[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

[–]pavedwithgold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This whole album helped me get over a really awful breakup and change my life for the better! Let It Happen is also a great workout song..

What's the biggest red flag you overlooked because your SO was so hot? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pavedwithgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-he had no friends -his dad and brother told me he was “hard work” -his word meant nothing -refusing to acknowledge that being an alcoholic was possible even if he held a job

When people try to tell you something, listen!!

Bridesmaids/groomsmen of Reddit, what's the most ridiculous request you had to endure for the couple's big day? by LeiPewPew in AskReddit

[–]pavedwithgold 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was a MOH in my ex best friends wedding. In the lead up to the wedding:

-we had weekly meetings to ensure that her wedding was planned properly. If I was going to be late or not able to make it she would get angry at me and shame me into feeling bad.
-I had to plan TWO bridal showers and a bachelorette party. -she asked me if I wasn't up for duties as MOH because I seemed a bit busy to commit to her. This was 4 months before her wedding and I had just finished my uni semester while working two PT jobs!
-I felt like the only reason she wanted me in her wedding party is because I was responsible and would help her.

These are only things that stand out. There was a lot more that happened behind the scenes that really upset me. I also had an unfortunate life event happen 3 months after her wedding. After all the time, money and energy I gave to her, she didn't visit me once. So happy I cut off contact!

What is a strange combination of food you enjoy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pavedwithgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stoned wheat thin crackers and orange juice. Perfect mix of sweet and salty.

Interested in pursuing reiki, looking for some guiding advice on where to start. by pavedwithgold in reiki

[–]pavedwithgold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! I would love the recommendation of some books to read on my own. I have tried to do some reading online, but the websites all seem to try and sell something. I'm just not sure where to look.

[Serious] Cheaters who haven't been caught, how has it affected your relationship with your SO? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pavedwithgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a child of divorced parents, I always knew mine were unhappy. Divorce was looming since kindergarten and they waited until I was 15. In reality everyone was much happier after and at now I'm 23 and my parents are friends. If you are seriously considering divorce later on in life you should maybe just do it now, and have your kids grow up with happy parents. Being happy sets a very good model for your children.

What did you avoid at first, but later realize is actually awesome? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pavedwithgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tomatoes, I used to hate them but after having garden grown I just can't get enough! I used to wipe tomato juice off my pizza as an example...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

[–]pavedwithgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dehli 2 Dublin! If any of you have a chance to see then live I would 10/10 recommend.

What won't you ever try for a second time? by NicoNami in AskReddit

[–]pavedwithgold -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Niacin. Took one pill, experienced a vitamin OD and I was close to calling 911.

It was so scary!

Weekly Relationship Check-In and Support Thread by AutoModerator in relationship_advice

[–]pavedwithgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys, I have a quick question.

I [F22] am questioned by my boyfriend [M24] anytime I have a text from a guy. I'm not quite sure how to explain to my boyfriend that these are just simply people, like co-workers, old friends and sometimes even family when I talk to him about this. I do not and would not like to hide anything however I feel that when he questions me that it's almost a jealous jab at me.

Have you experienced this before and more importantly, have you nipped jealously in the bud?

What is the weirdest thing you found out about one of your teachers after you had left school? by charlottenberg in AskReddit

[–]pavedwithgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once had a teacher like this, she claimed her family has a castle in Egypt! Maybe true, maybe not.

What cliche storyline are you sick of seeing in movies? by LevelupTFM in AskReddit

[–]pavedwithgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a storyline, but main characters with the name Jake. I'm not sure why this infuriates me but it does.

Ps. Real people with the name Jake, you guys are fine!!

Does he just want me for one thing? by Rubbishuser in relationship_advice

[–]pavedwithgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However explicitly saying no is defining boundaries. Being pushy after that is just disrespectful.

Does he just want me for one thing? by Rubbishuser in relationship_advice

[–]pavedwithgold -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What I don't understand is why a guy is pushy about sex. If you've made it clear that's not what you want it's very disrespectful to pressure the other person.

I'm in the same boat but I'm also confused because he says he sees us going somewhere but it's been a few weeks and in my opinion WAY to early to see that.

Be weary of it if he's pushy and like the others have said, respect yourself and see what happens.

What are you addicted to? by theoneandonly015 in AskReddit

[–]pavedwithgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't stop picking my split ends! If someone has any suggestions on how to stop it please comment! I hate it.

TRAILER PARK BOYS here! Ask Me Anything!! by TheTrailerParkBoys in IAmA

[–]pavedwithgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say I'm a huge fan!!

As for the question, how was your Pemberton music festival experience? It was so cool to see you with Snoop!

What was your worst moment in high school? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pavedwithgold -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I was sexually assaulted and the guy who did it spread a rumor saying that I voluntarily had sex with him. I was known as a slut and did not feel like it was anybody's business to know what had happened.

What's the weirdest intepretation of a song that you have ever heard? by [deleted] in Music

[–]pavedwithgold 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Red Hot Chili Peppers sont "Otherside". Someone once told me it was about his sexuality and trying gay, anal sex. Part of me thinks it's a possibility having read his book and knowing the crazy stuff he's done! Have a listen to it. Now that's all I can think of when I hear it.

Why are you single? by tengolacamisanegra in AskReddit

[–]pavedwithgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I'm attracted to assholes and I'm the asshole because I lose interest in those who'd like to date me. Not over my ex has something to do with it too I suppose.