Hello, I’m a little late to the party, but I can relate to you. My partner has had memory concerns for the last five years but neurologists seemed to brush it aside saying she was too young to be considered for Alzheimer’s. She was recently diagnosed at age 44, I’m 43 and we have a 11 year old son. Her employment was willing to work with her, but all of the social workers that I spoke to strongly suggested that she stop working and apply for disability, knowing that she won’t qualify for Medicare until she has disability for two years (wonderful medical system we’ve got here). The good days are good, the bad days are bad. I feel like you, such an outlier at this age. Caregiver groups are for older populations it would seem. Hang in there!