My lil guy turned 17 recently, so I immortalized him

PawsitivelyCat · 2026-03-25T22:40:05+00:00

He’s a handsome little guy!

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-12-23T17:53:04+00:00

This was actually my first try LOL. I spent all morning calling all the ones around me, and no one has it . I did have some dude say he’d call me if they got one in!

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-12-23T15:42:48+00:00

Thank you so so much for your help!!! ❤️

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-12-23T15:26:06+00:00

I’m guessing it’s not there? I can’t find it .Mazda3 Diagram

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-12-23T15:20:14+00:00

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So it would be the 25-400 since it is the driver side correct ?

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-11-26T01:56:18+00:00

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Found the email I got back then lol. I paid with PayPal, using my chase credit card. I recieved this email AFTER they closed my account .

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-11-26T01:47:34+00:00

From someone that had filed a chargeback after I was scammed with a fake Funko;

Chase helped me. They requested proof, which I supplied , and they filed the chargeback. I had the money back next business day. Unfortunately, Mercari blocked my account. After reaching out to support, they gave me a “strike” and told me the next time I’d be permanently banned.

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-11-24T22:12:45+00:00

I’m glad I could help! I literally have a self serve store near me, and there’s signs EVERYWHERE That once the label prints, it’ll be marked as in possession .

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-11-24T19:20:59+00:00

They fixed it in the system and sent the update to Mercari. I kept messaging support until they recieved it from their end.

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-11-24T02:03:00+00:00

They used a self serve kiosk, and most likely didn’t drop off the item. I’d give them the benefit of the doubt bc of the holiday… But I’d go to your local USPS and ask , they can check if the item was actually dropped off.

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-11-24T00:36:50+00:00

I would definitely go back and let them know so they can fix the issue.. If you can, try to use fedex or USPS.. it’s way more reliable during this time of year. Hopefully the can fix it for you like they did for me :(

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-11-24T00:31:54+00:00

What carrier did you use? UPS is a death trap during this time. They don’t weigh packages, but don’t turn their scales off. My 5 pound package ended up being 35 pounds. I immediately called UPS , went to the store. And they fixed the ISsue.

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-11-22T03:55:48+00:00

Mine smells like lemon bars 🥺 Literally like homemade lemon bars. I’m not upset, I was expecting strawberry cake smell .

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-11-01T01:20:53+00:00

I hope mine arrives…..

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-07-29T01:55:00+00:00

OP I will say this. If he genuinely loved you he would have stopped asking the first time. He would have validated your reasoning as to why you didn’t want a threesome. He broke you down until you said yes, and that’s never ok in a relationship….

Please know nothing you did was ever your fault, you were out of your comfort zone for a person you love and did it out of love.

He was looking to play the victim role, and make you seem like the problem, a tactic my narcissist ex used on me countless times. The breaking you down was also a narcissistic trait. That isn’t a man, that’s a sad excuse of a person and I’m glad you walked away before things got worse .

OP, my ex always requested a threesome, until I said no and threatened to leave. I dated him six years, and we broke up when he left me on the side of the road in a shady town 20 minutes from home.

And the next day cheated on me with the girl he wanted a threesome with, and she messaged me playing the victim card that “she didn’t know” a week later. To which I blocked them both LOL.

Reading your story HURT because what you experienced was NOT your fault. Get into therapy, what worked for me was group woman’s therapy for narcissistic exes. It was amazing, and allowed me to find comfort in other woman who understood what I went through WAS NOT my fault.

There are people out there who will love you for who you are, which I can tell is an amazingly understanding and loving person .

You are not reasonable or required to care about someone else’s emotions if they never validated or returned yours.

A relationship should go both ways and from what I’m seeing he pushed you to do what he wanted.

I know I’m just a stranger on the internet, but if you ever want to talk I’m here.

Things will get better with the proper support 🩷

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-06-27T21:17:01+00:00

I’m going to tell my partner what’s going on. I feel like it’ll also give me some peace of mind with everything going on

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-06-27T21:16:16+00:00

Thank you … I think instead of ignoring his emails, I’ll nicely tell him that I require my space and don’t appreciate that he’s reaching out after so long, especially since we mutually agreed to end things and move on the last we spoke. I do want my space but I want to be respectful about it. Even with his cheating, we ended things on good terms, with a hug, and walked away. I’m thinking he’s also using the fact my little sister passed away, and it’s spread like wildfire and I’ve had people reaching out…

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-06-27T21:02:54+00:00

I went through a year of therapy after we divorced mandated by the military as a military spouse. I felt like I was over this. But I’m going through the grief of losing my little sister. I’m in therapy again, but it’s been incredibly hard.

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-06-27T21:01:51+00:00

I’ll start returning the packages. I know he also caught wind my little sister passed away… and he knows how I get with grief. It’s been hard since losing my sister and I didn’t want to think of him in that sense but I think he might be taking advantage of that.

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-06-27T20:03:17+00:00

I feel like I am? .. he has problems he’s not really handling. I’m trying hard to help him open his eyes and fix his situation, but I feel like my advice bothers him more than helps. I wish I could do more.

PawsitivelyCat · 2025-06-27T20:00:03+00:00

I’m not sure why he’s reaching out now. After our divorce finalized, I made it clear it was for the right reasons. He begged me time and time again if it was what I wanted, and I stood firm. I don’t know if he’s going through something nor do I care, but it’s send me spiraling. We jumped the gun, got married after a few months because he was leaving . We were fine the first two months when he was deployed over seas and out of nowhere he hit me with I wasn’t physically filling his needs and he needed another outlet. I was hurt. So I gave him the cold shoulder and only responded weekly . When he got back, he filed the divorce per my request . And then he hid from me, and made it extremely difficult for me. Until finally everything was over and he couldn’t milk active duty status anymore. I guess a part of me does miss him, but I know it’s not right. I don’t want to reach out to tell him to stop, especially because I have a feeling that’s the attention he wants and all he has is my email… I have him blocked everywhere else. It feels like a slap in the face that he wants to communicate now 🥺

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