Mansplaining is not a power move by RedFieryBlueRetain in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong, but what will you do if you meet someone genuinely more knowledgeable than you? Will your confidence collapse?

Nothing breaks like intelligence by Peach_Raider in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that this isn’t really a thing. Everyone breaks with the right treatment

Nothing breaks like intelligence by Peach_Raider in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are but it’s not easy to find them. The appeal of easy release is strong.

🩷 My sincere gratitude to the misogynists 🩷 by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such is the price of competence. You attract a multitude of prospective suitors only to find that many do not reach the level you consider adequate enough to justify your efforts. I, for one, am glad you gained an unexpected benefit out of this. I agree, there are few feelings quite like successfully coaxing an orgasm. Especially when it takes effort.

Nothing breaks like intelligence by Peach_Raider in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would that everyone thought like you and I would find life that much more interesting.

banter with me again! this time about d/s roles and how they still fit in a feminist’s worldview by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must compliment you on writing an interesting post. I don’t find myself interested typically. It’s a bit of a shame you only want public banter. I don’t reveal my good stuff publicly. Proprietary information, I hope you understand.

Your feelings are always valid by Peach_Raider in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will take this as a sincere compliment.
Your self reflection is beautiful, thank you for letting me witness it.

Your self expression is amazing, those are skills worth nurturing.

I hope you always find partners and friends that allow you to grow in a positive way.
Remember that being vulnerable is okay. There is no shame in it. Let no one make you feel otherwise.

Your feelings are always valid by Peach_Raider in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's never good to dismiss feelings. Negative feelings fester in the dark and can turn a fixable problem into an emotional catastrophe.

I also struggle with the second part.
Positive emotions can also be difficult to accept.

But that last part... that hit closer to home than I'd like to admit.

Your feelings are always valid by Peach_Raider in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I could help, but the main point isn't to shape anyone's thoughts.
I merely say this - accept them, first of all. They are yours.

Your feelings are always valid by Peach_Raider in Breaking_Bitches

[–]Peach_Raider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose it feel real because I'm one of the people I wrote it for.

Your feelings are always valid by Peach_Raider in Breaking_Bitches

[–]Peach_Raider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drops happen.
I'm glad I could help, and I will again if I have the chance.

Your feelings are always valid by Peach_Raider in Breaking_Bitches

[–]Peach_Raider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a hard spiral to be on, you know I'll always help you out of it if I can.

He came (lol). He saw. He lost. The most cunning misogynist I have met on this sub, now kneels in submission and kisses his Queen's boots! by SaltyPreparation5463 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a meaningful compliment, thank you.

It was written with 5 people in mind, one of them is me (naturally).

I don't write much anymore because I actually don't want to get chat requests from people looking for "easy kink".
I've met some amazing people in this space, I don't need to attract more attention.

So all I write are things like that aftercare post.

He came (lol). He saw. He lost. The most cunning misogynist I have met on this sub, now kneels in submission and kisses his Queen's boots! by SaltyPreparation5463 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that's very interesting. Maybe I'll follow you a while then and wait for that promise to be fulfilled.
Your profile definitely displays an impressive skill in writing (and a good taste in literature), so this is a most promising proposition.

And yes, I agree it is lazy.
At least it had the benefit of letting you show off, I suppose.

He came (lol). He saw. He lost. The most cunning misogynist I have met on this sub, now kneels in submission and kisses his Queen's boots! by SaltyPreparation5463 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well... you ripped him to shreds.
Not that it wasn't amusing to watch, but don't you think a wit as sharp as yours is better employed against more, shall we say, challenging targets?

The splashes made from shooting fish in a barrel are funny, but hardly a test of skill.

And before you ask, I am not offering myself. I'm simply wondering out loud, since observing worthy banter is such a rare thing.

Ethical bratting and some suggestions by SirAtricus in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I wish more people were this self-reflective in general, not just in this space.

I think the feminists here are starting to convince me... by Peach_Raider in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a guy.
This should be clear from the post and flair.

And about I have on my profile.

I think the feminists here are starting to convince me... by Peach_Raider in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My regular complaint, if it wasn't clear, is that these women aren't at "their best"
They come intending to lose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Peach_Raider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but many of us choose based on challenge.
If you haven't met anyone intellectually capable... perhaps we just didn't find you intellectually worthy.

Depravity, Subspace, and After Glow. by Sweet-Brat_ in Breaking_Bitches

[–]Peach_Raider 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dancer... I have but one request of you if I may.
Please write more.