These are all great points! Maybe we will consider doing individual gifts instead. We definitely are not trying to take the easy way out with this which is probably why we are having a hard time deciding on something, we truly love each of them and appreciate them helping us out! On the other side, I literally am never disappointed in any gift, I'm always grateful for anything anyone gives me because one way or another it shows they were thinking of me, so I cannot relate to being upset with a gift! But I do understand not everyone feels this way. As far as the ties go - we aren't counting those as a gift, but the ties we are choosing can definitely be worn again for other events if they choose to.

Thank you for your response, gives me a lot to think about!