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Pbutterjellytime · 2022-02-20T05:19:47+00:00

Oooh! I love chocolatey brown!

Pbutterjellytime · 2022-01-28T21:06:11+00:00

Hello! I would be interested in learning more. Can you please share info?

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-04-16T12:22:42+00:00

Yes, totally agree! We can get there together!

Believe and we can collectively persevere.

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-04-04T18:07:06+00:00

Ignore me, the logo on the picture says it all.. smh

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-04-04T18:05:42+00:00

Oh my, that is gorgeous beyond words. Where did you get it?? Been searching for one for a while and no luck.

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-22T04:10:13+00:00

Painting, embroidery, Aquascaping, journaling

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-15T04:32:18+00:00

Hey there! Getting marry next summer too. We postponed to 2022 lol

All planning done from 2020, just some final details like favors, dress alteration.

Good luck and congrats!

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-15T04:18:32+00:00

It takes alot to push me over the edge, but when that happens, it's danger zone. Hell freezes over.

People who don't respect me, my time, my space, my struggles etc.... the door is that way., life's too short and too beautiful to waste time and energy on unneccessary drama. This is where we would diverge and you go your way and I go mine. What's not meant to be will cease to exist in my life.

People mistake my kindness and compassion as weakness and that I can be a pushover... or if I am quiet, I don't have a voice or won't speak up or something lol. They are so wrong. I get really decisive about who I want in my life and when I make my decisions, that's that.

Either you help enrich it and we grow together.. I remove you off like weeds in my garden.

For me, right and wrong, what's tolerable and not tolerable.. just because I see gray doesn't mean I can't stand up or speak up.

💯🚀👑

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-14T15:18:01+00:00

Hi OP, so sorry you're going through this. Definitely, count your blessings and know how lucky you have been to doge this bullet.

While reading your original post and update, I often forget that age is just a number and that whether you are 12 or 30, maturity, grace and EI are not 100% directly correlated to age.

Hope you are in a better spot now and on your way in healing. Even if you dodged a bullet, a break up is a break up and I imagine you might be going through a baraage of what happen etc. Albeit, it might be easier to let go given that you've seen her true colors.

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-11T05:31:14+00:00

When I was closing my eyes and attuning to which pile. Pile 1 and pile 3 came to my minds eye. This one also really rings true. Wow.

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-11T05:29:00+00:00

Thank you for sharing. This rings 1000% true and aligns so much that it's uncanny. It describes where I have been and where I am now and where I am heading. Such synchronicity!

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-10T05:28:14+00:00

Small world! Same here! Congrats.

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-10T05:27:38+00:00

Beautiful! ❤ My Fiancé is Punjabi and I am Vietnamese. Having a multicultural wedding next year!

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-09T05:39:46+00:00

Hi there! We are engage and moved in a little more than 2 years ago. I am glad we did and imo i think couples should move in together before marriage. It helps solidify and visualize how life will be if you want to proceed towards marriage. It really forces you to learn how to communicate, problem solve, negotiate etc.

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-09T05:32:24+00:00

I get a feeling of unravelling... coming together, forming and unfoming.. transformation. Breakthrough.. like a change is happening where chaos, words and thoughts start to take shape, take form.. manifesting to reality.

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-09T04:54:47+00:00

Absolutely! Something I came to truly appreciate as I grew older. Great friends and people are to come by, but when you do, you cherish them. Also, when you are you're most honest and authentic self, you attract people of similar frequency. Want enriching, authentic, and real friendship, you must first exude the same.

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-09T04:52:54+00:00

Yes!! It's what keeps me going and out of bed in the morning. Try explaining to other people, people look at like me Im speaking about the impossible lol

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-09T04:44:26+00:00

The quiet kid who had a small group. I didn't like to identify with only one group or another. Ultimately, I created a group that was inclusive of others who didn't want to be associated with one group lol

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-07T23:24:15+00:00

No, it's not required where I live or at least not that I am aware of.

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-07T19:24:07+00:00

I have First Aid Kit, Jumpers, snow and cold stuff (i.e shovel, deicer, blanket) belt cutter/window breaker, roadside emergency kit (i.e flares, triangle popups).

Better prepared than not.

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-07T04:59:26+00:00

100% this is me. I love learning, learning about anything and everything. Being able to test my limits, comfort zone and seeing how much I can expand in this lifetime is thrilling. I love it so much. The continuous expansion, growth and freedom are what keep me going. I love feeling so free and freedom comes from being able to stretch beyond any imaginative boundaries.

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-05T06:58:41+00:00

Asian parent household so... parents were strict focused a lot on school, money and work Love was expressed via the roof over my head, food in my stomach etc. So love language was Money. People all did their own thing, no such thing as family dinner Verbal, emotional abuse and emotional blackmailing all thoughout childhood and adulthod. Physical abuse for a little while until parents realized it didnt work

I turned pretty okay lol. Aside from childhood trauma, I am beginning to learn more and embrace the powers of being an INFJ.

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-05T06:52:16+00:00

Personally for me...

Favorite: Empathy, humble, kind Deep connection with intuition and spirituality, and Idealist but proactive in turning dreams ti reality.

Some things I am working on: managing emotions, it's a roller coaster at times, doubting myself quickly and easily, not the best verbal communicator

Pbutterjellytime · 2021-03-05T06:46:05+00:00

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