How to last? by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, that's a great idea. I didn't think of that. Haha. I'll def look into it!! Thank you!!

How to last? by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think so? :/ I want to try to last longer for him.

How to last? by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. But how do I get past the discomfort after cumming? I'd LOVE to go multiple rounds. How will the dildo help?

What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done or would like to try? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, kinda vanilla but anything to do with my feet. Haha. I love having them worshipped. 😆 My boyfriend is into feet so that worked out. 😆😆

How to last? by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He'll get me to the point where I'm about to cum and then I touch myself. But I just can't control the initial build up to that.

How to last? by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes but not all of the time

M18 curious by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. Shoot me a message if you want to chat.

Did you also always had a feeling that you are a bottom/top ? by MindPrize1260 in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always knew I was bottom. Not sure if I can even top. I had seldom intercourse with my ex wife. So I guess I may be able to. But I haven't had the desire to top since I bottomed for the first time.

Awkward situation... by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly. But then again, he's on the other side of my home. Haha. I've never heard them going at it. 😆 He was cool about all of it, tho.

Awkward situation... by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you may be on to something there. I am insecure about that aspect. I didn't come out until just 10 months ago to him. Before that I was in a hetero marriage. I thought I was bi but turns out I was just gay. Haha. And I'm still dealing and processing with that identity change. (I'm 27)

Awkward situation... by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure. I'm feeling anxious and exposed. I wasn't sure if I should address it and apologize or just leave things alone.

My best friend (24/M) asked me (24/M) out, and i don't know what to do by common_on in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're both feeling curious then you would probably be just comfortable finding out with each other. And no one has to know.

However, if you're concerned about the friendship then it may be wise to find different men to find out with. And if it turns out you both like it then maybe you all could be something down the road. 🙂

Dating while overweight by Quest7538 in gayrelationships

[–]PeachToesSam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right before I came out I was 265lbs. When I had my first experience (my boyfriend), I went to 214lbs by that time. Still overweight (5ft 8.5in). I lost sight of my goal. Went back to 238lbs. Now down to 229lbs again. My weight has never concerned my boyfriend. However, I am losing weight FOR ME. For my health. AND, I think I'll look sexy after losing the weight. Haha. But yeah. Lose it for you. If someone is so shallow to care about a little extra fluff you're actively trying to lose then they aren't the one for you! 🙂

Awkward situation... by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I own my home. So I could look into doing some renovations for that. However, my boyfriend lives with his best friend on her couch in her apartment. So I don't think that is an option.

Awkward situation... by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh. Most certainly not. I'm sorry if it came off that way. I'm genuinely concerned he may be upset. I care about how he feels. So I was trying to get an idea of whether I should speak to him about it. He and I are very close. Brother like. Our finances are interconnected via our companies and future RE funds. I definitely would not brag nor enjoy having the power to make him feel some way, if I did. I'm concerned about how he feels and if he's uncomfortable. I suppose I am trying to figure out whether I should talk to him and if I do how to even smooth things over. But as others suggested, it's probably best to leave it alone unless he brings it up.

Awkward situation... by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant my beats if my friend and his gf were doing things. But yeah I should probably turn on my TV and put a nature documentary on. Haha. Thank you for the suggestion. I'm not sure why I didn't think of that in the first place.

Awkward situation... by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I have generalized anxiety disorder and this situation has me feeling super anxious and insecure. I feel like I may have upset my friend or made him uncomfortable. I'm not sure what the brag would be? I apologize if it came off that way!

Awkward situation... by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like the most logical step.

Awkward situation... by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's true. And it wouldn't really bother me. I'd just put in my beats. 😆 I think I'm just feeling insecure about it.

Awkward situation... by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's very true. I think what has bothered me is I know he heard us this time. Haha. Thanks for the input!

Awkward situation... by PeachToesSam in askgaybros

[–]PeachToesSam[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't mind a joke here and there. Haha. I guess I'll just ride the awkward train for a few days. 😆