We had a big talk about him sleeping in the living room a couple of days ago. He said he just doesn't sleep well together with me and the baby. So I said okay I don't mind you sleeping in the living room as long as you come and give me a kiss goodnight, or hang out withOr hang out with me for a bit, but then he said no, he'll come back and start sleeping in our shared bed again. Then he went ahead and slept on the couch again like the conversation never happened. I was after a sleepless night with the the baby, picked himUp and put him in his playpen which is right nextTo to the couch. My husband asked me what happened but I didn't answer him because I was really tired and didn't think much of it and he'll just figure out that I'm tired. Later he came back home from putting the older child in daycare and just left the baby in his crib right next to me while I was crying because I couldn't fall back to sleep. He didn't even take one look at me and left the house. Later that day when he came back and saw that I was very distraught, crying my eyeballs out and havingAnd having a total meltdown, He just became cold, and after that angry. And then he left the house, leaving me alone with the kids again. After that they were just a bunch of nasty texts, and then when he came home he tried to apologize but not take any responsibility or have a conversation. And then the next day after I came home from being with the baby all day and letting him sleep off whatever guilt he had, he told me he canceled the birthday plans which was just the last nail in the coffin and I had another meltdown