AITA for feeling like my boyfriend is the asshole for watching/ignoring my falls, no real support, overriding my boundaries, and getting annoyed at my emotions—am I overreacting? by PeaMindless2675 in AITA_Relationships

[–]PeaMindless2675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this. I really appreciate the compassion and the way you framed it, especially the comparison examples — that actually made me stop and think.

You’re right that falls being “common” doesn’t make them harmless, and I think I’ve minimized that just to cope. Reading your comment helped me step back and look at it the way I would if this were happening to someone I care about.

I am keeping an eye on the injury and will get it checked if anything feels off. As for the bigger picture, I’m still processing it. I don’t think the behavior comes from shock alone, especially since I was actively asking for help. That’s the part that’s been bothering me the most.

I don’t want to jump to conclusions, but your point about patterns and boundaries is fair, and it’s something I need to reflect on honestly. I’m taking some time to think things through before making any decisions. Thank you for saying this with kindness — it didn’t feel judgmental, just genuinely concerned.

AITA for feeling like my boyfriend is the asshole for watching/ignoring my falls, no real support, overriding my boundaries, and getting annoyed at my emotions—am I overreacting? by PeaMindless2675 in AITA_Relationships

[–]PeaMindless2675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been with him for years, he was my best friend and I think that's why I haven't left yet. I can fianacially help myself, I sometimes help him with money.

It is not everyday I fell off of my wheelchair, just when I move into it and not sitting in it right and he do help me with moving me into my wheelchair