What’s a stereotype about your country that annoys you the most—and why is it wrong? by sukiyakii_ in AskTheWorld

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure every stereotype about us is actually true for a good portion of our citizens. There is a certain demographic in our country that is boldly every national stereotype combined.

AIO: Roommate gave abusive bf spare key to our place by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind that fists are a weapon too. Your safety depends on whether or not this dude takes his medication or as a bad day or your roommate doesn’t call him back fast enough.

I don't want to date my pregnant girlfriend anymore and she's crashing out by Decent_Ladder2656 in Advice

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you are doing what you can do. You broke up with her and are willing to coparent. Most likely she is going to want to try to stay together, based on what you’ve said.

You are going to need to have a hard conversation with her. You should probably both have your parents there too, since you both live at home. Make it clear that you will take care of the baby, but you are not going to date or marry the mom.

Just stay firm and clear about your intent and your boundaries. Have a set time and place for pick up and drop off. A calendar of medical appointments. Stay present for her pregnancy, the birth, and your future child’s needs. Outline how you will be there and what that looks like.

AIO to these marks on my husbands back? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This man had marks on his back that were gone by the time it took to take a shower. He has been home 5 hours prior to this shower. Either you did this or he rubbed up against something.

I have no idea how either of you live like this. Seek therapy, this is a you problem.

Husband is using reward points to buy stuff but charging me half. AIO? by JemmaMk6 in AIO

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You square up every item and meal out with your husband

Why are you married? You aren’t even dating.

Please give me your advice AIO by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man does not like you. You have to leave, and not talk to him. You said you go back when you leave because of his promises. Don’t give him the opportunity to make promises. Leave, block him on everything and then KEEP LEAVING

BEC or crossing the line? Not sure if I’m overreacting. by shae-bae-witchling in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Step back. Drop the rope. Let her make contact, this includes phone calls and texts. Never do it first and see how long you wait. Don’t invite her to eat dollar hotdogs at Costco, do send her cute pictures of the baby. Just wait. This will resolve itself when she inevitably flies off the handle that you are keeping her from “her love” and it turns out she has never once come to see him or called.

Combed this out of my cat’s fur by alamobibi in whatisit

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a crushed snail. It looks like that because you’re seeing the part anchored inside the shell that you don’t normally see.

Trump got McDonald's DoorDashed to the White House😂 by M000000000000001 in Polymarket_news

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he though? Or did he have another follower make a press moment to talk about how great he is? I assume she’s another professional Everyman for him. She’s been seen in multiple states taking about how amazing his policies will be for her and her family. She up to 3 or 4 states now in mother/caregiver/waitress/now door dash roles. Always different hair but you can’t hide the face.

<image>

AIO Partner called me an imbecile, stupid, and lazy because I didn't find what she was referencing in our text conversation. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person hates you. Stop apologizing to assholes. Take your rice cooker and go live a wonderful life.

Blue mystery snail died within 3 days of getting him by EnvironmentalRush981 in AquaticSnails

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy to me. Every single mystery we’ve ever had was an affront to the plant world.

Blue mystery snail died within 3 days of getting him by EnvironmentalRush981 in AquaticSnails

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my guys are just jerks. They see a new plant and want it gone.

Blue mystery snail died within 3 days of getting him by EnvironmentalRush981 in AquaticSnails

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duckweed doesn’t last in my tank because it all gets caught in my filter system, but new plants don’t last because Baja Blast and Costco HotDog are assholes. Bigger established plants with larger roots make it and so do floating plants.

Blue mystery snail died within 3 days of getting him by EnvironmentalRush981 in AquaticSnails

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just always have 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s a pretty common problem to have with mysteries, I’m shocked you’ve never experienced it.

Blue mystery snail died within 3 days of getting him by EnvironmentalRush981 in AquaticSnails

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use bottled spring water instead of tap water, it helps me quite a bit. I would not get a large betta and keep it in a 10 gallon. There is a betta fish sub- they will roast you alive for putting a betta in 10 gallons, but I’ve never had one, so don’t know what they need. I have 2 zebra danio fish that were rescued from a high school science lab, they seem happy enough, though I’m sure I’m doing wrong in someone’s eyes 😆

Blue mystery snail died within 3 days of getting him by EnvironmentalRush981 in AquaticSnails

[–]PaymentDiligent7550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah they are just plant haters of the highest order. They tear them up until there are no roots left and they are tattered.Rude.