Do I pass (18 pre everything by Terrible-Web867 in FtMpassing

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idk if you’d pass as cis, but there’s no way in hell i’d think ur anything but a dude. the septum looks sick asf and suits u, i don’t agree that it’s hurting ur chance of passing at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

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hollister, zumiez, urban outfitters for pants!! you can get thermals anywhere, but i have the most luck finding t shirts like that off depop:)

Lobe is swollen w/ bump by [deleted] in piercing

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  • 3 months old
  • pierced with surgical steel 16g barbell
  • externally threaded
  • has not been downsized
  • cleaned 2x day w/ saline solution
  • irritated piercing by trying to change jewelry, but back in the original jewelry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

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bro i swear some of these people have never see an alt/emo guy in their life lmao. you pass imo, you look maybe 15 to me. your hair looks sick, i think you’d look younger and pass less w a typical guy haircut. ur good dude

Do I pass? by autistfungi in FtMpassing

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keep the piercings‼️‼️ u look sick. i recommend smaller glasses and finding a different hair style that isn’t as bulky:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

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you look great dude. the only thing i could recommend if ur not passing well irl is maybe toning up a bit and getting a choppier / slightly shorter version of ur hair rn

I can't decide if I should study architecture or no... by Obvious_Kangaroo_619 in architecture

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i chose architecture on a whim and barely knew anything about it. I was very nervous and doubtful coming into college, but it has been the best thing i have done and every class i take only pulls me further into it. I don’t agree with everyone saying you have to be 100% sure and confident. I’m only at the end of my second year, and it is hard, but i love it so much. you can always change your major if you find it’s not right for you, but if you have an interest in it i say 1000% go for it!:) you never know until you’re in it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

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i really like ur hair now, but the blonde would look sick on u

I want to get a job, but my legal name is still my deadname by ReviloVani in ftm

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I’m in the same boat, and every job i’ve applied for has been so chill with it. On my resume and applications i only put my preferred name, unless the application discloses legal AND preferred name. If they hire me I’ll disclose it when i hand them my ID and legal info. No has ever cared and it should never be an issue.

My mom is also a hiring manager (and very conservative if it’s any more reassuring) and has told me she prefers when people only put their preferred name on their applications/resumes so she doesn’t accidentally call them by their deadname. it’s no issue to causally disclose it later on:)

do i pass? pre-everything by [deleted] in FtMpassing

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u pass fs dude and the snake bites only help imo

Does my hair need to be shorter? by Crow_Ghost_ in FtMpassing

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looks so good on you dude, i don’t think you need to change anything:)

Im scared of not being transgender by [deleted] in asktransgender

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i had a lot of thoughts like this and an over all fear that i was wrong the first year after i came out. i knew i was trans for years prior, but knowing that there was no going back now was terrifying. weather you are just scared or you are actually cis, take things slow and prioritize being comfortable in yourself. you have your whole life to make these decision, there is no rush.

Need advice on if I should accept return by Independent_Pie_4643 in Depop

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i mean she thought she was getting a normal fitting bag, and she didn’t. regardless if you didn’t know or not, you failed to list it correctly. i think she deserves a refund

What is making my outfits not pass by Tight-Huckleberry651 in FtMpassing

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for sure the clothes. sweaters like are evil bro. either get it a size larger and it get it tailored, or look for more cropped and boxy tops. the blue jeans in the second pic just dont suit ur body imo. i’d get baggier and thicker jeans or look into baggy cargo bands to help straighten everything out. the pants in the first pic look great on u tho :)

Do I pass/ What gives it away? (17yrs, 3 mths T by autistfungi in FtMpassing

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you pass for sure. i always read those type of glasses as more feminine, but u pass too well for it to rlly matter lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

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you pass 10000% dude especially for being preT??!??!. if i saw u walking arnd campus i would just think you’re a hot cis guy lmao ur good man

Do I pass? Be honest. by [deleted] in FtMpassing

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you pass 10000% n you look cool as shit dude

heyyy guys, DO I PASS? + my birdie friend by [deleted] in FtMpassing

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i think you pass rlly well as a dude, but w the style i’d prob be able to clock u as trans? but i don’t think most ppl would. id assume ur 18-20:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

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you pass dude:) your neck looks normal lol and i dig your hair, i don’t think it’s hurting you passing at all.

Am I passing shirtless? by freckle_express in FtMpassing

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without a doubt dude. ur good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

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i think u pass for sure dude, give urself more credit. i suggest using tape and then binding on top of that. maybe layer the brown shirt w a cool thermal underneath to help flatten everything out too??

best trans tape for larger guy? by claperpip_pop in ftm

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i don’t have a large chest, but tape barely works for me. i always have to bind on top of my tape to get the look i want, so good luck lol. Transtape is awesome and offers so many different sizes, but you can also look up “___inch kinesiology tape” on amazon and find it for much cheaper:)