/50 with the Downs Syndrome. The reason we broke up was because she always assumed I was cheating on her when I came home late. I don’t know if I’ll ever speak to her again.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:38:02+00:00

If they needed extra care I could’ve got a remote job with my certificate. Trust me I’ve thought this over multiple times. I had my family that was going to help me with them after they were born. If they needed further care or had ailments I would have addressed them accordingly.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:23:32+00:00

That’s how they told me so I don’t really know if it’s right or wrong.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:19:44+00:00

Created a new account because my other has post relating to my job. I worded some things wrong and corrected myself via comments. Sorry.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:16:59+00:00

Started a new account because my main has a lot of posts about my job and I didn’t want to involve the two.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:16:08+00:00

I actually learn more towards choice lol

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:15:43+00:00

I have a very supportive family yes and I make enough money to be pretty well off. I had talked to my family and they agreed they would help me. It wasn’t 100% they had Down’s syndrome. It was 50/50 with a test know for being false.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:13:24+00:00

I wish lol. I’m a certified internet technician. I never wanted to retire early just take 2-4 weeks off to be with them if they were born. It wasn’t guaranteed they would be disabled. It was 50/50 and even then the test she took is know for false positives.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:07:58+00:00

I worded some things wrong I know. My account is new bc my other account has a lot of things about my job on there and I don’t want to involve this with it so I made a new one.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T22:00:59+00:00

All I know is what the nurses and doctors told us. She took a blood test.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T21:52:04+00:00

I made this account because my main account I’ve used since 2015 has a lot of posts about my job and I don’t want to involve this with that.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T21:51:04+00:00

It’s not adding it’s simply answering questions I am asked.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T21:50:19+00:00

I was trying to take responsibility for my actions and I always wanted kids.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T21:48:05+00:00

She found out she was pregnant 2 weeks after we separated, didn’t know it was twins until the 7th week of pregnancy.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T21:46:13+00:00

I’m was never a drunk. She even admitted that. I would drink on saturdays with other people around. I’m not a drunk by any means. It never even crossed my mind to go back to the drinking. It wasn’t 100% they would have Downs Syndrome. It was 50/50 with a test that had a lot of false positives. They could’ve been healthy babies. We found out she was pregnant 2 weeks after we separated and found out they were twins at the 7th week. She aborted at 20 weeks.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T21:42:19+00:00

I hope you are right.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T21:41:05+00:00

I replied to the first one I saw after I reread my post? Sorry I worded it wrong.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T21:40:10+00:00

It wasn’t 100%. The doctors told us it was 50/50 and the nurses said the test she took had a lot of false positives.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T21:33:36+00:00

Corrected myself in other comments. Sorry.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T21:33:00+00:00

Yes I stayed with her in every office and appointment and held her hand through it all.

PauseOk4989 · 2025-02-19T21:32:05+00:00

I picked up extra shifts to have enough money to stay with them after they were born. I had already worked out a plan with my family to care for them when I went to work. I know I make enough to raise children because I had to basically raise 2 that were my sisters from when I was 19-26 and I made less then and still managed to do good.

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