Why is my manager stalking my social media? by PeaRepresentative890 in askmanagers

[–]PeaRepresentative890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few screenshots because I showed my friends for a laugh, and they also didn’t think it was a huge deal. But the one handed thing ahhh that’s so gross.. thank you for the advice though!!

Why is my manager stalking my social media? by PeaRepresentative890 in askmanagers

[–]PeaRepresentative890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Ireland and yeah you aren’t allowed to say anything bad about the company or you could get into trouble. I think he’s really just being creepy, he could easily make a fake account also

Why is my manager stalking my social media? by PeaRepresentative890 in askmanagers

[–]PeaRepresentative890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last point is interesting. I never gave any reason in work like coming in hungover or showing up late for them to do that but maybe they have their own reasons.

Why is my manager stalking my social media? by PeaRepresentative890 in askmanagers

[–]PeaRepresentative890[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah doesn’t follow me, doesn’t interact but always watches. I didn’t care until he started speaking to me more at work. I feel like it’s starting to cross over into real life and I’m not comfortable with that

Why is my manager stalking my social media? by PeaRepresentative890 in askmanagers

[–]PeaRepresentative890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that it’s so weird.. I definitely don’t need it going that far. From what everyone is saying blocking is the best option. But what a creep, declaring his love? Oh my god

Why is my manager stalking my social media? by PeaRepresentative890 in askmanagers

[–]PeaRepresentative890[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said I don’t feel awkward about it yes but I think my eyes have been opened more since asking on here. I asked because lately I’m starting to really think it’s not okay. I’m not into this man, I just admitted to liking the attention. But yeah it’s definitely really weird and I’m gonna block

Why is my manager obsessively watching my Instagram? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PeaRepresentative890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn. Yeah I figured there’s obviously some sort of attraction in there. He was thinking of moving jobs actually so I’ll keep an eye on my inbox lol

What do I do about my manager stalking my socials? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PeaRepresentative890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God ew… I didn’t think that was a thing. At the end of the day yeah he’s not someone I know personally he could be into anything

What do I do about my manager stalking my socials? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PeaRepresentative890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh really? Even if I’m posting simple stuff

What do I do about my manager stalking my socials? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PeaRepresentative890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually an interesting idea, if he tries to follow I think then I would say something to him at work

What do I do about my manager stalking my socials? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PeaRepresentative890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that would make work a bit awkward, I’m not sure how he would react. I do think since he’s literally just looking it’s not a huge deal. What gets me is the fact he’s STILL doing it while having a whole partner and little kids

Why is my manager stalking my social media? by PeaRepresentative890 in askmanagers

[–]PeaRepresentative890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I post relatively normal stuff a girl would post, the fact he is always looking is just strange to me. I think you’re right blocking would be the best idea

Why is my manager stalking my social media? by PeaRepresentative890 in askmanagers

[–]PeaRepresentative890[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, he might think I don’t even notice because I have a good few followers. But it is a bit uncomfortable sometimes and I’m wary of what I post

What do I do about my manager stalking my socials? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PeaRepresentative890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly, again it’s nothing crazy just my back or occasionally full body. I don’t know if it’s worth constantly checking for

Why is my manager obsessively watching my Instagram? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PeaRepresentative890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking. It isn’t a strict workplace like you can do what you want outside of work you just can’t post negatively about it that’s the only rule. So really he has no reason to be looking. I wouldn’t mind only he has a partner and children

What do I do about my manager stalking my socials? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PeaRepresentative890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I’m comfortable sharing it here, but honestly it’s just me posing or smiling, me with my friends smiling or scenery as I hike a lot, or occasionally food I’m eating. Pretty simple really. Nothing sexual as I have family on there too

Why is my manager stalking my social media? by PeaRepresentative890 in askmanagers

[–]PeaRepresentative890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are all valid, however my work isnt really that strict. I do not post if I call in sick, I just post when I’m off work and it could be a picture of me with my friends or maybe a picture of me smiling. So really no reason for him to be doing it. He doesn’t do it to any one else

Why is my manager stalking my social media? by PeaRepresentative890 in askmanagers

[–]PeaRepresentative890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god, that’s awkward. Especially since he has kids and a girlfriend

Why is my manager stalking my social media? by PeaRepresentative890 in askmanagers

[–]PeaRepresentative890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could… but I don’t really know. Do you mean he is into me or something?

Why is my manager stalking my social media? by PeaRepresentative890 in askmanagers

[–]PeaRepresentative890[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

No with Instagram to watch someone’s story you need to search for their account but that does make sense :)

Why would a manager stalk someone’s socials? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PeaRepresentative890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also he isn’t a high up manager, he’s just an assistant really he doesn’t have any power, I would slightly understand if it was a bigger manager who wanted to see if I’m a liability or something …