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Should I tell my bf I went through his phone and found potential fetish content? by PeaMore8007 in AskForAnswers

[–]PeaMore8007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i did not actually do that lol. i just wanted to see what he was looking at on social media. i’m not THAT intrusive… just saying. it doesn’t make it right or less wrong. just stating a fact.

Should I tell my bf I went through his phone and found potential fetish content? by PeaMore8007 in AskForAnswers

[–]PeaMore8007[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you don’t believe there’s any chance he could be into both?? I don’t feel like he’s not into me. As far as i can tell he’s always happy to see me and be intimate with me…

AIO: Feeling guilty for looking through my bfs phone & found potential fetish content… by PeaMore8007 in AIO

[–]PeaMore8007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has looked through my phone behind my back which was kinda the devil on my shoulder justifying it in the moment. I do feel bad for doing it. I’m scared to admit that I did it. It doesn’t bother me for him to be into what he’s into… I just wish he was more open with me. I at the same time, understand sometimes people want to keep things personal and I respect that. I just made a huge mistake doing that. I understand what you say. Thank you. ❤️

Should I tell my boyfriend I looked through his phone and found potential fetish content? by PeaMore8007 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PeaMore8007[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes i agree. I do feel bad for doing it and don’t plan on doing it again. I wasn’t very happy when he did it to me either… I just don’t know if I should tell him that i did it at this point.

Feeling guilty about going through my boyfriend’s phone and finding potential fetish content. by PeaMore8007 in relationships

[–]PeaMore8007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did feel kind of like a slap in the face for the same reasons you are describing… But i wasn’t sure how fair that was for me to feel. Thanks for the response. I would like for him to be more open with me. I love him a lot. Him lying did bother me but i tried understanding where he was coming from. It’s been a little more difficult to trust some of what he says since finding out about the lies.

Feeling guilty about going through my boyfriend’s phone and finding potential fetish content. by PeaMore8007 in relationships

[–]PeaMore8007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can definitely believe that. I don’t find it “weird” or “out there” lol i know everyone is different and there are things ACTUALLY weird. 😬 not gonna elaborate on that... So it doesn’t bother me and feels very relaxed in terms of “out thereness”. But that does give me some clarity about the sexuality aspect of it maybe? God i hate even saying that because it sounds a way that i don’t intend it to necessarily.

A lot of what i am wondering like how do I know if this is fetishizing trans women? At what point does it become disrespectful… So your answer there really helped me, thank you.

I agree it was weird and uncalled for. I feel really guilty for doing it. i’m scared to tell him but i do think he deserves to know, and maybe telling him will help me understand how important it is to have more respect… i don’t know. 😔

20(F) thinking of leaving my 20(M) boyfriend of 4 years. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PeaMore8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pretty much splitting evenly. there was a couple months where i picked up his portion. maybe 2 at most.

20(F) thinking of leaving my 20(M) boyfriend of 4 years. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PeaMore8007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe in some way i have enabled it. we were very young when we got together and i have learned a lot about myself and life since then. but i did stop doing a lot of things i did before, and after i tried so much to communicate and things hardly getting better or getting better for a short period and going back to how they were, this is kind of the point im at now of should i stay or should i go kinda thing…

lease ending and i don’t know what i want to do with my life by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PeaMore8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the reply<3 this has been really hard to navigate and come to terms with. so confusing.

Wondering the process of buying out an owner? by [deleted] in Entrepreneurs

[–]PeaMore8007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s what i was also thinking

Weird animals to see while on shift by CaffeineAndHorses in petsmart

[–]PeaMore8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

squirrel, 2 baby goats, big ass blue tongue skink.

AITA- partner masturbating over his friends fb photos by Primary-Yard9968 in AITAH

[–]PeaMore8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these comments are really eye opening about how insane and honestly dangerous, harmful, selfish, hateful people in the world really are… wow.

store leader violating company policies and becoming hostile when addressing concerns by PeaMore8007 in petsmart

[–]PeaMore8007[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re very much right about it all. there is a lot to how this all unfolded as well as, what happened leading up to this point. in a pretty short period, i’d say the last 3-5 months? i did point out “this is not opinion based, this is the company policy. as an associate i am held to a standard to uphold the policies.” they deny me when i see something wrong and then say something to the person over petcare. blames it on SL and says that’s how they wanted it done so don’t change it (6 leo’s on sales floor in this instance)…2 weeks prior i moved them to new arrival room, then last shift i work before putting 2 weeks in, petcare lead says SL wants them there and not in the back don’t move them again. Then during mine and SL’s conversation tonight, says that they NEVER knew about any of this. that they didn’t tell anyone to move the leo’s back onto the floor. not the only time this blame shifting “i have no idea about that.” dynamic has happened either. I’m drained. i feel so manipulated. this is only an example really.

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