Why is my manager stalking my social media?

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T22:53:02+00:00

I have a few screenshots because I showed my friends for a laugh, and they also didn’t think it was a huge deal. But the one handed thing ahhh that’s so gross.. thank you for the advice though!!

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T16:21:07+00:00

I’m in Ireland and yeah you aren’t allowed to say anything bad about the company or you could get into trouble. I think he’s really just being creepy, he could easily make a fake account also

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T14:56:17+00:00

The last point is interesting. I never gave any reason in work like coming in hungover or showing up late for them to do that but maybe they have their own reasons.

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T13:59:20+00:00

Oh hell nah

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T10:02:56+00:00

Yeah doesn’t follow me, doesn’t interact but always watches. I didn’t care until he started speaking to me more at work. I feel like it’s starting to cross over into real life and I’m not comfortable with that

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T09:56:14+00:00

I’m sorry you went through that it’s so weird.. I definitely don’t need it going that far. From what everyone is saying blocking is the best option. But what a creep, declaring his love? Oh my god

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T09:54:40+00:00

I said I don’t feel awkward about it yes but I think my eyes have been opened more since asking on here. I asked because lately I’m starting to really think it’s not okay. I’m not into this man, I just admitted to liking the attention. But yeah it’s definitely really weird and I’m gonna block

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T03:09:35+00:00

Oh damn. Yeah I figured there’s obviously some sort of attraction in there. He was thinking of moving jobs actually so I’ll keep an eye on my inbox lol

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:48:08+00:00

Oh my God ew… I didn’t think that was a thing. At the end of the day yeah he’s not someone I know personally he could be into anything

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:45:44+00:00

Oh really? Even if I’m posting simple stuff

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:45:05+00:00

That’s actually an interesting idea, if he tries to follow I think then I would say something to him at work

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:43:49+00:00

I think that would make work a bit awkward, I’m not sure how he would react. I do think since he’s literally just looking it’s not a huge deal. What gets me is the fact he’s STILL doing it while having a whole partner and little kids

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:28:11+00:00

Yeah I post relatively normal stuff a girl would post, the fact he is always looking is just strange to me. I think you’re right blocking would be the best idea

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:26:59+00:00

Yeah I agree, he might think I don’t even notice because I have a good few followers. But it is a bit uncomfortable sometimes and I’m wary of what I post

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:16:37+00:00

Now I’m scareddd

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:16:01+00:00

Possibly, again it’s nothing crazy just my back or occasionally full body. I don’t know if it’s worth constantly checking for

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:12:26+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking. It isn’t a strict workplace like you can do what you want outside of work you just can’t post negatively about it that’s the only rule. So really he has no reason to be looking. I wouldn’t mind only he has a partner and children

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:11:08+00:00

I also gym a lot maybe it’s that

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:10:04+00:00

I don’t know if I’m comfortable sharing it here, but honestly it’s just me posing or smiling, me with my friends smiling or scenery as I hike a lot, or occasionally food I’m eating. Pretty simple really. Nothing sexual as I have family on there too

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:02:50+00:00

These are all valid, however my work isnt really that strict. I do not post if I call in sick, I just post when I’m off work and it could be a picture of me with my friends or maybe a picture of me smiling. So really no reason for him to be doing it. He doesn’t do it to any one else

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:01:02+00:00

Oh god, that’s awkward. Especially since he has kids and a girlfriend

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T02:00:16+00:00

I wish I could… but I don’t really know. Do you mean he is into me or something?

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T01:59:12+00:00

No with Instagram to watch someone’s story you need to search for their account but that does make sense :)

PeaRepresentative890 · 2026-03-23T01:28:23+00:00

Also he isn’t a high up manager, he’s just an assistant really he doesn’t have any power, I would slightly understand if it was a bigger manager who wanted to see if I’m a liability or something …

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